Undergrad Investigator needed

[50shades]

Hi, my guy ended our r/s abruptly
I ask if there's someone else he says yes. Then he stops replying
But I don't believe it.

Any nus engin guys here don't mind being csi, can help me keep a lookout for him on campus. Take pics if he's sighted with the "girl" and stuff
I know it's not going to help salvage our r/s but at least if I know more what he isn't telling me, I can be at peace with myself. I've given a lot to him.
Any kind souls?

First and foremost, thank you for your kind gesture.
Pls include your <sch>, <fac>, <year?>, <how u plan to help>
That would help make things easier for me.
Enjoy your post-midterms weekend.

[sammyboyfor]

Why bother? You're just wasting your time and causing yourself more heartache.

Look forward. The rest is just water under the bridge.

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by 50shades

Hi, my guy ended our r/s abruptly
I ask if there's someone else he says yes. Then he stops replyingz
But I don't believe it

Any nus engin guys here don't mind being csi, can help me keep a lookout for him on campus. Take pics if he's sighted with the "girl" and stuff
I know it's not going to help salvage our r/s but at least if I know more what he isn't telling me, I can be at peace with myself.
I've given a lot to him.
Hope a kind soul can help.
Thanks

He isn't worth your time. Best is to show him what he is missing out by spending time with me.

[G.T.O]

He has moved on, and you've not.
He is happy, and you're not.
Direct your energy elsewhere for your own good & happiness.

You're right to say with csi evidence, you won't get the r/s back.
You say you just want to be at peace with yourself.
What makes you so sure the materials you get, will give you peace?
I can tell you for sure, it's not a sure thing.

Big bro here has given you golden advise in just two lines. Take it & move on.
Cheers to a happier life.

[efftee]

There were probably small signs in the relationship to show that it's ending.. There's no such thing as abruptly.

Like most have said, let it go. Because so what if you found out? That the girl is prettier than you? Or it's your friend's friend? It doesn't matter.

If there's no girl, and he's lying to get out of the relationship, then what's the point in finding out the truth?

[Beagle]

Move forward with your life. There are much better guys out there for you. Look things on the brighter side. Cheerios

[Max77]

Next time u wanna actually gain something tangible from a love relationship after breaking up, try marrying the guy instead.

If Im not so outdated, u'll get half of wadever hes having. Cheers

[50shades]

Thanks big bros for yr kind advice.
Although we did many things, dating isn't one of them.
None of his frens knew about me.
It just sucks that I've been there for him for sucha long time
He gives reasons why he can't date me - school, parents etc
Yet now he's seeing someone?!
Am I so undesirable? I just like to have Answers so that I can seek Closure as he's not giving me my Answers.
So if by chance, any year 1/2/3 engin undergrads are keen to help, lemme know.
Thanks in advance.

[frozenlock]

no point investigating more when you know it's going to hurt u further

[tonyseng]

TS, don becos 1 tree give up whole forest.

[50shades]

Thanks for your advice & suggestions. Call me stubborn but I'm just curious to know.

What do you wish to get from that?
It is useless[/QUOTE]

Don try to investigate further.. Just it go.. it is jus part and parcel of life.
Life is short so don waste time harping onto the past[/QUOTE]

I read yr post. well if u wan go muay Thai session sweat out n make on keep healthy n fit. Dun get mi wrong u train I mostly may not b same timing wit u jus share wit u . Hav a nice day earth is spinning life goes on[/QUOTE]


I read before, when you are angry and bitter, it hurts you rather than the person you are angry about
Because the other person does not feel your anger or bitterness. so you bear all the pain yourself
In fact he is probably enjoying himself
Trust me i know what i am talking about....
Feel free to talk to me if it helps, can share my experience[/QUOTE]

Hi sis, I am 28 years old male local Chinese, and I have read your plight.
Hope you stay strong :][/QUOTE]

[Obeliskseamus]

Let her have her way.

She won't let it go until she's got an answer.

[ConnerDoReMe]

Can jus post for foc services.. Lolx
Any heroes taken up the task?

[bad^boi]

what for ?
just move on.. no point..
u wont come to terms with yourself one lah
u just wanna convincen that he's with someone else and he's done you wrong. CONVINCE - that's the word.

Forget it. don bother. juz move on.

[50shades]

Why is it so easy with guys? Simply send a text to break up & expect the girl to find someone else. Any girls' perspective here?

'You said move on, but where do I go?'