haven had a love for 20 over years , real bad ???

[cashcow]

my profile

looks: not ugly at all
money : past rich now poor
old : 34 just

the real issue here is i have no interest in having one or look at one. had one girl i like for past 3 years, not working in the commercial scene , after thay no more feeelings. key is no more feelings...is it normal for a 34 old.

[Captainoceania77]

Nope. You are truly a wise man . Dont want any commitments and string attach.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by cashcow

my profile

looks: not ugly at all
money : past rich now poor
old : 34 just

the real issue here is i have no interest in having one or look at one. had one girl i like for past 3 years, not working in the commercial scene , after thay no more feeelings. key is no more feelings...is it normal for a 34 old.

Hv u been hurt b4.....sometimes, spend ur time & love to engage in a relationship, but this is not a happy end u expected.....quite hurtful

If now ur main focus is on building up a career, earning more money, then u feel no need to hv a gf or dun hv time to do so, but u stated u r currently poor, so that might not be d reason.

Perhaps, ni kan po hong cheng (see through the world of mortals) haha....juz kidding......maybe u no longer trust true love exist or see the love affairs between man & woman very lightly (kan dan er nu si qing).

Ur heart alrdy die long time ago??

Every different stage of our life, we tend to pursue other things rather than love, love & love only.

[bonkning]

fate ... see got yuan anot orr ..
but think probbly got something to do with ur last ger...
or mayb .. u cheong too much oraedi ..

or mayb like orange say ..
first build up ur career n $$$ , then after dat, u might feel like finding someone to share dat life with ..
34 only .. stil got time

[ProjectAlice]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Hv u been hurt b4.....sometimes, spend ur time & love to engage in a relationship, but this is not a happy end u expected.....quite hurtful

If now ur main focus is on building up a career, earning more money, then u feel no need to hv a gf or dun hv time to do so, but u stated u r currently poor, so that might not be d reason.

Perhaps, ni kan po hong cheng (see through the world of mortals) haha....juz kidding......maybe u no longer trust true love exist or see the love affairs between man & woman very lightly (kan dan er nu si qing).

Ur heart alrdy die long time ago??

Every different stage of our life, we tend to pursue other things rather than love, love & love only.

Originally Posted by bonkning

fate ... see got yuan anot orr ..
but think probbly got something to do with ur last ger...
or mayb .. u cheong too much oraedi ..

or mayb like orange say ..
first build up ur career n $$$ , then after dat, u might feel like finding someone to share dat life with ..
34 only .. stil got time

Earn more money first na ...
Have chinese sayings ... 钱不是万能 没钱万万不能 ...
Have money can take care family and your future girl ...
Many many girls everywhere .. right girl will come when time is right ka ...
All the best na ka ...

[makeyouhappy]

There's actually no issue at all.

Being comfortable being by yourself is a good thing, and very common in the world today.

Don't be in a hurry to find someone because you feel inadequate or abnormal, a true relationship takes time to nurture and blossom.

If you like the idea of having a life partner, I suggest you first expand your social circle by joining activities to enrich yourself whilst getting to know people with different interests. Finding someone new that shares your values and clicks with you will be worthwhile in the end, but only if you want it, and only if you allow yourself to fall in love in the first place.

Relook your life goals and think about what you want.

Good luck

[ringo6668]

Originally Posted by cashcow

my profile

looks: not ugly at all
money : past rich now poor
old : 34 just

the real issue here is i have no interest in having one or look at one. had one girl i like for past 3 years, not working in the commercial scene , after thay no more feeelings. key is no more feelings...is it normal for a 34 old.

At 34years old you still have time to meet one.I guess is your right one haven come yet...but you still have to boost your income whether the right one come or if you are going for touch n go.

[ahTan]

Please approach 婚姻介绍所

[Boinkboinkboink]

Originally Posted by ahTan

Please approach 婚姻介绍所

Good meh, you think?

[Jevv]

i guess u just have not met the right one yet...for myself, alrdy single for coming 3 years but still hopeful I will meet the right one soon. Stay positive!
The better u r, the better u attract. Things happen when you least expect it

[cashcow]

Originally Posted by Jevv

i guess u just have not met the right one yet...for myself, alrdy single for coming 3 years but still hopeful I will meet the right one soon. Stay positive!
The better u r, the better u attract. Things happen when you least expect it

but always attract the wrong ones , ( hard to find real love .

[Jevv]

Originally Posted by cashcow

but always attract the wrong ones , ( hard to find real love .

then u may start thinking could it be the vibe u r sending out tat is always attracting the wrong ones..

i have tis single female fren who is on & off in r/ship wit married men & will break off the r/ship if there is any next available single guy tat comes along..
She was advised to break off as a single & available woman herself so tat she can attract someone of similar status as her. If she does nt break out of this vicious cycle (with the MBAs) she will end up nth but only attracting more MBAs.. coze its wat she is, & its also the vibe she is sending out..You are wat u attract.
like when one have trust issues wit woman/man, they will only find/attract those tat cannot be trusted..

wat i m trying to say is...the qualities tat u wan ur partner to have, ask urself do u have them too?
like myself, those qualities i wan in my partner...i shld have them too

[squiggle]

TS, if you really no hope, maybe you can marriage a foreign wife or quickly mix around with the females that at your workplace or something. Just focus on making money and taking care of your family for the time being. When guys have $$$, girls should come to you easily and automatically.

You are not the only one here in this singles group, for me up till now 24 yo not even have a gf before.

[porscheclub]

34 still young as men can still make babies at 60+ & the oldest father is an Indian at 90+ so go figure.

Relationships, if not well managed can do more harm=headaches than being alone. You just haven't met a woman who touches your heart that's all so let's see if you have that fate.

If you have some money, don't ever flash it but go slow & easy, portraying yourself like an ordinary guy in the street because money attracts bees like honey which is not very ideal for a serious relationship.

[cashcow]

i am not looking for some beauty pageant queen, but character similar or indifferent to mine. you know the 'feel' , i got none of those feel anymore , could it be medication that i took which tapers my serotonin release levels.

Originally Posted by Jevv

then u may start thinking could it be the vibe u r sending out tat is always attracting the wrong ones..

i have tis single female fren who is on & off in r/ship wit married men & will break off the r/ship if there is any next available single guy tat comes along..
She was advised to break off as a single & available woman herself so tat she can attract someone of similar status as her. If she does nt break out of this vicious cycle (with the MBAs) she will end up nth but only attracting more MBAs.. coze its wat she is, & its also the vibe she is sending out..You are wat u attract.
like when one have trust issues wit woman/man, they will only find/attract those tat cannot be trusted..

wat i m trying to say is...the qualities tat u wan ur partner to have, ask urself do u have them too?
like myself, those qualities i wan in my partner...i shld have them too