what 2 do with a virgin who is afraid of penetration?

BlackCowGold · #1 11-03-2006, 08:31 PM

can't even penetrate, keep complaining damn painful.

how to work towards penetration?

PJ_chris · #2 12-03-2006, 11:22 AM

ok, just my suggestion, since u gf scare penetration
so i suggest u slowly use finger in her 1st....don't so rush
slowly and gentle, make sure she wet b4 u inside her pussy finger...
then u ask her, 1 finger nice or not....then later put in 2 finger in
if 2 finger can in and no pain...then slowly put u dick in lah...
Ok..wish u good luck..enjoy.

jimmyccc · #3 12-03-2006, 11:43 AM

try and get her mind of the pain.... do more foreplay... get her wet... during penetration... dun just poke with ur dick.... get her excited elsewhere also.... kissing her nipples for example.... try get her mind of the pain...

benz · #4 12-03-2006, 11:59 AM

May your gal is not mentally ready?
So just take it slow and steady,
Try to make her wet and horny,
Worse come to worst there's ky jelly.

Punder · #5 12-03-2006, 02:02 PM

getting wet is the key..

try gels.. apply on ur fingers and try slide it in unknowingly(if possible)..

do it gently and before she noe it, its in!

RaymndTan · #6 12-03-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmyccc

try and get her mind of the pain.... do more foreplay... get her wet... during penetration... dun just poke with ur dick.... get her excited elsewhere also.... kissing her nipples for example.... try get her mind of the pain...

Agree. also whisper sweet nothings to make her forget that this is a bonk session, to ease her up.

jacksz · #7 12-03-2006, 03:06 PM

you gotta be really gentle with her. indulge in foreplay for as long as possible. coax her. pay attention to every patch of her skin using both your mouth and hands.

but if she's really nt ready, then she's really nt ready..

asdfghjkl · #8 12-03-2006, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by RaymndTan

whisper sweet nothings

may i know what sweet nothings would u suggest to whisper?

laodi123456789 · #9 13-03-2006, 11:34 AM

Some sweet nothings for your edification

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BigGuy · #10 13-03-2006, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

may i know what sweet nothings would u suggest to whisper?

here is a piece of long chocolate coated sugar candy topped with 2 logans/ or rambutans

benz · #11 13-03-2006, 12:10 PM

Sing her Diana Ross song perhaps,

Sweet Nothings
(R. Seit)

Uh-huh honey
All right
My baby whispers in my ear
Mm, sweet nothings
He knows the things I like to hear
Mm, sweet nothings
Things he wouldn't tell nobody else

Secret, baby
I keep it to myself
Sweet nothings
We walk along hand in hand
Mm, sweet nothings
Yeah, we both understand
Mm, sweet nothings

He certainly takes
The time to read my book
My baby, give me that special look
Sweet nothings
Mm, sweet nothings

Uh-huh honey
I'm sitting on my front porch
Mm, sweet nothings
Well, do I love you?
Of course
Mm, sweet nothings

Mama turned on
The front porch light
And said
"Come in darling
That's enough for tonight"
Sweet nothings
Mm, sweet nothings
Sweet nothings
Mm, sweet nothings
Sweet nothings

TommyPingPong · #12 13-03-2006, 01:48 PM

Totally agreed with all the suggestion. But eventually with all the wetness, you still encounter the hymen. I suggest you put your little finger to enter the hymen which have a small hole. Let her feel comfortable and you can proceed with penetrating with your brother!

Happy bonking!

singexpat · #13 13-03-2006, 01:50 PM

worst come to worst...

u can give up e idea of bonkin her..

Pounder · #14 13-03-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by singexpat

worst come to worst...

u can give up e idea of bonkin her..

.....and contact the local okt here. kekeke

Pounder · #15 13-03-2006, 02:40 PM

...and if you dont want to deal with FLs and still want to bonk her. Lots of bro here are willing to lend a hand...or other parts....joking onli lah...