7 year itch... an affair to remember

[tommy29sg]

I married young at age of 24. My wife is my first girlfriend and I ddn't had any girlfriend before... so my first time, in terms of kisses and everything was with my wife.

So as I grew older, i found that i missed out alot of things... i never had a break up before.. i dun know how to enjoy myself.. but on the 7th year of my marriage.... the itch came...

I knew her through one of the friendship website... well, i was bored and did a search on gals... and manage to find a handful of them and started to send out e-mails... to look for friends.. think these has been common to all...

so it started with 1 to 2 e-mails seeking for friendship... hmm... that was in 2006...

our relationship hitted off in Oct 06.... that was the first response from her...

of course, in her profile.. she was married... hmm.. wouldn't it be a wonderful way to share the experiences of married life..

We had a few correspondences.... and we finally met up abt 1 month later...

We met at Wheelock Plc Saki Sushi for lunch... at that time, i had applied for half day leave to meet up with her and subsequently later to collect keys for the chalet that I have book for my family. (U must be thinking i will be doing something with her there... but no...)

I am not those that likes to be late... most of the time, I am always punctual. unfortunately, not that day... I think she had waited for me for abt half an hour... but of course, i have calling her.. to assure her that i will be there and was on my way to seeing her...

Lady luck was on my side that day... we did finally met... she was pretty and sweet... nearly melts me there and then... and the best thing is that she was not angry with me...

we managed to have a good chat for 2 hrs before i had to leave to collect my chalet keys... it was definitely a unwilling depart... and i was wishing that i can collect my keys later so that i can have the whole afternoon to talk to her...

before we part.. we make a promise to meet again...

[BBlick]

read in somewhere that when young you should fully make use of the time to do lots of dating and r/s staff, then when you grow old will not itch or less itch, especially in these modern time

[drolla]

Thanks for sharing dude hope you will continue soon. As for me I am still single and enjoying every minute of it.

[GeGe]

Dude, you are one lucky man, cherish your marriage.

[tommy29sg]

So after the first meeting, we chatted on msn.. to make another appointment, 4 days later... We met and we went for a car-show following by a dinner...

During the car-show, we were walking together, chatting and looking at cars... it was at one of the sales booth where we were looking at the big Chysler... the car that can accommodate more than 8 people.. i think... the sales person thought that we were both husband and wife...
that was the start of everything...

later, we had dinner .. the day, is one of the most enjoyable day.. with laughter and the sweetness feelings we had inside that can really melts ourselves... however, the day and night is really short.. and we have to part again...

The next time we met was 8 days later, but during that time, we communicated with each other over msn and sms... We met for consecutive 2days... and on the 4th date, we went for quite a number of activities, which I had taken to be with her...

We went for breakfast and roller blading in the morning, it was also the opportunity for me to hold her hand... her hand was really soft and tender... very very irresistable... and she held tightly onto my hands as she have lost touch to roller bladding as she had before when she was in Australia...

Next, we went for a movie at Lido in the afternoon. Being held her hands earlier, I held her hands again during the movie, and hold it close to my heart... I started to put her hand on my lips and slowly brushing it, and she knew leaned towards me onto my shoulders... and looknig at me, smiling... we did not actually concentrate on the shows...

After the show, we chatted and she told me that she is going for a holiday with her friends... to Malaysia or Indonesia (I didn't remember cos too sad to think about it).. my heart really sank as at that time, my heart hurts and I have to withhold these feelings to myself... I suddenly misses her there and then... However, what is a 4-times meet-up relationship rite... so I wishes her a safe journey and ask her to take care of herself...

THe day was really short when we had a good time and we had to part again... before she left, she gave me a peck on my cheeks... which took me by surprise... but it is indeed a pleasant surprise. That night... was really sleepless for me.. both happy and sad...

[pterchew]

my philosophy i usually shared with my younger frens. married now and has a
family young will means you can support your children education b4 your
retirement. financially stronger.

married older would means by the time you're 60, your child could be juz in
his teen and is still greatly dependent on you.

so, do you choose to enjoy now n suffer later? that's your choice anyway.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by pterchew

my philosophy i usually shared with my younger frens. married now and has a
family young ...........................

so, do you choose to enjoy now n suffer later? that's your choice anyway.

Err... Bro,

Alternatively can buy a life insurance in advance

At age 55 plus, can draw out for the kids ???? maybe can do some investments that collect passive income as well.

Just a suggestion ... if you decided to set up a family late

[BBlick]

Originally Posted by pterchew

so, do you choose to enjoy now n suffer later? that's your choice anyway.

You are a family man bro, but seems also very active in sbf for wild flowers

You are right, can not marry too late otherwise kids suffers

[tommy29sg]

So while she was away on the trip... once in a while, we still sms each other... she sent me a sunset by the sea from the chalet and says that it was very beautiful... at the same time... she said she was reflecting.. and thinking of me...
i was happy.. and looking forward for her return from the trip..

when she was back, we msn ans sms each other again... it was indeed that we missed each other... and while talking, we talked about being together and sex....

we fixed a date to meet and have sex... and i have to make sure to get cd for this...

the day finally arrived... it was the 5th meeting...we met and went for dinner first,
afterthat, we went straight to H81...
she was shy at that time...and so am I, so we went on slow....
we started with some kisses... i must say that her lips were so soft, pouty and luscious... that is why i love her kisses... we deep french.. and slowly i pushed her to the wall....
I asked her if she is ok and should we proceed further... there are still time for regret... but she says ok and we carried on... i turned off most of the lights leaving only 1 lights on.. so that i can see her...
slowly.. while kissing... i took off her shirt... and wow.. she was quite voluptous... i was really turned on... then slowly i took of her bra..
i began to feel her breast and slowly sucking it alternating with kissing her luscious lips...

Of course, she also undress me ... and touching me.. i could feel the electric passing thru both of us...

Slowly, i lay her down the bed... and of course... i had to go and take the cd...

we kissed and caress each other for a while and i put my cd on... we trhen proceeded with our love making session...

being gentle, i slowly penetrated her.. with every slight penetration, she moaned with pleasure... and that is really a turned on... my didi was really hard .. with her rhythm of her moan.. my penetration into her hot vagina got deeper and deeper. She was indeed hot from inside and i can really feel it with my didi inside her...

while doing it, she came on top.. and then .. suddenly took out my cd... i am very surprised...

she said that she dun like to use cd.. and getting me to use cd is to test if i am sincere in this relationship...

so we continue with our love making... without the use of cd and the direct body heat without the rubber is more intense and pleasurable... with both of us sweating.. in the heat... amid the air-con blowing..

her moan got louder and louder and that was the point for me too... i came into her... the session was fantastic.... however, there was a feeling of regret... regret that i came in her...

she also enjoyed the session (that what she says)... so we lie on the bed and hug each other... she also told me not to worry abt coming in her..

but soon... it is the time for us to part again... but we make another date 2 days later to meet...
that night was a memorable night... couldn't really sleep.. becos thinking about her and the explosive love making session.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by BBlick

.........You are right, can not marry too late otherwise kids suffers ..............

.......... and we suffer too........

[sexy guy]

Hi Tommysg29 can u pm me the website im looling for girl many many thank

[tommy29sg]

2 days passed and we met again... this time... we went straight to meet at our romping place...

things were different now... we were not shy to each other... we were together as 1....

as we make love, our feelings for each other deepens... with every thrust, we become close to each other...

The sex was ever so explosive each time... maybe we really enjoyed ourselves.. or maybe I love the way she moaned and cry out... either way... I really loved it...

I always like to feel her warmth and wetness, i mean really wet, when I penetrate her... the feeling is always good.. plus I am not wearing cd at all...

As i got to know more abt her... my love for her deepens too.... so i try as her more abt her life and her past relationships and her family... then i discovered something....

[tommy29sg]

I discovered that.. before me... she had another lover...
it was her former colleague...

how do i get to know about it? thru her handphone... she had a pus at her eyelid... so we went to the eye specialist for the doctor to cut the pus out... while there, she passed me her bag... so that she will be inside the room to have the pus taken out by the doctor...

while she was in there... i decided to look at her phone... and to my shock... i saw some smses... on baby this and baby that... and f*** here and there, by the other party... at that instant... i am so shocked... and very very upset.... u know... the feelings of sour filled from my stomach to my throat and with a wooden ball stuck at my throat.. that kind of feeling... i really dun know what to say or do...

i didn't leave... but try to act as if nothing happen.. but my expression gave away everything... when she came out.... she noticed the change of mood in me.... but i still act as if nothing happen.. but with the mood below sea level... we went to have a cup of coffee... and went back... as she can't drive... because of the eye patch... i sent her home and left....

That day... i really can't eat and can't sleep.... and i didn't pick up or reply her messages....

[mazer]

Its time to give up this relationship bro!!! you had a family ... u had your fun man.. so is your girl... she is just flinging around with u man.. u r not the only guy she is seeing... THIS i am sure!! not to say having sex around with!! i used to fling around with these girls before! once they are bored of u.. BYE BYE.

One more thing.. u better stop havin sex with your wife for these few months becos if this lady of yours sleeps around.. she may have some sexual illness.... and if she passed it to u... u deserve it becos u had your fun .. no pain no gain!! but if you passed it to your wife.. i promise u that u will feel damn damn bastard .. guilty ...and feel like killing yourself!!!

go and see doctor and have yourself check thoroughly man! stop contacting this lady.. she is out to PLAY .. and u cant afford this game cos u r FUCKING NEW IN RELATIONSHIPS GAMES...

U have a family.. i am sure your wife loves u the most... and its super RARE that u are able to married your 1st love .. and you are also your wife 1st guy!! u know.. she is a virgin ...

NOt many guys are blessed with such a wife.. this kind of happy marriage! HOWEVER IF U GAVE UP YOUR HAPPY FAMILY FOR THIS GIRL WHO WILL CONFIRM LEAVE U AFTER SHE HAD HER FUN... I CONFIRM 500% THAT U WILL FUCKING REGRET LEAVING YOUR FAMILY.

If u itch... try fucking your wife in different places? positions? maybe toys? or go geylang lah! go KTV.. u got money rite?

[MistressVamp]

like dat u still dare to do without cd ar.....