Compass In Life

[cqueen]

Good evening everyone,

1. I thought it would be useful to share some words of wisedom to help us find the compass in our life.

2. If I post in the wrong section, please let me know. I do apologise for it.

3. Having said that, do let me have your feedback if it is well received for me to continue sharing more it in future.

When walking,

as we step one foot forward,

we lift the other foot up.

In the same way, we should

let go of yesterday

and focus on today

[BigBoy2]

well since you started this.... maybe I would just add on to this........

If you so not set sail off fro this coastline........
One shall not be able to find new land.........

If we do not leave our past behind,
We will not have any future........

If we do not know how to leave our ex behind,
We will not find new love..........

Moral of the story. Have a life, get a grip, and move on......

Might not be well written, due to lousy English but, I think the meaning is there. Just my little thoughts.

[sadsky18]

words is easy to type
but in actual fact , life is not as easy as we type .

imagine breaking up with someone whom had been with you for 15 years ?
how many 15 years one would have ?

how to say give up and move on so easy ?

sorry for stating my own story

[mayday]

bro sadsky,

we have but only a few 15 yrs in our lifes, but if you dun let go, u mite be miserable in the 1 or 2 15 yrs u have left.

it will take time, but i strongly recommend u to try to put dw this burden and start afresh.

give yourself a chance to find happiness again.

cheers
mayday

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by sadsky18

words is easy to type
but in actual fact , life is not as easy as we type .

imagine breaking up with someone whom had been with you for 15 years ?
how many 15 years one would have ?

how to say give up and move on so easy ?

sorry for stating my own story

Good afternoon sadsky,

Perhaps these learned words of wisedom may help u better:


A wise person is able to let go.

To let go is actually to receive,

to receive boundless happiness

[fluff]

Originally Posted by sadsky18

words is easy to type
but in actual fact , life is not as easy as we type .

imagine breaking up with someone whom had been with you for 15 years ?
how many 15 years one would have ?

how to say give up and move on so easy ?

sorry for stating my own story

It's never easy and I don't think I have any right to offer any advice since I've not experienced it myself. Take care bro.

[sadsky18]

thanks bro and sis for your encouragement .

but its really not easy lor

didnt do anything wrong

yet recieved this kind of treatment

i use to believe love is all about giving and giving

maybe im wrong

time will heal everything i guess

[Asianguy]

Bro Sadsky,

I take it that your partner did you wrong.

Well, let me take the perspective of the one that did wrong. How can I leave my partner when she has done no wrong? How can i pack up and go after 15 years, even though he has found happiness in another...when your partner is innocent?

Saying it is not easy is just words. If it was easy, I would not have been awake since 3am (again), and surfing porn.

Asianguy

[DizzyMage]

Hi SadSky

Just sharing my exp. Was with my ex for 4 year and @ one stage, we even discuss abt marriage, and make plan to save money etc.

But we broke up cos of SOME guys, not ONE, try to tackle her. I gave up and move on. For the past 7 years, the first few months are unbearable, but ok after that. 3 day back she started sms me and email, wanting me to patch back and dump my current gf to be with her... Funny thing is, I'm more angry than before.

In conclusion, what happened in the past, so be it, live & let die. Parked those happy memories deep in the corner of our heart and discard those unhappy ones and move on.

Tkae care bro.

[blaskkin]

Nice one... permission to use as signature?

[sadsky18]

thanks asianguy and dizzymage

im learning of how to let go

if not i wont be like surfing porn like bro asianguy :")

but learning stage is a tough period

all of us can learn but will we get the real idea of how to handle after we learn ?

i doubt so .

mens are good in talking but bad in handling if they met the problems them self .

is this what we call ego ?

learning doesnt stop even if you are a 80 yrs old man , but do you think at that age you will still care to learn ?

actually why this earth dont just bombard this very moment , so maybe many people can have a better life in the next world ?

i think im too " bei guan "

sorry cqueen , your thread like become my personal life story sharing .

[cqueen]

im learning of how to let go
i think im too " bei guan "

U mean u feel 'bei kum guan' meaning u felt so betrayed that u have lots of unresolved anger and hatred?
If that is the case, i want to share with u the following words of wisedom:


Each time u forgive others,

we are, in fact, sowing blessings.

The more magnanimity we show,

the more blessings we enjoy.

Those who sow

the seeds of blessings

shall harvest plentiful blessings.

sorry cqueen , your thread like become my personal life story sharing .[/QUOTE]


Not at all, sadsky18. It is more of a blessing if we, the samsters here, can help u find the compass in your life just by listening, encouraging, supporting and believing in you that u have the perseverance and courage to grow stronger and put the past behind u.

[trueblurxy]

i m at the cross road too. Been married for 3 yrs wif 2 beautiful daughters. Life wif my wife has been stagnet n monotonous.
been wanting a fairy tale relationship all my life but got married cos she was expecting then, so tied the knot. (ya, she's not the rite 1) i m both a responsible husband n father only in providing needs n financial aid. (more than enuff) but not giving my wife the much needed luv (it takes 2 to tango)
to sign again on the doted line was constantly in my mind. dun wanna spent another 40 yrs broading over it, but what abt my 2 daughters? i wan them to grow up mentally healthy.
sometimes it is better not to follow the heart but lead the heart. it not easy but i hope someone up there come to my rescue!

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by trueblurxy

i m at the cross road too. Been married for 3 yrs wif 2 beautiful daughters. Life wif my wife has been stagnet n monotonous.
been wanting a fairy tale relationship all my life but got married cos she was expecting then, so tied the knot. (ya, she's not the rite 1) i m both a responsible husband n father only in providing needs n financial aid. (more than enuff) but not giving my wife the much needed luv (it takes 2 to tango)
to sign again on the doted line was constantly in my mind. dun wanna spent another 40 yrs broading over it, but what abt my 2 daughters? i wan them to grow up mentally healthy.
sometimes it is better not to follow the heart but lead the heart. it not easy



[I]True blessings flow from our ability to love and be loved by others.

To have a warm and happy family, we should nuture a heart of joy and

shower our family with blessings[/I]

When u are not happy, u do not have a heart of joy, how can u nuture a happy family for your 2 beloved daughthers?


but i hope someone up there come to my rescue!

Many seek illumination by lighting up a lamp,

when the true light

is within

[Bangster]

I also have some...
hope you all will like it...

Sometimes it's strange,
but people don't listen and realise
already said this is an adult discussion section
yet there are many who're not very wise
until this whole thread turns into a zap fest
i doubt i'll hear any cries
so for goodness' sake I think it's best
we add some sex, colour and lies