Molested at NYE countdown

[BernardFrosty]

Originally Posted by bubbles

Anyone sis had the experience of getting molested or bro's had gf got molested at countdown before?

What did you do when it happened and after it happened?

Just wanna share my story.

Was wearing a dress that day and some bangala lifted it up and touched inside. Lucky i was wearing shorts.

My male friends and i took the bangala aside to whack but got stopped by police. End up have to waste 2 hours waiting to give statement to the police regarding the molest. Is that the reason why people rather not report such cases?

What do bros out there think?

Yah, gone quite off topic with the flaming taking up most of the post in the thread. Revisiting TS questions - Any similar experience and what we think about the making a report to the police that will take 2 hours.

Taking the cue from the movie 罗生门 by the late Jap director 黑泽明 and being old enough to have 3 relating life experience. I'll share my 3 different perspective - The victim & friends, the policeman and the culprit.

The victim & friends
It was one of those Eve parties where I was with a mix group of friends celebrating in crowded Orchard Rd. At the peak of the celebration, one of my female friend screamed and complained that she was touched. Everybody was angry that one of our friend was violated and searching the area for the culprit. What was on everyone's minds - "If I catch you, I'm gonna give you a feast of my knuckles and imprint the sole of my shoes on your face !!!". Being crowded as it was, we can't find the culprit.

Finally one of the more outspoken girl spoke up : "Just let it be, can't find one lah. So crowded how to prove who is the one ? You ah (the victim), know we come to such a crowded place still wear until so skimpy. We cannot control other people's actions but we can control our own actions what. So don't increase the chances of getting into such a situation by dressing more appropriately mah."            

- Instinctive reaction is similar to Bubble & friends. It is not about innocence but about having some sensibility. Violating someone rights in any way is always wrong. Just avoid putting yourself in such situation where you could be victimized and reduce the probability of inducing such actions by being more wary of ones own actions.  

The Policeman
Had lunch with 2 policeman friend in plain clothes at a crowded hawker center. Cop A chop a table while Cop B & I went to get our food. A scuffle broke out nearby and Cop B went to intervene and break up the fight. Both Cop B and I came back to the table at the same time.

Me to Cop A : Hey, you also mata. Why you just sit here and never go help Cop B ?
Cop A stare back at me in amazement : I go help him then who help the 2 of you chop seats !?!

- What am I trying to say ? Good cop, bad cop ? Policemen are also human that lives an ordinary life. 2 hours to take statement is procedural for them to enforce the legal system. If they don't gather enough details, how are they gonna help you build the evidence to charge the culprit. It's just the red tape and bureaucracy of our societal system. Unless serious injuries were caused to the culprit, they'll usually see past the beatings and work within their abilities to apprehend the guilty.      

The Culprit
Another one of those Eve parties along crowded Orchard Rd. I was with a bunch of guys this time round. A bastard friend of mine actually grope a female passer by then act blur like nothing happened. When we were some distance away, we f*ck that bastard and asked what's wrong with you ?
Instead of feeling remorse, he was laughing away saying : "Ai yah why you all so worked up ? You think I touch her like that damn shiok meh ? It's just thrilling to know I can do that and get away plus don't you find that the look on her face was worth a million dollars....ha ha ha !!!"  

- Above was prank in really bad taste. 99% of us here are tiko, myself included. Tiko are all opportunistic to the chances that we see, it's just a matter of how far we take it. While some uses their charm and others uses the lure of money when the opportunity arises. As to how far we go, it's about the thrill that we are looking to seek. Chinese has a saying,             妻不如妾，妾不如偷，偷不如抢. Risk and returns have a direct correlation. The higher risk, the higher the return in thrill. Thank goodness most of us are risk aversed.

My longest post to date.

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by BernardFrosty

.....My longest post to date.

Words of wisdom! Looking forward to your next longest post in future.

[cleanfreak]

Interesting. I would like to see the reaction of the law-abiding bros here when they're out with their female relatives/friends/gf/spouse and these females get molested.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

This primordial fragment from the original big bang of stupid got lost in thread below:

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=223823

Will someone please bring this insensate blinking calf lustE- home?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by BernardFrosty

.....My longest post to date.

Good writeup.
Up 2 for you.
Cheers

[kwaychup]

Well isn't such groping things a norm during these festive seasons?
not sure if you all still remember that girl or ahgua being groped while on stage during dunno what festival and there was a video and pictures circulating around the internet around 2yrs back or so,

Well imho if such things were to happen,
and since you are with a big group of guy friends, just ask the guy friends to surround you girls when moving around. it reduces the chances of being groped.

As for the flame war,
well for luste, no one can ever judge another person based on his character or actions,
unless his actions are proven to be illegal in the confines of that country's law.
Not even you me or any other bros here can do that.
What you are doing is judging on people based on their actions and character.

Going out in the middle of the night doesn't make someone indecent nor
Dressing more sexy doesn't mean that the girl is inviting to be raped/molested either.

It's just that each and every individual has their own mindset/definitions of how things should be.
And no one can judge another based on what he/she thinks/feels is not their norm.


Humans imho, were never decent or clean or pure since their time of birth,
it's just the sane mind that makes us human,
take away that piece of mind, we would be just as savage as any predator being on this planet.

my 2 cents

[BernardFrosty]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Good writeup.
Up 2 for you.
Cheers

Thank you. Also a first in my SBF life.

[bubbles]

Hey...

Thanks to all of u for your responses..

School just started and projects are crazy. So do not really have the time to surf this site. Thanks to those who PM me those encouraging words. Feeling much better now. But i still have kind of a weird feeling in me weneva i see a bangala near.

I posted this not wanting to stir up anything. Just wanted to know how some of you handled the situation if it had happened before.

[bubbles]

btw, don't bother giving me points. I also duno wads its for and i think i have no use for it.. Hence, u can give it to others instead of me.

[ishootarrows]

lol whack the bangalah ltr nt scared he call every1 frm his country come to sg. = black island. doomsday coming.

[woon85]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Please continue..... Exactly how many bangalas?

Hahaha!!! I hate you!!! You make me laugh so loud!! People quarrelling u suddenly come up with random stuff. Hahaha!!!

[meowis]

Wow, interesting flame you guys got going on. Allow me to join. *Ahem*

I saw a movie the other day, "dinner for schmucks", where intelligent and wealthy expats would invite idiots to dinner and make fun of them. lustE fits this description of a "schmuck".

Firstly, because of his firm belief that we will all get into trouble for a little violence. Do you really believe that pulling off an instinctive attack like that will warrant even an overnight arrest ? If people can be sentenced to jail because of this, what about the people responsible for the gang slashings ? Should they be sent to the moon by NASA and left there to burn during the solar eclipse ?

Secondly, because of his inability to properly defend himself or prove other flames wrong. We can see this clearly in many of his replies, usually when he says something similar to what angry secondary school kids would say and then insults everyone else, replacing his lack of vocabulary for vulgarities EG :

loser. Post up some evidence before u talk shit.

Retarded shit! Hahaha.

What makes u think i'm angry? Loser. LOL

Read my FIRST post on page one, you fucking idiot. I did mentioned partially from the start. Loser.

Speaking about yourself? =) NO PIC, NO TALK.

Show a pic if you don't need a puddle of muddy water too. or are u just a coward?

Lastly, his his lack of common sense. He posts his firm belief :

Again, this is the internet, as the saying goes.
Arguing on the internet is like running the Special Olympics,
Even if you win, you're still retarded.



Come on guys, argue all u wan and try to win me, BUT at the end, you are still a fucking RETARD, ALL OF YOU. LOL! idiots.

This means that you admittedly lost the flame, hence the winners are all retards. You lost to retards. Did you know that makes you worse than a retard ?

Anyway, if you're interested to come over for dinner, give me a PM

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro meowis, you are 100% spot-on with this lustE- kid

[naturegreen]

*Applauds* to meowis

[bigangry]

Meowis, you joined nearly 2 years and had been keeping quiet.. and you broke your silence for this idiot?

Originally Posted by meowis

Wow, interesting flame you guys got going on. Allow me to join. *Ahem*

I saw a movie the other day, "dinner for schmucks", where intelligent and wealthy expats would invite idiots to dinner and make fun of them. lustE fits this description of a "schmuck".

Firstly, because of his firm belief that we will all get into trouble for a little violence. Do you really believe that pulling off an instinctive attack like that will warrant even an overnight arrest ? If people can be sentenced to jail because of this, what about the people responsible for the gang slashings ? Should they be sent to the moon by NASA and left there to burn during the solar eclipse ?

Secondly, because of his inability to properly defend himself or prove other flames wrong. We can see this clearly in many of his replies, usually when he says something similar to what angry secondary school kids would say and then insults everyone else, replacing his lack of vocabulary for vulgarities EG :






Lastly, his his lack of common sense. He posts his firm belief :



This means that you admittedly lost the flame, hence the winners are all retards. You lost to retards. Did you know that makes you worse than a retard ?

Anyway, if you're interested to come over for dinner, give me a PM