sd pay sb to stay or to leave?

[missj]

Hi all,

Just curious. What is the common mindset here?

Do guys fork out money for the quality of the lady, aka pay her to stay? Or to fork out money to ensure the female doesn't give any trouble, aka pay to leave?

Doesn't have to limit to sd/sb, what about those in sm/sb?

Do the mommies pay for the quality of guys or for the guy to leave at her convenience?

[AmeShin]

Uglyly speaking just a form of high maintenance prostitution but accompanied with regular visit and affection .

[Triple70]

Isn't a sb more like a financially supported gf? Why talk abt stay or leave?

[prettymannequin]

I thought it was pay for exclusive companionship and bonk.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

I thought it was pay for exclusive companionship and bonk.

Me tot the same babe.

[demonhunter]

I term SB as whores also ... since its still a transaction .

You pay a whore not for fucking her ... you pay her to leave .

so there would be no complications .

If you don't pay her , is she gona leave ?

[AmeShin]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

I thought it was pay for exclusive companionship and bonk.

Originally Posted by fion.18

Me tot the same babe.

true in certain way
only if thate SB is faithfully true ba?
else she anyhow engages other or more SD then become not exclusive liao wor
still is ended up as a high class pros ba?
but normally SD SB comes with doting and affection too

so is high class bonk accompanied with some affection?

[missj]

Originally Posted by AmeShin

Uglyly speaking just a form of high maintenance prostitution but accompanied with regular visit and affection .

Originally Posted by Triple70

Isn't a sb more like a financially supported gf? Why talk abt stay or leave?

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

I thought it was pay for exclusive companionship and bonk.

Originally Posted by fion.18

Me tot the same babe.

yes yes agree that its a form of high class prostitution, expensive gf, exclusive companionship and intimacy but like demonhunter said and i quote
"its a transaction" so if it is a transaction, are you paying more for the quality or for the lack of complications?

Originally Posted by demonhunter

I term SB as whores also ... since its still a transaction .

You pay a whore not for fucking her ... you pay her to leave .

so there would be no complications .

If you don't pay her , is she gona leave ?

its like for fl, do you pay her for her quality or do you pay her so after enjoyment, you can ask her to leave.

i don't know...is the exchange of money like a signal of end of job?

[dantes inferno]

I think it depends on your own situation and how you see it.

If you have something to lose (e.g. married, engaged etc)

Then you'd be paying her to leave, because your other relationships take priority.

If you have nothing to lose (e.g. single, open relationship etc)

Then you'd be paying for quality, since whether or not she leaves doesn't really matter too much.

In both cases, you'd also (hopefully) be paying for safety, because you would want a SB to have fewer partners, reducing your risk of exposure to disease.

[seabass]

The answer is both.

My teacher always reminds me when making general statement to back it up with facts. So ..here goes:

Modern sugar babies practice have its root in antiquity practice of slavery. There are different types of slaveries and they are still practice in different parts of the world today like in sweat-shops and brothels and Africa n middle eastern conflicts.

1. Enslavement

War allows societies to develop slaves trade from days of old to present day Nigeria. A man can buy a slave and treat him as a transferable property. Have anyone watch the 2013 movie called 12 year a slave? And it is also possible to be born into slavery as well. A child of a slave can be bought or sold and serve as a bound save forever.

2. Debt Slave

A man treats his wife and children as property. Poverty and economic insecurity give rise to debt bondage. The Hammurabi code allows a father or wife to sells his children and wife into temporary slavery that last for 3 years. This is often the case of a person who falls into debt and famine. Today,in the INDO-CHINA region, improvised farmers often practice this form of slavery.

3 Sexual and Conjugal Slave

Sexual slavery, or being sold to be a wife, was common in the ancient world. Throughout history, the taking of multiple wives was recorded many times. A father could sell his unmarried daughters into servitude, with the expectation or understanding that the master or his son would eventually marry her. It is understood by the people in the middle eastern societies, that this referred to the sale of a daughter, who is not arrived to the age of twelve years and a day, and this through poverty.

4. Manumission

A slave can be freed eventually, after they have worked for an X number of years. Other can be redeemed by next of kin or by law. However, if a bound slave in ancient Mesopotamia decided to continue to follow his master, an awl is driven into his ear, as the ear is a symbol of obedience.

5. Others

The Hittites Law and the Hammurabi Code have extensive coverages on slave work conditions, injury and compensation, slave fleeing, thief, etc.


Since I cannot claim to be an expert in the practice of sugar daddy, please let me share some articles on this topic:

http://wearelovely.com/sugardaddies-...-horror-story/

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/rel...-1226708865633

http://www.sugarsugar.com/blog/

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment...-prostitution/

http://abcnews.go.com/Business/Ahead...7578033&page=1


Happy Reading.

The view expressed here is without prejudice,without malice, but for academic excellence only.

[seabass]

Why both?

Another analogy is Mr Bangla and his maid gf. If he sees it as a fling then yes it is pretty transactional and will come with a exit fee. It is funny when the maid turn physical when she realize she have been duped. Other will spend an inordinate amount of their pay just to please their sugar babes. In the same why, Miss maid can also take on the role of a sugar mommy, and shower Mr Bangla with gifts and monies to solicits his time and attention.

There is no doubt is my mind, when a straw poll is given to the contributor of the maid thread, we will have a mix of members who want a fling or a relation.

By the way, TS why do you ask the pay to stay or leave question?

[solarflare]

i think its both... but how to what extent the money is used for bonking or for leaving without noise.. that will depend liao

[SnowLeopards]

A Sugar Baby and a Prostitute have so much in common.

Pierre.

[BiRd13]

Usually such have an agreement in the beginning.
Like for 3 months period. And before 3rd months hit, to see if want extend or not. Be it for SM (Sugar Mummy) to SS (Sugar Son?) or from SD (Sugar Daddy) to SB (Sugar Baby)

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Me tot the same babe.

Seems like we thought wrong.