Pillow Humping?

[estars]

I enjoy pillow humping alot, it helps me to sleep better at night too. I was around primary 5 when I first discovered that putting a pillow down there feels so great. At that age, I didn't know it was masturbating, I just know I felt so great. 10 years later, I am still enjoying doing this.

When I was with my ex, I am very open about this. During days when we are not together or when he is in camp, he will get me to ride on my pillow/bolster and moan to him over the phone. I love making myself feel good by doing that and giving him a blowjob at the same time. Because of the riding habit, the only sex position that I can enjoy is cowgirl - being on top.

Now I just started dating a new guy, I don't know how to be open to him about this, that pillow humping gives me the best orgasm. I enjoy being licked and rubbed more than fingering.

Guys, how will you feel if your girl tell you about this?

[Bulleto]

I actually was involved with a gal who was like this a few months back. She would do BBBJ for me pretty much the same way you described. It felt weird when she told me that's how she gets off and to honest it was kinda weird.

I kinda got over it after a few days. Is not a big deal come to think of it. I say just tell him. Coz it's like you you're in sex with candles and whips. Doubt ppl will freak out.

Cheers

[H2001]

Hi Ts being in a relationship you need to be open . Your fetish about pillow humping and enjoyed being licked you can sit down with him and talk about it . I am sure he has fetish of his own .

Just have a chat with him you will never know what going to happen if you just keep to yourself

[ah rat]

TS,can I be yours pillow

[newdone]

guys usually don't mind

[wolflust]

That's not weird in any way, it's your preferred way of masturbating. Letting your partner know about it also gives a head start for your partner to know what satisfies you and brings about a more satisfied sex life for you.

But of course it is a two way road, you will also have to accommodate to his needs if it is acceptable to you. That way both parties will get to enjoy when it comes to sexual intimacy.

[estars]

I am not sure when and how to talk to him about this. As early as possible or until the relationship is much stable?

[will88]

TS, my view is that if are ready to engage sex with him, no harm disclosing your fetish to him as this can improve sex life. However, if you are not ready, what kind of signal are u giving him? Come on, when a girl comes telling a guy she like cowgirl and enjoy being lick and rub.... what will a normal guy think?

[octman]

Originally Posted by estars

I enjoy pillow humping alot, it helps me to sleep better at night too. I was around primary 5 when I first discovered that putting a pillow down there feels so great. At that age, I didn't know it was masturbating, I just know I felt so great. 10 years later, I am still enjoying doing this.

When I was with my ex, I am very open about this. During days when we are not together or when he is in camp, he will get me to ride on my pillow/bolster and moan to him over the phone. I love making myself feel good by doing that and giving him a blowjob at the same time. Because of the riding habit, the only sex position that I can enjoy is cowgirl - being on top.

Now I just started dating a new guy, I don't know how to be open to him about this, that pillow humping gives me the best orgasm. I enjoy being licked and rubbed more than fingering.

Guys, how will you feel if your girl tell you about this?

Just be frank and tell him after your first session with him..... im sure most of us would love cowgirl and grinding yr pussy against to...... I love this positon the most and doggie is second....... lols

[estars]

Originally Posted by will88

TS, my view is that if are ready to engage sex with him, no harm disclosing your fetish to him as this can improve sex life. However, if you are not ready, what kind of signal are u giving him? Come on, when a girl comes telling a guy she like cowgirl and enjoy being lick and rub.... what will a normal guy think?

I am definitely ready to engage sex with him, in fact I am a very horny girl and love getting his touch.

He does know that I love getting a good rub from him before sleeping, but he will always end up fingering me and when I try to ask him to rub instead, he would thought that I was being shy to let his fingers enter me...

[will88]

Hmm, then there's nothing shy to express your desire to him can also ask him what he like at the same time. Suggest you tell him before foreplay.

[H3artbr3aker]

Just be straightforward and talk it through with him. Who knows, he might actually like and enjoy it?

[Bravo-2-0]

Originally Posted by estars

I enjoy pillow humping alot, it helps me to sleep better at night too. I was around primary 5 when I first discovered that putting a pillow down there feels so great. At that age, I didn't know it was masturbating, I just know I felt so great. 10 years later, I am still enjoying doing this.

When I was with my ex, I am very open about this. During days when we are not together or when he is in camp, he will get me to ride on my pillow/bolster and moan to him over the phone. I love making myself feel good by doing that and giving him a blowjob at the same time. Because of the riding habit, the only sex position that I can enjoy is cowgirl - being on top.

Now I just started dating a new guy, I don't know how to be open to him about this, that pillow humping gives me the best orgasm. I enjoy being licked and rubbed more than fingering.

Guys, how will you feel if your girl tell you about this?

I would feel excited and Horny if a girl would to tell me.

[estars]

Appreciate the replies and POVs, gave me the courage that I needed

I will find a time to let him know about this and see how we can go from that..

[Tomb]

You might just have an explosive sex after sharing this with him.
He might just enjoy looking at you humping the pillow.

I think its kinky.