Addicted

KingBong · #1 05-12-2005, 01:22 AM

I need to be blown at least once a month and it's starting to be a problem. Any bros have the same problem and manage to overcome it? No sacarstic advise pls, this is no joke, thanks in advance.

flowerpot · #2 05-12-2005, 05:21 AM

just need to be blown???

no other needs??

bernie · #3 05-12-2005, 05:40 AM

i everyday oso wan....... haha......... bro flowerpot , so late still dun wana slep ah????

flowerpot · #4 05-12-2005, 06:18 AM

sorri... just saw your msg...

haven leh....
cannot sleep.. how?? keke

plumshirt · #5 06-12-2005, 10:32 AM

Anyone serious in wishing to stop affairs, reduce urge can consider this:

1) See all women as older sister, mother/younger women as younger sister, daughter. This helps reduce such thoughts.

2)"Learn to practice the `unclean view`. What remains of a beautiful woman once her outer skin and flesh are removed? All that remains is a skeleton. When the body is viewed anatomically, one sees internal organs filled with blood, feces, and urine reeking of an unclean and offensive stench. By engaging in this kind of view, one will find the body physical characteristics quite horrible and disgusting." - an extract

3)`As one sexual urges begin to rage out of control, just stop and imagine the consequences. Taking that one step forward may very likely prevent future loss of wealth and reputation. Otherwise, not only might one bring shame to one family and ancestors, one infamy may spread among acquaintances, have adverse influences on one children and grandchildren, and even destroy the career one has worked so hard to build up. Just thinking of these consequences is absolutely terrifying. This should cool down those surging sexual desires right away!`

4)The Buddha has taught: pleasure is emptiness, form is emptiness. The four witnesses will know of your act and you can think on your karma.

I hope that helps you.

plumshirt

slider_72 · #6 06-12-2005, 10:53 AM

wow bro plumshirt, your advise sounds so philosophical. I'll try it and see if it works for me.

plumshirt · #7 06-12-2005, 04:47 PM

Thanks slider_72,

The thoughts are of Buddhist origin... I am just sharing.
However, I note some Bros need or desire to quit... so just share.

1 drop of sperm = 40 drops of blood in Indian Ayuvedic text
= 20 drops in another Chinese sex text.

Over expense of sperm affects the Jing - the basis of your body.
Jing forms Blood which forms your qi... these two takes care of all your internal organs. So healthwise, always good to do less...

Hope you'll take care - an ancient Chinese text notes - men should not masturbate from 30s since it robs them of essesnce and energy that fuel their lives and protect their health.

Just sharing only... hope you open minded to this sharing and your health will benefit.

plumshirt