An affairs at cross road !

Kigo San · #1 07-03-2013, 03:01 PM

Dear samster,

This time round I must admit things turn to an uncharted
Arena for me. What started out as just friendship turns
Into lovers for us and we are at crossroad.

To cut short, we are both committed to our family. she is married less than
3 yrs, while myself about 5yr. I will call her MM here, she have spoken to her
partner for a divorce and her partner know of my existence. Likewise, I have spoken to my Home partner too except my do not know of mm presence. Therefore, despite several talk, my home wifey still refuse for a divorce, even I
Have hinted to her that I am seeing someone......

Maybe seniors can advice me. Need to hear some noise / dif view on how to work these issue out. Can PM me too.

jj_jj · #2 07-03-2013, 03:55 PM

I always ask my friends this:
"Is she just a lover or the soul mate you have been searching for your whole life?"

sammyboyfor · #3 07-03-2013, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Kigo San

Maybe seniors can advice me. Need to hear some noise / dif view on how to work these issue out. Can PM me too.

If both of you leave your respective spouses and get married, the same thing is going to happen after a few years so why bother?

Even worse, she could well be the one cheating on you the next time round. She's cheating on her husband now. There's no reason why she can't do the same after you take his place.

JacqueMerlin · #4 07-03-2013, 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kigo San

Dear samster,

This time round I must admit things turn to an uncharted
Arena for me. What started out as just friendship turns
Into lovers for us and we are at crossroad.

To cut short, we are both committed to our family. she is married less than
3 yrs, while myself about 5yr. I will call her MM here, she have spoken to her
partner for a divorce and her partner know of my existence. Likewise, I have spoken to my Home partner too except my do not know of mm presence. Therefore, despite several talk, my home wifey still refuse for a divorce, even I
Have hinted to her that I am seeing someone......

Maybe seniors can advice me. Need to hear some noise / dif view on how to work these issue out. Can PM me too.

i got no advise for you but a warning. Beware of the women's charter.

pakalolo · #5 07-03-2013, 07:29 PM

The right one is always the next one that comes along

Birdietan · #6 07-03-2013, 08:25 PM

Hi bro just think again if she can leave u for his hubby then one day she might be seeing someone else when she have problem again if u dont have any kids its still ok but when kids is involve th8nk twice
That all I can say

stillgottheblue · #7 07-03-2013, 09:14 PM

If you're happy with your marriage there is no reason for divorce. Your mistress is plain selfish.

natsuki · #8 08-03-2013, 06:02 AM

Hmmm... So, what do u want ur partner to say??

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #9 08-03-2013, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Kigo San

To cut short, we are both committed to our family. she is married less than 3 yrs, while myself about 5yr.

Bro Kigo San, No offense. She seems like an impulsive, immature and irresponsible girl motivated by instant, easy gratification of desires and fail to consider the consequences of her selfish actions.

It's too risky to jump ship with such a person cos of her inability to form firm commitment nor able to maintain healthy, long-term relationships. Her short marriage also indicated a low capacity for loyalty.

It's not worth ruining your marriage over such a girl but then again, we are just outsiders .....Only you know what's best for you and your choice......I believe somewhere in some other cyber forum, if your wife posted such a thread, those women will say the same thing to her of you as well. Who's right or wrong, only you know best

fictionman · #10 08-03-2013, 09:24 AM

Y oh Y are u doing this to yr wife??!!!!....

Boss say it best...If she can cheat now she can cheat on u next time also & vice versa...Let me ask u this...R u unhappy wz yr wife b4 u started out this relationship?

Beachsea · #11 08-03-2013, 10:44 AM

Dear Bro ,

think twice.
Imagine before she married to her husband

'' Dear truly love you , no matter what i will stick by you ''
''i do''
'' you are always in my heart ''

Then now she has you!

Such woman i will think twice.

Cheers

Blast88 · #12 08-03-2013, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

i got no advise for you but a warning. Beware of the women's charter.

Beside the women charter, the next things he got to beware of is her husband, be more cautious when walking alone on the street, he might be ambushed

alan0338 · #13 08-03-2013, 05:08 PM

jialat la both also tao jiak how to give advice??? guess will be better off to bet and see who is going to tao jiak again first ... TS @ 1.9 and MM @ 1.9, banker earn 10%

Munchkinbag · #14 08-03-2013, 07:18 PM

Never do rules of engagement one ah.

Rule number one, have affair can be sweet sweet love love but end of day both must go home to each other's partner. If either party start to think of leaving their partner for long term = break while early.

Your case I think is already past baby stage already, it is terminal stage. So up to you Liao since you let it progress until like that.

At least you have tried before lo, now maybe give her choice to respect rules or leave amicably lor. Unless you LOVE her too then take risk lor. You must prepare for women charter can Liao.

I only searching for one dedicated fb also cannot find :.(

deludedgal · #15 08-03-2013, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If both of you leave your respective spouses and get married, the same thing is going to happen after a few years so why bother?

Even worse, she could well be the one cheating on you the next time round. She's cheating on her husband now. There's no reason why she can't do the same after you take his place.

so correct.