Private investigator on wife

[bobian]

Hi fellow brothers,

Has any married guys who suspect that his wife is having someone outside, and has hired a PI to do some investigation?

If yes, whats the damage like and what kind of investigative stuffs were done?

Thank u !

[happiee]

Originally Posted by bobian

Hi fellow brothers,

Has any married guys who suspect that his wife is having someone outside, and has hired a PI to do some investigation?

If yes, whats the damage like and what kind of investigative stuffs were done?

Thank u !

are you suspecting your wife TS?

[Tazteo]

How come u suspecting her??

[bobian]

Well if she really does, then i will post it here... Thats why need to find out how abt PI

[johntan68]

Originally Posted by bobian

Well if she really does, then i will post it here... Thats why need to find out how abt PI

Actually what's yr objective? To end the marriage or to salvage it? It doesn't matter if you have evident but if u truly want to salvage yr marriage, then you should knock some sense on her. No point spending money on PI, it is not going to be cheap. You rather save those hard earn money for your children.

[Rusbro]

As some have said. Don't invest money if u want to break or even if u want to salvage. Use money to spend on kids or on ur own future. If u suspect talk to wife or use some software on phone to track. Will b much cheaper. Or take few weeks off from work n do it urself will get better result. PI will use ur insecurity to fleece u. N will take long to get the result too.

[hornybastard]

Originally Posted by bobian

Hi fellow brothers,

Has any married guys who suspect that his wife is having someone outside, and has hired a PI to do some investigation?

If yes, whats the damage like and what kind of investigative stuffs were done?

Thank u !

Depends on the complexity and duration of the job.
If you are keen I can help you.

[Krazzie]

It's better to get the evidence regardless of whether TS end up taking action or not.

Don't forget divorce proceedings in Singapore is almost always advantageous to the wife even if she is the one fucking around, so better to have evidence on hand to protect himself.

[MeiZhenXiang]

Yes, there are software that you can install on computer that record her keystroke. Not sure about phone though, but should have similar.

Gather something before decide if its worth getting a PI.

Also, not sure if its correct, but sg law doesn't stop the woman from seeking alimony even she's the one who strayed.

[Sirrus]

Originally Posted by Krazzie

It's better to get the evidence regardless of whether TS end up taking action or not.

Don't forget divorce proceedings in Singapore is almost always advantageous to the wife even if she is the one fucking around, so better to have evidence on hand to protect himself.

exactly. rather spend that money to protect yourself if she is really cheating then to give her the money every month and u suck thumb

[Lindblum]

Originally Posted by Sirrus

exactly. rather spend that money to protect yourself if she is really cheating then to give her the money every month and u suck thumb

If she's cheating, and you can prove it, I don't think you need to pay her maintenance

[Luyao]

My friend has a similar problem which I had posted in an earlier thread about downlaoding WeChat msgs from hp. He is also keen to know what will be the damage if he engage a PI to prove his case. He saw msgs in his wife's WeChat which strongly suggest she is fucking another man but need concrete evidence to decide how to move forward

[mrdonkey]

im also wondering how to track and track too. Lets see what we can do to help one another.

[siambee]

Engaging PI can be very expensive ($70-150/hr/ or more), depending on how many
PIs/hrs u need during the case/what kind of case (2ppl or the whole team)

During engaging the PI firms, they will sell u as package of how many
PIs/ Hrs in needs, of cos the more hrs will be cheaper. But in bottom line
I don't foresee spending anything below $1500... then when your package
about to finish u may want to add on to more hrs in service. I have seen people
spent $1500 - $300K engaging PI service. ( oversea trips)

In layman terms... PI is just like baby sitting, buying an opportunities to know
the truth... some time PIs may spent whole day on standby mode but when the
followed person die die don't come out, this is where your money will be burn
for nothing. But bare this in mind, if u buy the package like 30hrs, and the first 10hrs,
result of adultery been confirm, there is no such thing as refund the balance! Most likely just
ask them to continue follow till the package complete. (Don't ask me what if buy $10k how huh... )

Ask yourself this question..... do u really needs PIs services or just a plain misunderstanding?
So what will happen or what u want to do after u know the truth?
People saying PIs is a rich games, somehow I may agree....

Lastly, PLs do not PM me for further information..... I just wana type this few
words to give tread starter a brief idea

[lousza]

Originally Posted by Lindblum

If she's cheating, and you can prove it, I don't think you need to pay her maintenance

from what I know, u still need to pay maintenance even she cheated.. that's woman charter for u