would you marry a girl with low sex drive?

[bulldog1234]

Hi bros...my first post here would like to hear some serious advice or experience.

My current Gf has seriously low sex drive, I will get either sex or BJ once a week and each time it is the very boring fuck and get over with kind. she complains that penetration is too painful for her and tat to her sex is more like a chore. But she got hint to me la...if i wan to "eat outside" she don't mind, just dont let her noe and practise safe sex. Other than this issue she would be a real ideal wife material and i truly love her too

Recently it has gotten to be quite frustrating and pek cek to be doing it to a dead fish...to the extent that i wonder if i'll truly be happy with someone like tat and also whether will she truly be happy with me nt becos she really detest sex. I'm still very much sexually active kind...I'm 28 this year and she's 26.

Not sure if I should commit long term (marry) her. Any bros with experience can help me out here...appreciate any advise

[makemecum]

1) trawl thru Sammyboy forum for sex motivation skill
2) painful...help make it unpainful lo...use gel...
3) go for sex councelling
4) google on G-spots

[joew2005]

2 me, every individual man has different interpretation 4 marriage ....
some marry so tat the woman k bear his children ...
some marry jz purely 4 free sex ... with the same woman ...
some marry becos of lust ...
some marry becos of love ...
etc .....

so which category u belong 2 ??

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by bulldog1234

.appreciate any advise

Should be "... appreciate any ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

I would prefer to marry a girl with low sex drive. Wives who want frequent sex can be a real pain.

No husband is interested in screwing his own wife after a few years of marriage. The wives of other men are far more interesting.

To have a woman who you have no real desire to fuck constantly badgering you for sex is the stuff of nightmares.

[Matteos]

I recall reading an article the lack of interest in sex is actually a homornal reactions in some cases in which treatments maybe able to alleviate the condition. Maybe you and your gf should consult a gyno ?

[Ken79]

Bro, wife material lady + low sex drive + can turn a blind eye if you fuck around outside.
What are you waiting for man? you've got the license to roam issued by her man!

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by bulldog1234

Hi bros...my first post here would like to hear some serious advice or experience.

My current Gf has seriously low sex drive, ...

The understand your feeling and is quite frustrating at times .... friend you still have a stage that have not arrive yet ... have you think about it when your future wife is pregnant and can't have sex for at least 1 year .. so how ????

The BesT Advice is ASk yourself:

1. You claim you love her ... so You are together with her because you love her? or You just want to Have S*X with her ???

2. You mentioned you might not want to commit long term with her ... so only she became active in S*X then you will consider commit long term ... so are you sure you love her ?

I understand S*X is part of maintaining a good relationship ... but then if you really love her,,, bith of you should work out something and not questtioning about this ...

you only think of satifying yourself ... then what about her ... she already good enough to give you a BJ ... so what so u expect ????

Or worse maybe the problem is yourself ... you are thinking of just satisfying your needs and not hers.... you make her think that S*X is a chore to her ... maybe u do already you ignore her ... or you never make her cum ... or worse you skills sucks, never satisfied her, therefore she think is a waste of time doing with you ...

[turbo_slk200]

Would you marry a girl with low sex drive ?
=
Would you marry a guy with low income ?

The answers are more or less the same...........

[goodpartner]

Go for marriage counseling. Inform counselor of this issue upfront. Perhaps there's a good [psychological] reason why your GF is lidat, which is quite unusual.

We've seen movies and read stories on how a lady can detest sex due to some events that happened in the past. Make sure she's not having such a mental issue.

Otherwise, another possibility given such response from her (that you can eat outside) could mean that she has another much much better "outlet" outside too; so u eating out will reduce her guilt? Else it's so uncommon any wife-to-be will do such thing to you and even say such things.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Communication is key in any relationship. No amount of swee talk, sex toys or sexual stimulants are going to help without communication. Her lack of sex drive needs to be addressed and understood more clearly where the problem is. Do not put pressure on her. Good luck!

Originally Posted by goodpartner

detest sex due to some events that happened in the past.

There are real cases on above. Such as childhood or teenage unfortunate experience.

TS - You need to open her line of communication. Take your hand off her shirt and boobs, and extend it to her as a loving boyfriend who cares about his girlfriend and potential long term partner. Sometimes that's the sexiest move a horny boyfriend can make. Cheers and good luck!

[loster]

Well, TS. I have the same scenario as you. My wife has a low sex drive. She can live without sex but not me. She also encourage me to fling around but in the end i realize that sex is not all that matters in a r/s. If have sex, then is a bonus to me. Else, just take it in ur stride since you love her.

[newhere]

Originally Posted by bulldog1234

Hi bros...my first post here would like to hear some serious advice or experience.

My current Gf has seriously low sex drive, I will get either sex or BJ once a week and each time it is the very boring fuck and get over with kind. she complains that penetration is too painful for her and tat to her sex is more like a chore. But she got hint to me la...if i wan to "eat outside" she don't mind, just dont let her noe and practise safe sex. Other than this issue she would be a real ideal wife material and i truly love her too

Recently it has gotten to be quite frustrating and pek cek to be doing it to a dead fish...to the extent that i wonder if i'll truly be happy with someone like tat and also whether will she truly be happy with me nt becos she really detest sex. I'm still very much sexually active kind...I'm 28 this year and she's 26.

Not sure if I should commit long term (marry) her. Any bros with experience can help me out here...appreciate any advise

So you like the idea of paying alimony huh? In marriage no sex but pay for wife maintenance, after divorce no sex still pay for wife maintenance.

[joew2005]

Originally Posted by turbo_slk200

Would you marry a girl with low sex drive ?
=
Would you marry a guy with low income ?

The answers are more or less the same...........

swee la ..... wat u said realli hit the jackpot .....

[bulldog1234]

Thanks to everyone for their advice. appreaciate a listening ear.

Fact is I truly love my GF but then the lack of good sex makes the whole relationship feel very dry and boring like that to the point of fustration. most of the time when we engage in sex its always like she's forcing herself to do it.

anyway another problem is that she doesn't really like to talk about such stuff. I've tried getting her to see a docter together but i think she too paiseh to go....

Both of us tried to leave each other quite a few times but somehow always get back together but still the sex problem still persists.

[turbo_slk200]

Originally Posted by miak

You can't really mix low income or low sex drive together.
If you love the girl, and accept everything she is...and not what you want her to be...then yeah why not...afterall there are many things in a relationship that is more precious than "sex".
Although the sex may be boring...but still nothing beats the feeling of real love..

Sex is just an added bonus to me...

Love is the main picture.

You can't really mix low income or low sex drive together. Are you sure ???
If you love the guy, and accept everything he is...and not what you want him to be...then yeah why not...afterall there are many things in a relationship that is more precious than "$$$".
Although low income may be boring...but still nothing beats the feeling of real love..

High income is just an added bonus to me...

Love is the main picture.

Bro TS..
My advice is to go ahead with the relationship...
She gave you the green light to eat outside too... You just do your part in not to bring anything whatsoever home and going overboard....
Few bros also mentioned more communication and I agree that you need to do your part to be intimate by being more caring and not by being more horny.... Health problems it maybe, and she seemed not comfortable in sharing that with you. Assure her of your love that you be with her in healthy and in sick times. One handsome bro also mentioned that it may be a emotional scar from childhood... and I strongly suspect that this is the case...
Remember the choice is yours... whatever you choose... dun regret it !