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05-02-2005, 11:54 AM
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Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
This is a little thread that me, wah piang & lesson whilst having a little TCSS. As we were talking about my current situation ........
Its interesting to note that a man will always have that 1 soft spot 4 that 1 person sometime somewhere in his cheonging life ...... I have been plying the viet zones 4 quite a while but none so ever have managed 2 have such a deep stranglehold on my heart despite the fact that we are no longer an item 4 coming to a year.............let me recount .... When I 1st went 2 51, she was 1 of the 1st few gals that i got 2 know. At that time, language was a barrier & so I did not bother 2 speak 2 her much. But we do see each other in 51 and most of the time, she would be sitting tables with people that i know. Some time later, we met up again but this time in Blue area, so I spoke 2 her & found that her language abilities have somewhat improved. We started sms & meeting up every now & then........ About 3 months down the road, I was speaking to an aunt of her about her fiery temper and boy does she have 1. Her aunt told me that she still a kid & if i know how old she is. I said the age on her passport but was told otherwise, she was only 16+ then. Learning that i ask her to find some1 younger than me but each time the topic was said she will throw her temper. Due 2 this, I never touch her but only shower her with care & concern. This was when my little Vietnamisation program really took off ...... to find replacement for my needs of my big brother .... Sometime last year due 2 some circumstances, we have a misunderstanding & sort of parted ways. She refuse 2 speak 2 me or tok 2 me in any manner. I even ask a aunt of hers 2 help me only 2 have the aunt coming back 2 tell me 2 4get her & move on with some1 else. I remember the aunt say "she think she still young & beautiful, many man will fall 4 her ....just move on cos she not worth your effort" ..... A couple of months of months down the road when i see her again & she was a bit friendlier. We had a short chat & i ask if she had some1 new...she said yes & so my heart goes dead ...... a few days later I got myself involve with an OT viet gal & had a little misunderstanding....so i sought the help of my ex 2 talk 2 her ..only 2 have them argue over the phone ....wat was i thinking ??? to show her that I can get a gal ... i really dun noe..... Jus b4 christmas last year, another aunt of hers ask if I still feel 4 her & if I do, go ahead & try again. I told auntie that "she already have a new bf mah" During Christmas Eve, I was with a bunch of bros at 51, she came over 2 me and place her head on my shoulders. Believe me when i say this, it sends fluttering waves of blissfulness and love down my spine. I just naturally hug her and it feels realli realli good...... when i wrote to her and told her my feelings, the playful her ask me what did i write .... i just say nothing important ...... this little incident sort of rekindle my love 4 her again ...... She came back a 2 weeks ago, seeing her again make me concious of my actions in 51..... then last week,bro poolhot told me "stop going round, find a good 1 & stop".... i say "who"...he say "i find that she is a nice ger and u still have a little chance if u wan"....."she have also broke up with his guy" Oh boy .... this few days i realli felt helpless .... i sms 2 her asking 4 her 2 confirm this feelings but ain't got reply ... the past few days i saw her ex around & thought they still 2gether... bro PH went to gather intelligence and told me "she still available ...u just take action on recovering the relationship" anyway, I now working on a recovery program and have declared my official interest through all her network of kakis ..... Any bros been through situation similar to this before ......lets share & learn from each other's experience .....
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05-02-2005, 12:11 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
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05-02-2005, 12:30 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
From wat i've read...i wud say...go for it, bro! U seem to be having a real flutter, n as the cliche goes....follow your heart. End of the day, i believe your sincerity will lead her to u.....
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05-02-2005, 01:05 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
Go for it bro, Dun do nothing abt it and feel helpless. Believe me, u will regret it.. At least u try better than not.. u have my full support
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05-02-2005, 01:08 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
thanks 4 the support but i would like to hear of stories from other bros too and we learn ....
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05-02-2005, 01:15 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
No problem for tat, i do had a smiliar case b4.. But i decided if i'm really sincere and like her.. i do not let my chance go.. So i go for it intensely, no parn chance for others(Hiong hiong lai la!!) In the end, i got wat i want!
 Can't share the actual details but its very similar to urs, Only girls of different nationality and different location. Hehe Quote:
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05-02-2005, 05:29 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
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Fall to Hell or Rise to Heaven ... at least no regrets.
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I don't know why we hang on to something we know we are better off letting go. lt's like we are scared to lose what we really don't have. I once thought I rather have something than nothing at all, but the truth is..... To have something halfway is so fucking harder than having nothing at all.
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05-02-2005, 05:32 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
Gor for it man...you only live once
 you have my support.....cheers
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To Forgive & Forget,Live & Let Live Ratings are personal & not intend to mislead Upzz list : abit lost count , Plse pm me if I miss out thanks
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06-02-2005, 01:44 PM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
Perhaps she's still unsure of her own feelings, perhaps yours as well. That's why there's no confirmation from her.
You can try asking her best friend to find out what's she thinking or feeling currently, as she may not want to reveal in front of you. After being in the know, go do what you deem neccessary. A man will only regret what he did not do.
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The Spirit of Sharing Too many pussies, so little time & $$$, and only 1 dick, so share your FRs
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07-02-2005, 01:03 AM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
kekekekekeke, I really like you bros lah, really....
I'm supporting you! You have my support! You have my FULL support!!!! kekekekekeke, I read also shiok man... BTW, what is the support you bros are giving ah??? Or what are you supporting? Bro Lament is already going for it leh... he's now asking for any bros with similar experience to share and learn lah... kekekekekekekekekeke Bro lament, I'm joining the crowd, "go for it! you have my fullest support!" kekekeke
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07-02-2005, 01:07 AM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
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 Like 4D like that. Got Buy, Got Chance. U Got Try also Got Chance
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07-02-2005, 01:19 AM
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Hahahahha......... wah lau.......... u also joining in the crowd & "suaning" bros at the same time..... kekekekke Oops! Better stop here lest it degenerates into another tcss thread again....
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07-02-2005, 03:01 AM
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Re: Bane of A Cheongster's: Our Nemesis .......
Do you really find her sincere? If so, go for it but don't just let the sudden impulse of good feeling cloud your logic thinking.
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