Catching girls online

[leekwantew]

From what I understand the SOP goes like this:

1. Say hi to them on Wechat/Badoo etc etc
2. Talk about safe topics like living in Singapore, work etc etc
3. ???
4. up her

I'm interested to know what the ??? part is. From what I see some bros will try to arrange meetup so can chat, then try their luck or hope the girl gets horny and initiate.

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by leekwantew

From what I understand the SOP goes like this:

1. Say hi to them on Wechat/Badoo etc etc
2. Talk about safe topics like living in Singapore, work etc etc
3. ???
4. up her

I'm interested to know what the ??? part is. From what I see some bros will try to arrange meetup so can chat, then try their luck or hope the girl gets horny and initiate.

??? = how much?

[love09]

Oh.. oh..zhe... "Catching girls online"

[Sirrus]

dont hurt somebody in the process for just the excitement and trill from hunting for sex.

thats the secret. be yourself, be genuine.

if your motive is for sex only, no matter what you do or say, you wont get anything unless the lady has the same motive.

ladies can sense it if your lying, they seen and experience many of the same kind of man already. you wont be the first nor last so dont try to lie your way through.

be yourself and if you have any inner spiritual charm/materialistic charm as a person at all they will like you.

nobody can teach you what to say. you need to know what to say, if u dont that means you dont know the person your talking too. make the effort to know somebody for who they are as a person, not just a pussy.

too much effort than go for paid sex

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

??? = how much?

I think it is "send over dick photos" or "phone sex" ...

[lousza]

i miss the irc era back then it was so easy to know girl online

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by bigbrudder

I think it is "send over dick photos" or "phone sex" ...

sometimes send over dick pics ain't a good move.. lollll

[MeiZhenXiang]

??? = 要去吗？

[tyguy2911]

LOL. what is ??? we're all keen to know

[szczesny]

MAybe u look handsome then got higher chance having getting them laid.

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

sometimes send over dick pics ain't a good move.. lollll

Dick Pics with face photo?

[genji81]

Well The first message is very important,think of something more to say than a HI because they don't like to reply a guy that don't put in enough effort.
Follow by how you still able to just go with what they like to do or chat about to increase your chance of meeting up with them.
It is not true that only good looking guys have a higher chance of getting gals because women don't feel a sense of security with them.
I have my fair share of gals too from online dating site at 33 and i don't drive.
Just one of the gal that i know from online that sent me this before meeting up.
Next week am gonna meet two of the online gals i know. One local and the other from china.
You might not score with every gal that you meet, but as long you score with just 1 out of 3 , i think that is a good enough ratio in my point.
The ??? actually implies to how well you manage to click with her upon meeting up, don't appear too be too hasty.

http://www.uploadhouse.com/imgs/19069519/

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by bigbrudder

Dick Pics with face photo?

plot twist.. the char bor is fake, dick pics with face photo sent to Stomp! rofl

now media so interested in how people exploit WeChat and other social apps to hook girls.. those who gave interviews and boast about their experience are real idiots.. reducing our playgrounds one by one..

Originally Posted by MeiZhenXiang

??? = 要去吗？

in my innocent days, i walked past streetwalkers in geylang when i go for frog leg porridge, i heard them ask me "要去吗？要玩吗？去嘛！"

then i was like smlj?? i replied "去哪里？玩什么？去哪里啦?!" they dulan just walk off..

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

now media so interested in how people exploit WeChat and other social apps to hook girls.. those who gave interviews and boast about their experience are real idiots.. reducing our playgrounds one by one..

Anyway WeChat is just a platform. The habit is still the same, assuming the demise of WeChat ... there will always be something else.

[leekwantew]

Originally Posted by genji81

Well The first message is very important,think of something more to say than a HI because they don't like to reply a guy that don't put in enough effort.
Follow by how you still able to just go with what they like to do or chat about to increase your chance of meeting up with them.
It is not true that only good looking guys have a higher chance of getting gals because women don't feel a sense of security with them.
I have my fair share of gals too from online dating site at 33 and i don't drive.
Just one of the gal that i know from online that sent me this before meeting up.
Next week am gonna meet two of the online gals i know. One local and the other from china.
You might not score with every gal that you meet, but as long you score with just 1 out of 3 , i think that is a good enough ratio in my point.
The ??? actually implies to how well you manage to click with her upon meeting up, don't appear too be too hasty.

http://www.uploadhouse.com/imgs/19069519/

I believe I do have the skills for making chitchat/small talk problem is usually hard for me to get the girl to play along, hard to get a good convo going when you're the only one talking right?

Also I see some bros within a few messages can score a meetup. That one I not good at