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11-10-2010, 12:57 AM
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How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
Dear all bros!
I been trying with my wife about 6 mths already...Still can't get her pregnant.... Just want to know how long u guys been through? kinda of low morale lol....... Thanks
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11-10-2010, 02:46 AM
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11-10-2010, 03:32 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
I'm trying very hard as well. Keke. Alot of people mentioned about visiting the Chinese physicians at Tong Ji Hospital. Has anyone ever tried before?
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11-10-2010, 07:05 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
My wife decided she wanted a child when she was pushing 30. We tried for almost 2 years without conceiving. Then My friend wrote me a prescription for my wife's consumption and within a month she conceived. The same went for my second child.
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11-10-2010, 09:22 AM
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11-10-2010, 09:27 AM
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11-10-2010, 09:56 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
i tried for 2 mths & my wife got pregnant...
it takes a few times before hit jackpot...i remembered we had a few false alarms... anyway , mine is due this december..... bro , i have a fren who tried very long too then didnt succeed until he brought his wife for a holiday....maybe u shld try that as working here in Singapore is so stressful at times... cheers
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11-10-2010, 10:09 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
Couples who want kids may want to try royal jelly in pure form.....google it
 Royal Jelly is the food of queen bee... and queen bee produces thousands of baby bees per year...cheers
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11-10-2010, 10:15 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
Wow...didnt' know SBF has become Singapore Baby Forum.
But its good to know many bros here has their soft spots too; and good advice. I've been trying for a year already; especially the past 6 months where we tried to hit the ovul day. No luck so far...my wife is really demoralised liao. We never tried TCM, but we went for a long holiday recently. Pray there's good news this month!
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11-10-2010, 10:29 AM
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after some follow up and even a surgery then my wife got pregnant... seems like in this stressful society it has become more difficult to get pregnant. i have many frenz that tried to have baby, some even tried for more than 2yrs still no result until i reconmmed them to my gynae and most of them got pregnant after that... if ya keen to visit this gynae, PM me... hope this helps... dun give up...
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11-10-2010, 10:32 AM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
I am so sorry to hear of your plight.
I believe stress plays a huge part in infertility. For most people in big cities, their body receives signals from their daily activities that tell it that reproduction is not suitable at this stage to allow optimal performance in the tasks at hand. I have encouraged many of my friends who fall into this category, with much success, to go on extended spa, villa, hideaway holidays of no less than 2 weeks. Shopping, tour groups type 20 things to do in a day schedules are a definite no-no. This is to readjust your biological clock to signal that the body can allow pregnancy. Of course, if you just have sex with the intention of procreation alone, that in itself is stress. Good Luck
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11-10-2010, 11:08 AM
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Don't rush, take it easy.
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11-10-2010, 11:54 AM
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the impt thing is to relax and not be pressure.like some bro say enjoy sex first then slowly like things take it course.
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11-10-2010, 12:28 PM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
Some tips on Getting Pregnant to share:
* Track your body's cycle closely so you can accurately predict when yr OC will ovulate, 1 week before code red & 3-4days after code green will not get pregnant..so do make sure u shoot at the right time..make sure she's ovulate .. Do predict as closely as possible when you will ovulate so that intercourse may be performed as close to this time as possible. Don't forget that lovemaking too often can reduce the virility of sperm and reduce the sperm count.* Artificial lubricants and oils can hinder the sperm, and can lessen your chances of conceiving. * The missionary position for sex is typically the most successful position for impregnation. Hope this will help to all bros..
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11-10-2010, 02:19 PM
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Re: How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?
some interesting read from a science mag a few years back.. as we humans are actually very infertile creatures
ONE OF THE great mysteries of the human condition is what makes us, unlike most other animals, spend such an inordinate amount of time having sex . . . and so little time actually getting pregnant. Nor is this a new phenomenon that came along with contraception. Couples still have plenty of sex when conception is out of the question either because of the time of the woman's cycle, or because she is already pregnant or breastfeeding. But now the mystery of these fruitless bonkings might be solved. According to reproductive biologists at the University of Adelaide in South Australia, far from being an exercise in futility, plenty of sex—even up to a full year before conception—helps guard against a litany of ailments. And Puritans prepare to be shocked—fellatio may work just as well as missionary-style intercourse. The disorders, which range from infertility to high blood pressure during pregnancy, all appear to be linked to the reluctance of the mother's immune system to accept the fetus and placenta, both of which come armed with an arsenal of foreign proteins courtesy of the father's genes. Sex, early and often, and with the intended father, may help overcome that reluctance, say the Adelaide team. Clearly, if the mother's immune system remains unconvinced the consequences will be dire. She may immediately and repeatedly reject new embryos—in which case, she's infertile. If her immune system takes a little longer to shun the foreign tissue, she may suffer frequent miscarriages. And if the rejection is milder still it might only affect the placenta—although even that can be a disaster. The placenta is the fetus's lifeline, supplying oxygen and nutrients from the mother's blood. If the placenta fails to grow, or becomes clogged with angry immune cells, the supply line is cut, and an underweight baby is the result or even a stillbirth. Immune rejection can even threaten the mother's life. According to one still controversial theory, it's the mother's rejection of the placenta that causes pre-eclampsia, a condition where the mother's blood pressure soars, in some cases triggering convulsions, coma and death. In this frightening scenario, fragments of dead placental cells are swept into the mother's circulation, where they damage vessels, sending her blood pressure skywards. "It's just different expressions of one underlying theme," says Gustaaf Dekker, a member of the Adelaide group. "We see patients that have two miscarriages, then they finally manage to get through their miscarriage period, and they have pre-eclampsia, or the placenta detaches and they have a stillbirth at 24 weeks." It's easy to understand why the mother's immune system might be tempted to annihilate that developing fetus. As if having foreign genes weren't bad enough, the fetus behaves brutishly during its stay in the womb. Its placenta invades the wall of the uterus like a cancer, infiltrating a nearby artery to guarantee steady supplies of oxygen and nutrients. It also casts millions of foreign cells adrift in the mother's bloodstream, cells that re-attach and grow in places like her lungs. The mother's immune system should positively squash those cells like cockroaches, but amazingly in normal pregnancies it lets them be. "Acceptance of the conceptus is a much more dynamic affair than anyone's ever given credit for," says Rodney Kelly, a reproductive immunologist at the University of Edinburgh, who strongly suspects that the Adelaide group is on to something. "There's fetal cells in the maternal circulation, there's plenty of antigen, [so] there's obviously an enormous amount of immune modulation preventing rejection." That process of immune modulation begins with the first drop of semen. You wouldn't suspect it during those dreamy post-coital moments, but for the next 15 hours or so a woman's cervix is swarming with immune cells. They swoop in like government agents investigating an alien crash site—which is essentially what they are doing. They busy themselves collecting the man's foreign proteins—even entire sperm cells—and lug them back to the lymph nodes where other immune cells learn to recognise them. Normally those foreign proteins would end up on the immune system's Most Wanted list: antibodies would be made against them, and primed to annihilate the sperm next time they dared to darken their doorstep. But the miracle of sex is that semen contains not only millions of sperm loaded with foreign proteins, but also some recently discovered components that tilt a woman's immune response away from hostility and toward acceptance. "If there's repeated exposure to that signal," says Dekker, "then eventually when the woman conceives, her [immune] cells will say, `we know that guy, he's been around a long time, we'll allow the pregnancy to continue.'" Of course acceptance of the sperm by the mother's immune system isn't all that's needed for a straightforward pregnancy. But when things do go wrong, sperm have the power to provoke a vicious immune response. Following intercourse, women very occasionally go into anaphylactic shock, an immune response so severe that breathing can be nigh on impossible, and blood pressure plummets dangerously low. For these luckless women, just a drop of semen on a thigh can raise boils. The problem appears to stem from lacklustre attempts by the woman's immune system to become tolerant to sperm, combined with the man's semen doing a really bad job of convincing it. In some cases switching partners is all it takes to solve the problem. And there's other tantalising evidence of semen's power over the mother's immune response. An analysis of pre-eclampsia patterns in 1.7 million births from the Medical Birth Registry of Norway found that certain "dangerous males" are nearly twice as likely to father a pre-eclamptic pregnancy. These dangerous males carry their high risk from one female partner to the next. But these are the rare examples where a man's semen isn't functioning properly. It was Pierre-Yves Robillard, a neonatologist now at the Sud Réunion Hospital on Réunion in the Indian Ocean, who showed that under normal circumstances semen exposure actually helps prevent pre-eclampsia— evidence that flies in the face of mainstream explanations for the disorder such as the popular "pantyhose" theory. According to this theory, pre-eclampsia develops not because the mother's immune system sees the placenta as foreign, but because the blood vessels that supply the placenta don't expand enough. The placenta runs short of oxygen, and once again dying cells push up the woman's blood pressure. By a second pregnancy the blood vessels are already widened like worn pantyhose, which is why, say the textbooks, pre-eclampsia usually only happens in a first pregnancy. According to Robillard's studies, however, later pregnancies can be just as risky under certain circumstances. In the late 1980's, Robillard was on the French island of Guadeloupe in the Caribbean, a territory dotted with sugar and banana plantations, where families are often made up of a single woman who has several children by different men. There he made the curious discovery that most of his patients with pre-eclampsia were actually on their second or third pregnancy. But it was specifically the women who had changed partners since their last pregnancy who were developing the condition. Robillard speculated that the mother's immune system requires time (and contact with semen) to learn to accept the father's foreign genes and not attack the placenta and cause pre-eclampsia. Changing fathers between pregnancies "puts your counter back at zero immunologically speaking", he says. He confirmed his hunch in his next study of 1011 pregnant women on Guadeloupe. Women who had sex with the father for 12 months or more before getting pregnant had a 5 per cent chance of developing pre-eclampsia compared to a massive 40 per cent chance for those who'd only been having sex with the father for four months or less. What's more, another study found that using condoms, which naturally prevent women from coming into contact with semen, increases the risk of pre-eclampsia. Robillard's studies make an excellent case for the medicinal virtues of semen exposure. But it was Dekker, then at the Free University of Amsterdam, who took the studies one eyebrow-raising step further when he looked to see if the same goal could be achieved with oral sex—or more specifically, fellatio. It's well known that our immune systems tolerate things better when they enter the body via the mouth. This is why we're not usually allergic to our food even though it's always genetically foreign, and why girls with nickel braces on their teeth are less likely to develop nickel allergies after their ears are pierced than girls without these braces. Sure enough, when Dekker compared 41 pregnant women with pre-eclampsia and 44 without, he found that 82 per cent of those without pre-eclampsia practised fellatio, compared with only 44 per cent of those with the disorder. And in keeping with the "condom effect", the protective effect of oral sex was strongest if the woman actually swallowed the semen rather than coughing it onto the pillow. True, it's only one study, but for some couples who can't seem to carry a pregnancy to term, a little fellatio can hardly do any harm, suggests Dekker. "I tell them, 'semen exposure's good, and you could think of oral sex.'"
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