Paid Date A Trend?

[Splitter100]

With all the hooha going on about paid dates with B and MissJ and RaspC

Was wondering is there ever a NEED to go on a paid date with these girls?

Is your social circle so small that you can't even find friends (female,male,group) to come out with?

Ultimately, what is the aim in the first place?

And with the pics shown, these girls are definitely SYT and presentable girls.

The threads are interesting to read yet it always left me puzzled in the end.

[takashi2411]

Since there is a group of men who physically unattractive...hence very near to 0% able to date a chio SYT gal for a date.

Therefore, to fulfill the emotional/mental needs....pay date comes into the picture. At least, when you dating a chio SYT gal; you got the feeling each of every men looking at you and her with a though "KNN, this guy damn lucky to got such gf!"

At least experiencing date a chio SYT gal for a men who live only once in this world...not bad mah.

Similar like luxury items...you dont need it; but you want it.

[HCKing]

nothing new lah, social escorts have been ard for donkey years liao. except tat they are the professionals while those here are the amateurs.

[crood]

U paid for a chance to hook, isnt it obvious , just trying a chance.

[Splitter100]

Originally Posted by takashi2411

Since there is a group of men who physically unattractive...hence very near to 0% able to date a chio SYT gal for a date.

Therefore, to fulfill the emotional/mental needs....pay date comes into the picture. At least, when you dating a chio SYT gal; you got the feeling each of every men looking at you and her with a though "KNN, this guy damn lucky to got such gf!"

At least experiencing date a chio SYT gal for a men who live only once in this world...not bad mah.

Similar like luxury items...you dont need it; but you want it.

Hi Bro,

Well Said.

[Splitter100]

Originally Posted by crood

U paid for a chance to hook, isnt it obvious , just trying a chance.

Hi bro,

In actual fact, no chance.
The main purpose is earn money.
Getting hook up is secondary to the girls.
I think they do have their own social circle(very large due to their looks).
Just a flick of finger, their guy friends will come crawling la.

[crood]

Originally Posted by Splitter100

Hi bro,

In actual fact, no chance.
The main purpose is earn money.
Getting hook up is secondary to the girls.
I think they do have their own social circle(very large due to their looks).
Just a flick of finger, their guy friends will come crawling la.

bro, we noe every guy looking for chance, slim or not ..... if there's chemistry and to top up with more $$ and gifts, who wont say no ... let's say this rich Robert find it a novelty (everyday eat shark fin also sian, y not try 小家碧玉） and dangle a limited edition, u think even Ms holy will say no meh Guys friend can crawl but are they willing to splurge

For guys, a chance to meet = chance to bed and for women especially to work for $$, will u say no to 财神爷??

[missj]

hello. nice to know the guys' side of things.

[bubblebutt]

Originally Posted by takashi2411

Similar like luxury items...you dont need it; but you want it.

Great metaphor. Like renting a luxury bag.
Hey does that make me the muse for some luxury brand's designer? Just kidding!

[Martian.C]

I personally think it's a good way to unwind, especially if you can afford it. Paid dates offer you time with an attractive woman with whom you won't feel the need to impress (unless that's your thing). While it doesn't GUARANTEE a great date (chemistry is still important), but chances are that your date will make the effort to be interested in what you say/do during the date and be more involved per se.

Also, quite a number of busy people these days who are not looking for a committed relationship may prefer it this way - at least you know what you're getting and you don't have to go through the whole song and dance trying to pick up girls or getting friend to set you up etc.

Ultimately, you pay to enjoy an afternoon/evening in the company of a beautiful woman, and who wouldn't want that?

[szczesny]

Maybe its cheaper to date your female friends who u will have to impress with luxury restuarants and gifts & most of times return is ZERO! Since u hired her u shd feel more comfortable with your demands and needs juz ask and maybe can deal!

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by szczesny

Maybe its cheaper to date your female friends who u will have to impress with luxury restuarants and gifts & most of times return is ZERO! Since u hired her u shd feel more comfortable with your demands and needs juz ask and maybe can deal!

Hmm.. you sure it's cheaper than dating your female friends?

Anyway why do you need to impress your female friends with those expensive gifts or meals at luxurious restaurants?

Well I don't see any reason in doing so unless she is your wife or girlfriend and you need to pamper her occasionally like wedding anniversary or valentine day.

[Martian.C]

Originally Posted by yangguo

Hmm.. you sure it's cheaper than dating your female friends?

Anyway why do you need to impress your female friends with those expensive gifts or meals at luxurious restaurants?

Well I don't see any reason in doing so unless she is your wife or girlfriend and you need to pamper her occasionally like wedding anniversary or valentine day.

That's because in a lot of cases in SG, as long as a girl is reasonably attractive, her expectations are generally through the roof -they want the luxury stuff or want to wine and dine at the finest places in town.

Might not always be the case, but the good ones are usually taken :P so these are the ones you're left to deal with...

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by Martian.C

That's because in a lot of cases in SG, as long as a girl is reasonably attractive, her expectations are generally through the roof -they want the luxury stuff or want to wine and dine at the finest places in town.

Might not always be the case, but the good ones are usually taken :P so these are the ones you're left to deal with...

Is this your personal experience or just your own belief?

Anyway I believe there are still many good ones out there yet to be taken..

[Martian.C]

Originally Posted by yangguo

Is this your personal experience or just your own belief?

Anyway I believe there are still many good ones out there yet to be taken..

I speak from a bit of both. I have very attractive friends who are like that and from following the popular blogs and stuff you see the same trend.

I'm not talking about the "okay, la not bad" or the "6.5/7 out of 10" kind - I'm talking about the kind where you see on the street you will look at least twice and maybe sneak some more extra looks kind.

Ofc personally if I do compensated dating, it'd be for that kind of calibre - the kind where I know it'd be difficult to keep if I have to keep her happy as a girlfriend instead. Paying for each time would greatly reduce complications, expectations, drama and let us both just focus on having a good time.