Potential affair with a married woman

[honii]

Dear bros and sis,

I am single currently but have regular sex with girls. Recently I know a married lady. Her husband didn't treat her very well. Her sex life was not happy as her husband is only interested in his own satisfaction. We get along quite well and I shown alot of TLC to her but no sex happened between us. Then one day, when I suggested having a fling, she didn't object or approve and just laugh.

Last night, she said we should meet up when I told her jokingly again that we should have a fling. She said she took up alot of courage to say it. She also mentioned that she was afraid that real feelings might come into play.

I've never had affairs with married ladies before. Now I am hesistant to meet her. One side of me wanted to have a go with married lady, the other side is worried about the hurt that can come about from such a relationship.

Should I go ahead with the fling or should I pretend that it never happened?

[fictionman]

Y dig yr own grave bro....

[ch1818]

Try it and see if you can remain alive when her husband finds out.......

[cuscorex92]

not to preach morality, tryin to b saint,or curse ya...but wat IF 1 day,times later,the same scenario hit,juz tat u r on the husband's role instead?
人在做,天在看。

[FallenLove]

There must be a reason y she's still with him despite the probs they have. Her agreeing to a fling with u may very well just b a moment of folly. Having a bad/unfaithful/selfish hubby does not justify a wife to be unfaithful! I would say no, don't go for it, the lady may end up hurting more and in the worst scenerio, would u want to be the trigger to their divorce?

[NetRodent]

Once the mutual affections kicks in, she will cling on to you.

Just be careful what you promised her, dont give her false hope or false impression of eternal love when you can't fulfill.

[stillgottheblue]

This will be messy, cut it off while it's early.

[maxsee]

It is definitely morally wrong if you sleeps with another man's wife...there is this thing called karma....and what comes around usually goes around...instead of sleeping with her...you should be encouraging her to work things out with the hubby....

[ColdBlood99]

never mess with somebody wife

[sane]

Originally Posted by honii

Dear bros and sis,

I am single currently but have regular sex with girls. Recently I know a married lady. Her husband didn't treat her very well. Her sex life was not happy as her husband is only interested in his own satisfaction.

Should I go ahead with the fling or should I pretend that it never happened?

If she never voice out, how her hb will gotten know

Ask her to be straightforward n upfront to her hb because men will never get it.

If u cherish her as a good friend, a friend to keep for life. Don't cross over the line n hinder thoughts on her.

Sex complicates a platonic friendship and somehow, the timespan for a fb is very short and the ending is bitter especially for married ones.

[hamsapkwai]

You dont bonk her she will find someone else who will

And all those guys above who discouraged you from bonking her are all wishing they were in your shoes.

I have never turned away a request to satisfy a woman, beautiful or ugly young or old, but thats only evil old me

and you better not to listen to me cos i am heading for Hell

只能杀错不能放过

[Highjoys]

I personally had an affair with a married lady before when she was estranged from her hubby of 10 yrs... That time they were not divorced and it did not happen suddenly. We had known each other for some time and she was comfy. We began to chat abt sex and finally both interested to enjoy discreetly. But of cos we did talk about how to avoid being discovered and whether she will feel guilty or not. She said her hubby did not feel guilty too when he had a mistress out there, then why should she? On the issue of discretion, we both searched around and found one better location and we never did every week. Once in a while. Of cos, I understood how it was like to mess with somebody's wife but then if the hubby never bothered to come back home at all or always flying to other countries, why bother about this? Also, we had agreed on many things : Like emotional detachment and how to avoid being tailed by anyone.

Frankly, I do not advise to just flirt anyone's wife but then sometimes things may go beyond control and it is your own judgement that matters most. Like my past one, the hubby did not bother about her anymore, whether she is alive or not. So why not? She needs a companion and a partner in bed. But you need to clarify from the very beginning to avoid future troubles. nce these can be settled, anyting will be possible.

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by honii

Dear bros and sis,

Should I go ahead with the fling or should I pretend that it never happened?

I do not see a problem...both of you are adults...you want it...she wants it...I say go for it..

If not you, she will most likely sleep with someone else...it is not your job to help her stay moral and good and be her spiritual guide...that is her issue...you are single so you are not cheating...

If we take everybody's problems into consideration...then we cannot even wake up and breathe...what if you took a breath that another person needs to survive on???

Just live your life bro...if she wants you and you are game...why not??


Enjoy...


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[jnudes]

I won't even its for free. There is one thing called karma. Once you get caught with that, there are no one to blame but yourself. And it will be a long term regret you going to carry till the end of your life. Getting involved with coffee or chatting is fine as long as feelings are not involved.

[DarkAsh]

TS .. just remember not to utter any promises when your SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL ....