Long Lost Friend

abcde · #1 30-11-2005, 07:38 PM

Hi All,

Recently met into an old friend...we knew each other for more than 20years. We used to study together during school time. And I think she had some feeling for me as most of the time she approached me to study together. But unfortunately during school time, I dun dare to approach her as worried she might reject me...now she is married and so do I? How can I test water to see whether she still had feeling for me?

Please help

VBScripts · #2 30-11-2005, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by abcde

Hi All, How can I test water to see whether she still had feeling for me? Please help

Brother, don't you want to have a happy marriage for both your long lost friend and yourself? It had been lost contact for 20 years, many things have been changed, and since both of you already have your own family, why don't you think otherwise to treat her as a family friend instead of creating yet another broken family?

Please consider the consequences you may get to face.

nuclearkid · #3 30-11-2005, 09:48 PM

I don't think you should even test water for your carnal urges. If you didn't have the freaking balls to act 20 years ago, you shouldn't do so now when the consequences are much more dire. If it wasn't meant to be yours, it wouldn't be. Live with it.

KingEros · #4 01-12-2005, 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by nuclearkid

I don't think you should even test water for your carnal urges. If you didn't have the freaking balls to act 20 years ago, you shouldn't do so now when the consequences are much more dire. If it wasn't meant to be yours, it wouldn't be. Live with it.

Well, the freaking balls surfaced becoz there're too many goadings of "my true experience" with so-and-so??

diesel · #5 01-12-2005, 10:37 AM

Don't be silly lah...People married liao then want after her?

You have to put in that (your old friend) girl's husband's shoes. How would you feel if someone is chasing after your wife?

mebirdie · #6 01-12-2005, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by abcde

Hi All,

Recently met into an old friend...we knew each other for more than 20years. We used to study together during school time. And I think she had some feeling for me as most of the time she approached me to study together. But unfortunately during school time, I dun dare to approach her as worried she might reject me...now she is married and so do I? How can I test water to see whether she still had feeling for me?

Please help

Please do not create havou for family.
Testing water is like playing with fire.
Don't even think about it

wildbeast · #7 01-12-2005, 10:51 AM

Bro abcde, my advice:

DROP THE BAD BAD IDEA!!!!! LEAD UR LIFE, LEAVE HER & FAMILY ALONE. YOUR GAME OVER YEARS AGO..... PLS DUN SCREW THINGS UP OF NOWHERE OR U FACE THE MUSIC.

devilboy99 · #8 01-12-2005, 01:52 PM

Bro abcde
Do u know what u r talking abt? Where did this hidden courage from u come from all of a sudden? 20 years ago dun have now have... strange....

20 years ago most likely u would have got free sex now will most likely kanna a slap from her... Think before u act

Castrol · #9 01-12-2005, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by abcde

Hi All,

How can I test water to see whether she still had feeling for me?

bro, just ask her go watch a movie or something. talk a bit dirty to her and see how she responds. and at night when you sleep, dont call out her name hor...

jrbecker99 · #10 01-12-2005, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by abcde

Hi All,

Recently met an old friend...for more than 20years. But unfortunately during school time, I dun dare to approach her now she is married and so do I? How can I test water to see whether she still had feeling for me?

Please help

you are a real abc kindegarten in the head. 20 years ago you got no balls. so when suddenly you got balls?

lets say she now say to you i want you to leave your wife for me would you do that? no.

so let by gones be by gones just memories. that you should even have to ask us horny samsters who will fuck anything says very little for your IQ . fly aeroplane no test now.

ahpaul25 · #11 01-12-2005, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by VBScripts

Brother, don't you want to have a happy marriage for both your long lost friend and yourself? It had been lost contact for 20 years, many things have been changed, and since both of you already have your own family, why don't you think otherwise to treat her as a family friend instead of creating yet another broken family?

Please consider the consequences you may get to face.

I agreed with VBscripts bro.....pls drop the subject....you will get yourself in big mess....if you really in need, kindly pay $100 in GL to crease FIRE.

#12 01-12-2005, 02:54 PM

bro abcde,

drop the idea la, rather stay as friends instead of destroying your family and hers.. if she is a player then okie but if she is not and matter of the heart is involve, it will be a complete mess to get out by that time..

Nismo · #13 01-12-2005, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by diesel

Don't be silly lah...People married liao then want after her?

You have to put in that (your old friend) girl's husband's shoes. How would you feel if someone is chasing after your wife?

Frankly speaking, I'll feel either neutral, or flattered (this is usually the case).

I mean, rationally there is NO WAY WHATSOEVER one can control the actions of a suitor, nor the behaviour of one's partner (be it gf, wife, etc). I'll be more interested to see her response to such pursuit. Her reaction/response would be a good gauge pertaining to the depth of our relationship/commitment.

And just cos someone is married, doesn't mean one cannot pursue her. I mean, if one really feels that she's THE ONE, and she feels the same way too - by all means - GO AHEAD!! .. But if you're only interested in getting into her panties, .. pull your reins!

If marriage is for life, there won't be the existance of divorces, alimony, etc.

Castrol · #14 01-12-2005, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Nismo

I mean, rationally there is NO WAY WHATSOEVER one can control the actions of a suitor, nor the behaviour of one's partner (be it gf, wife, etc). I'll be more interested to see her response to such pursuit. Her reaction/response would be a good gauge pertaining to the depth of our relationship/commitment.

absolutely well said. clap clap clap!

a lot have been said about something like "what if your own wife or gf is the one being pursued?" etc...

so, if ever your own wife or gf cant control herself and did something fanciful behind your back, you wanna blame the guy only???

we can have principles in our sex life, like we dont fuck around with a friend's wife/gf. becos we dont betray a friend's trust that way. see the difference?

VBScripts · #15 01-12-2005, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Nismo

If marriage is for life, there won't be the existance of divorces, alimony, etc.

Logically you are quite right; it takes two hands to clap. But it’s like a forest without any fire it would burn. So what I mean is since she is married why trying to put the hand on her? I would rather leave her alone and or keep in contact as a friend without any wickedness thinking.