Can look at gers wearing revealing clothes openly?

akiyo · #1 12-09-2005, 10:38 AM

hi bros n sis

I donno whether this topic has been raised before... but i would like to ask or discuss on something.

U know now gals r very daring, always wearing those revealing clothes that show their cleavage or whatever. So when the gals wear revealing clothes, is it an invitation to us guys to look at them? should we feel paiseh if they actually notice that u r looking at them? I mean this is for scenarios that they purposely reveal themselves. Shoulw we even smile at them to acknowledge that they r indeed pretty n well endowed?Cos i encountered several occasions when i looking at pretty gals and there is eye contact and i will turn away in embarrassment n then i will try to steal a look at them. I am sure gers know that we r stealing a look at them so does gers like this? Will appreciate comments from both sexes!

Then i suppose for zaogeng cases, of cos we don let the gals that we r 'bioing' them. But if the gal who zaogeng is yr frd, will u tell her to check her clothes say zip up or button up etc?

walkingdick · #2 12-09-2005, 10:46 AM

Girls appreciate being noticed, some don't mind the attention, but definitely won't want amorous advances from;

1. Old men
2. Ugly men (depending their taste)
3. Badly dressed men
4. Men with BO and BB
5. Old, ugly, badly dressed, poor, smelly YET try to get cheap thrill type of men.

In short, they dress to be noticed by perceived equally or more attractive men.

My 2 cents worth after dealin with them for a decade.

rocket cheongst · #3 12-09-2005, 10:56 AM

In short, they dress to be noticed by perceived equally or more attractive men.

this one i totally agree with you,

well,

gal dress to kill. reason? being able to get the attention of men. This will give them assurance that the are still attractive or lookable.

Of course there are some Bitchy type where they will cling to ang Mos' with hyper short skirt like wearing next to nothing in broard daylight ( this one i encounter yesterday at BUGIS!! )

but, no matter how we look at them, dun give them de staring eyes (perverted) look. Casual glimsp at them is ok as long as u dun stare till ur head turn even after she have walk passed you ( this i have a few encounter cause simply too chio to only catch one glimps!)

akiyo · #4 12-09-2005, 11:19 AM

thanks for yr replies, so don stare at them ? what if there is eye contact? n more than once of eye contact means u kanna caught? advosable to smile back at her? or this only applies in clubbing situations?

any female samsters care to comment?

tionggoklan · #5 12-09-2005, 11:35 AM

Aiya, when there is show to see, juz see loh. Unless u wanna get to know her, well if u r young n yantao n well dressed, then u go n think of all the approaches.

For me, like bro walkingdick says, an old ugly n poor man, so I juz feast my eyes lah, n capture as much details as possible, then maybe later can fantasize abt her, hahahahaha.

If there is any eyes contact, then juz gif a friendly smile loh, if she gif u a fuck-off look, then u also fuck care her. My logic is very simple; if u dare to dress as such, then dun be afraid of ppl looking at u, u yrself is trying to get ppl attention, so u will get all sort of attention, including those that u dun like.

However, sum gals r damn funny, wanna wear mini-skirt, but then u can see them keep pulling down their skirt on n off, like try to cover sumthing. Look, if u not comfortable wearing such short skirt, then dun wear lah, wear oreli still like trying to cover here n there when obviously there is not enuff material to do so, hahahaha.

End of day, boh chap, juz enjoy the free show, ya free 1, cos i poor man mah.

yanki1 · #6 12-09-2005, 12:07 PM

I believe when theres zao geng just see lo. they also cannot do anything even if they call police. but dun go take pic those kind la.

ricardo · #7 12-09-2005, 12:08 PM

worst some wear low cut but keep putting hand over it ... over u do that when u bend down that is call graceful but even standing up or sitting down. knn i like to see lah but if u dont show i dont see ... u show but cover like tat good meh.

sing1nitestand · #8 12-09-2005, 12:19 PM

i think can...haha...but, dont be too obvious when looking.
since she dare to wear, i dare to see...

i have some friends (gal) who some times wear quite low cut, so, when bend down, u can see a very good longkang. i always told them : "walao, u make me nose bleeding liao..haha"... they will just laugh...of coz they are very close friends of mine... i even got invited : "want to see more???"

i'm not sure if this kind of jokes can be considered as sex harassment?

lesnar · #9 12-09-2005, 12:23 PM

See zaogeng can, but don't do it on purpose, eg. standing at 1st flr and look up to 2nd flr for prey.....usually in shopping centre....

For me, when i am outside, when i see a chio gal, i will definitely steal a few glances.....nothing to worry about.....

asdfghjkl · #10 12-09-2005, 07:22 PM

i cant see any ZG ler.. where u guys go ah?

vios3268 · #11 12-09-2005, 07:44 PM

For me, if being noticed, then I'll openly tell her (of course only to her privately) how's the feeling.

peterpan · #12 13-09-2005, 01:08 AM

My gf's dressing has created sm problems for us b4. I always encourage her to wear low cut spag and short skirts and she enjoy the attention too. When we r walking in neibourhood or old places, the stare are often iritating. with wolf whisles and comments.

There was once when we were queing to enter chinablack. As usual, she enters b4 me to pick up guys, and thus im q-ing abt 8 person behind her. In this 8 ppl were a group of 3 tipsy guys. My gf was wearing a supershort flimsy white skirt which u can see thru under strong lights. The guys were trying hard to see thru her skirt. While trying, many ppl in the q were aware and are looking as well. 1 of the guy pretended to tie his shoelace and took a pic up her skirt. They dan monkey ard and started pushing and acidentally hit my gf's butt. My gf was a little iritated but was soon chatted up with them and they became frds. Wat happen nxt was another story...

But u could hv imagine hw one felt when i noe that those guys were 'mind-stripping' my gf...

Fantastic4 · #13 13-09-2005, 01:16 AM

Bro Peter Pan...u damn steady leh. Those jokers did these to ur gf & yet u nvr go hum tum them? :confused

Tai_zi21 · #14 13-09-2005, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by peterpan

and thus im q-ing abt 8 person behind her. In this 8 ppl were a group of 3 tipsy guys. My gf was wearing a supershort flimsy white skirt which u can see thru under strong lights. The guys were trying hard to see thru her skirt. While trying, many ppl in the q were aware and are looking as well. 1 of the guy pretended to tie his shoelace and took a pic up her skirt. They dan monkey ard and started pushing and acidentally hit my gf's butt. My gf was a little iritated but was soon chatted up with them and they became frds. Wat happen nxt was another story...

But u could hv imagine hw one felt when i noe that those guys were 'mind-stripping' my gf...

If the guy use a proper way to know ur gf by maybe offering her drinks or chatting up with her to know her still ok!

But by using this method and ur gf still become friends with them? Why not u intro ur gf to mi? i'm sure i will treat her better!

Wat is this world coming to?

peterpan · #15 13-09-2005, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Fantastic4

Bro Peter Pan...u damn steady leh. Those jokers did these to ur gf & yet u nvr go hum tum them? :confused

I was ngry and jealous but i cant go and save my gf, if not our cover will be exposed. Anyway it was our plan for her to dress skimpily to pick up guys... So getting this kinda attention was expected...

But if it ever did get outa hand(molested in public), i will def whack the hell out of them...