Staying hard

[optiplex80]

hi bros i had a problem is staying hard in a intercourse session.. it just get hard at the start but after some time it goes soft, sometimes before it goes in or when it's inside.. I do exercise my PC muscles but not everyday. I do my exercise often too with running and swimming 3-4 times a week ... I used to masturbate often but I had already stop for 1 month ..

Could it be my mind isn't very focus ??

[wsa98]

Just relax. If still not possible, try Viagra.

[Niceman]

Change partner? maybe too bored cos too routine?

Maybe u too stress over work?

Change location, ambiance?

Have you been on medication?

Check all these, am sure is the cause of 1 of the above

[junkie2807]

On the topic of staying hard, I guess we should start with the basics before we talk about Viagra or changing partners. The easier thing to do is to exercise & get yourself in shape, as fit as you were back in BMT or NS days. Erections are all about blood flow. If your heart is strong, your blood circulation will be good & all things being equal, more blood will flow to your penis, thus making your erections harder & longer lasting.

I am trying to get in shape too, because when I was in NS & during my early Uni years, my erections were rock hard & I recover faster. I would stay over at my ex-S.O.'s place & we could have sex about 8 times in about 36 hours, at least half of them were anal & we all know it takes a very strong erection to penetrate her backdoor just simply it's so much tighter than her vagina.

So let us try to whip ourselves in shape so we can better enjoy the sex we have.

Ja neh!!!

[Draculax]

I think mental quite important... thats why most people get more hard on when bonking new faces

[rainchezz]

maybe the type of foreplay matters ? I found that only bbbj works on me and typically after a long nice bbbj, i can bonk like nobody's business. happy bonking

[havana]

Tongkat ali might help.....

[Groovy_J]

erm is it possible to get morning erection and yet go softy during the night bros?

[alpharadiationt]

definitely stress.. why not just let the girl take over instead?

[optiplex80]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Change partner? maybe too bored cos too routine?

Maybe u too stress over work?

Change location, ambiance?

Have you been on medication?

Check all these, am sure is the cause of 1 of the above

maybe it's work .. maybe should plan a trip and give it a try .. did try different places and hotel .. we also try watching porn together ... but then nothing seems to help ..am not on medication ... i'm at my 30 only ..

Originally Posted by junkie2807

On the topic of staying hard, I guess we should start with the basics before we talk about Viagra or changing partners. The easier thing to do is to exercise & get yourself in shape, as fit as you were back in BMT or NS days. Erections are all about blood flow. If your heart is strong, your blood circulation will be good & all things being equal, more blood will flow to your penis, thus making your erections harder & longer lasting.

I am trying to get in shape too, because when I was in NS & during my early Uni years, my erections were rock hard & I recover faster. I would stay over at my ex-S.O.'s place & we could have sex about 8 times in about 36 hours, at least half of them were anal & we all know it takes a very strong erection to penetrate her backdoor just simply it's so much tighter than her vagina.

So let us try to whip ourselves in shape so we can better enjoy the sex we have.

Ja neh!!!

yup .. i do exercise often .. swim + run 3 - 4 times weekly ...

Originally Posted by alpharadiationt

definitely stress.. why not just let the girl take over instead?

maybe can try tat too

[Klklhbk]

Hi,

Trust me on this as I had this issue before.
Just RELAX
don't think about your performance and anything else.
Just relax and don't keep thinking 'must keep hard must keep hard'
it wont work.

take it slow and easy
if need to imagine u are doing it with someone u have fantasy with
moan make ur girl do something u fantasise about too to help

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by fourhorseman

the more stress about it, the softer it gets

I agrees with it. Whenever I go for Fls tends to be very nervous and cant erect very well.However with my OC my stud will be strong, hard and last much longer.

[junkie2807]

Very hard for me to stay hard if I'm sleepy too...

Get plenty of rest...

Having sex is like playing in the Champions League... You need all the rest you can get so you can "perform"...

Ja neh!!!

[passiondream]

why not try out those lube that can maintain your errection and stay hard?? just apply at the head 10mins before having sex ... it works.. no harm trying..

[nayuko]

Definitely too stressed.. Try to relax. It is supposed to be enjoyable.