For All Fathers With Kids

[peachbloom]

I never knew that guys have all sort of fetish and sexual activities from stealing bras, smelling panties, bio zao geng, chiong KTV, MP, HC, orgy, swinging etc
until I was exposed to SBF years ago.

SBF is an eye opener for me and I have come to accept that this world is like this. I have been wanting to post the below questions as it has been bugging me for the longest time.
How would you educate your kids especially your boys in terms of sex?

1. Would you want to be his educator in sex during his puberty years? Or you prefer your kids explore themselves or via friends?

2. If your answer is yes for 1. how would you guide him?

3. Would you introduce your boys to SBF? If yes, what would you tell him about SBF? (his friends will introduce SBF to him anyway)

For our generations, most parents do not talk much or guide their child in their puberty years. Kids go thru trial and error to understand about themselves and life.
Many have gone thru this path alone. Struggling between right and wrong, needs and wants.

I am trying to understand how most of the fathers here balance between their primal instinct versus being a responsible role model for the kids.
How do you do this?

[DemonicSS]

I know this question is for Fathers with kids, but I really want to comment on the questions placed by the TS.

1) The basis of educating your young in sex is flawed. The only thing parents should do is to let them know that sex should done responsibly and legally and the implications of doing such. As hard as all parents have to face, ultimately it falls on your own son and daughter. That is called growing up. I know alot of parents here will freak out, but step back and see the bigger picture. We were young once, and have done mistakes and learnt from it. You can only advise. Now its time for you to give your trust to your own kids as well.

2) Answer is in 1

3)HELLYEAH!! I'm going to recommend my son to SBF... "Hey son, lets do a gangbang together, what do you think?" If you feel this is a retarded answer, let me tell you, IT IS. I am guessing that you are a parent yourself and fear for your kids that you - the TS, can think of such a scenario. It is to me an illogical question.

Your kid, when grown, will decide what he likes or dislikes in his/her life. You do not choose it for him/her. If they found this place and like being in here, they will enter even without you knowing. What are you going to do? conduct 100% security screening to everything they touch and do?

Then what? If you caught him having a gangbang party, you would most likely scold and yell at him, or ground him even when he is younger. But are you going to monitor him for the rest of his life? If he likes it, there is no way you are going to stop him from doing so.

Anyway. in most cases, this site would have died long after they even mature. They will like what they like. For me, I like swinging with my partner. My partner likes it as well. Thus our sexual relation between each other is in sync. You may say its weird -which I understand, but bottom line is we are both very happy with each other. (of course this is not the only factor, there are matters of communication and character as well)

You mentioned the people here have very strange fetishes, and I agree, and I feel it is simply because of the total lack of exploration given when young. So its kind of distorted. The distortion in guys are easy to see being in here in SBF. But you haven't seen the distortion of the females who are not in here. Many have been taught that sex is a dirty word. So many of my friends whose spouses are either sexually inert or inept. Sex to them is only to be given and received from their married spouses ONLY.. Those that didn't explore soon finds out that their tastes differ and soon, one or the other becomes dissatisfied and starts "eating out." the story goes on and on. (does this sound familar?)

Lastly, my personal opinion is that there is no need for fathers to balance between their primal instinct and being a responsible role model. I shall quote you this:

'YOU ARE A CHIP OFF THE OLD BLOCK'

So there are some things you can control, but there are also many others you cannot. To do so would be to destroy your young's future. You may not see it, but you would have definitely caused it.

[withheld]

1. i think the more impt thing is relationship education, rather than sex education.
2. he can screw around for all he want but must teach him to respect girls.
3. maybe not to son.. but to future wife... gf too conservative now i can't even get to 3rd base. she never explore before, will get angry wen i talk dirty...

[ByPass]

The world is round. You never knew cause your vision is on a single plain. Time to think outside the box

[happpy]

I cant believe there such a thread. .. .............

[gboyboy123]

Originally Posted by happpy

I cant believe there such a thread. .. .............

No, I'm glad there is.

I'm quite fed up with senseless repression of the post-WW2 generation regarding sexuality.

I hold views similar to Demonic. In short, get them clear on the pros and cons of sex. The choice... Is ultimately theirs. As parents we can only provide them information to the best of our knowledge to aid them in informed, logical choices.

If I'm already a dad, I have done those, and my child still wants to go on a hardcore bonking session when he/she's of legal age and has seen a reasonable amount of the world and society we live in... I have no regrets. I have done all I can. Not that lots of bonking is wrong either. I've done that myself before I signed on the dotted line.

[777777]

Ts damn bo liao