do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

[Edyta]

for those brothers who have been married with kids, do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

1. yes v impt, she has to maintain both her face n body pretty well
2. not really as long as not too ugly not too fat
3. doesn't matter she gave me a few beautiful children n I love her inner beauty
4. other opinions

Just asking out of curiousity.

thanks

[solarflare]

Originally Posted by Edyta

for those brothers who have been married with kids, do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

1. yes v impt, she has to maintain both her face n body pretty well
2. not really as long as not too ugly not too fat
3. doesn't matter she gave me a few beautiful children n I love her inner beauty
4. other opinions

Just asking out of curiousity.

thanks

number 3 for me...

look are of depreciating value... kids and inner beauty will never depreciate

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by Edyta

for those brothers who have been married with kids, do u expect your wife to maintain her looks?

1. yes v impt, she has to maintain both her face n body pretty well
2. not really as long as not too ugly not too fat
3. doesn't matter she gave me a few beautiful children n I love her inner beauty
4. other opinions

Just asking out of curiousity.

thanks

Wahhhh.. sis.. u sure hv quite a few curiosities .. lol..

to redefine on looks.. for #1.. we're talking of a few grands every month.. ofc it's every man's wish.. but the affordability and the practicality is a sensitive issue..

#2.. not really??.. if she's pretty.. she'll remain so.. but if the opposite.. it's best to keep slim to offset the look

#3.. if she thinks tt way.. and her other half say so too... I would doubt so.. man r man .. so good luck to u.. ofc there's alway a few exceptions..

#4... it's time for ladies to show more concern, caring and comfort instead of always expect the men to... it's a 2-way relationship.. if always expect than we're in trouble.. than looks will be secondary.. imagine.. outings and gatherings.. it's almost always the men attend alone.. why??.. he's too shy to bring his other half along to attend.. hv seen to many of these.. sad..

[porscheclub]

A smart wife will know what to do.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Edyta

2. not really as long as not too ugly not too fat

i think it is fair both husband and wife maintain a reasonable standard of looks so attraction to each other is not lost as age wrinkles the body throughout the years.

[organiser]

2 and 3

but if i am to ask her to maintain her look.

I think i will need to maintain my body too.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by solarflare

number 3 for me...

look are of depreciating value... kids and inner beauty will never depreciate

wow! all respect to u, u might b the extinct type!

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

Wahhhh.. sis.. u sure hv quite a few curiosities .. lol..

to redefine on looks.. for #1.. we're talking of a few grands every month.. ofc it's every man's wish.. but the affordability and the practicality is a sensitive issue..

#2.. not really??.. if she's pretty.. she'll remain so.. but if the opposite.. it's best to keep slim to offset the look

#3.. if she thinks tt way.. and her other half say so too... I would doubt so.. man r man .. so good luck to u.. ofc there's alway a few exceptions..

#4... it's time for ladies to show more concern, caring and comfort instead of always expect the men to... it's a 2-way relationship.. if always expect than we're in trouble.. than looks will be secondary.. imagine.. outings and gatherings.. it's almost always the men attend alone.. why??.. he's too shy to bring his other half along to attend.. hv seen to many of these.. sad..

haha yes bro Yakuza i am curious! this topic is v common among ladies chitchat so i thot to get some men's perspective.

#1 maintain looks need not be expensive. good exercise regime n balance diet don't cost extras. working wives shd pay for own grooming. hubby can give presents if he wishes to. stay home mum can plan grooming budget according to hubby's financials.

#2 errr gd looks bef marriage no guarantee gd looks after. if u go by bell shape curve, most women are around 5 to 7 scoring. no maintenance? ewww i cnt imagine

#3 ok this one I learn something fr u

#4 so sad the men ashamed to bring their wives out.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

A smart wife will know what to do.

maintain looks n keep husband worried about wolves out there lol

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Castrol

i think it is fair both husband and wife maintain a reasonable standard of looks so attraction to each other is not lost as age wrinkles the body throughout the years.

most women are not too concerned abt how their men lookbur more worried about their men's health

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by organiser

2 and 3

but if i am to ask her to maintain her look.

I think i will need to maintain my body too.

its kinda fun to maintai together - go jogging, eat healthy meals or maybe competr with each other to lose weight!

[solarflare]

Originally Posted by Edyta

wow! all respect to u, u might b the extinct type!

lol... as time passes, those maybe 5-7yrs back i think darn chio one... now all become the other way round liao.

As ppl say, men age like wine while most(most ah... never say all ah...) ladies age like milk.... might be quite true for appearances. While inner beauty and kids are on another scale

[raftwee]

In real life most men can't be bothered , if wife gave birth n run out of shape, they will visit fl like in this forum! Then satisfied they can continue with their married life! Most guys who patronize these fl are married!

Those women who have drifted far far from the shores of beauty knows its hopeless to regain back whatever beauty they have! Either kept 1 eye close or just lun to save the marriage cos of kids.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by solarflare

lol... as time passes, those maybe 5-7yrs back i think darn chio one... now all become the other way round liao.

As ppl say, men age like wine while most(most ah... never say all ah...) ladies age like milk.... might be quite true for appearances. While inner beauty and kids are on another scale

lol yes ageing is v unfair to women, maintenance is uphill task. i think once hit menopause n estrogen m progesterone decline sharply its nearly impossible to maintain unless she spends at the doctor's office. before menopause, still possible with some hardwork.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by raftwee

In real life most men can't be bothered , if wife gave birth n run out of shape, they will visit fl like in this forum! Then satisfied they can continue with their married life! Most guys who patronize these fl are married!

Those women who have drifted far far from the shores of beauty knows its hopeless to regain back whatever beauty they have! Either kept 1 eye close or just lun to save the marriage cos of kids.

actually if want to salvage the looks still can if the woman not too old n before menopause.

as for husbands going to fls some wives can really close one eye as long as the men still come home n take care of the family. The papers some weeks ago reported some older women in 60s to even 80s divorce their unfaithful husband of many years. The husband are often shocked.