Which One Will You Choose...

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been together wif my gal for more dan 5 yrs. life was simple, but happy. even though we have stop our sexual activites for mths, i still feel its acceptable. our relationship has slowly turning into close friends. sometimes, she get angry over little things but i just couldnt be bothered. life goes on until another gal came into my life. we progress pretty fast but she izzit those loose gal. she gave me the best sex i ever encounter, bbbj, gal on top, reverse cowgirl, sideways, missionary, doggy, sitting etc etc etc n so much more. i really love the sex life with her. she does anything i wan, even cim, half way fucking bbbj then continue fucking. comparing to my gf, only missionary. it was like heaven n land. recently my gf requested for sex but i rejected, i feel too ashamed. i told her i was tired.

summarize
gf - long relationship, we really understand each other, can see light for our future but sex life was not wat i wan

fling - less than 2 mths, dun really understand each other, dun even know how long we can last, but sex was excellent in fact its really more dan enough for me now

i dun wanna be a 2 timer. i m really tired, mentally breakdown soon. i really wan the sex life dat my fling is giving me but i really dunno how long dis will last. another problem is i dun wanna end my relationship wif my gf, i mean i hope dat we can still be close friends.

btw i m in my mid 20s

[chickenzip]

seriously, in a relationship esp. marriage , sex and love work together...

u may enjoy sex with your fling but there is no love...

u may love ur gf/wife, but when no sex involve, the relationship will stray or dissolve slowly.

so if you love your gf, u should try to boast up the sex life with your gf. talk to her, communicate with her on how both of u can make it better. tell her what u expect.

if she can't accept ur likings in sex, then too bad. i'm not asking u to break off with your gf, but many things have to work hand in hand to balance a relationship or marriage.

$$, caring, sharing, sex, understanding, giving in...all counts...

nothing is perfect in this world, if i love my wife, i have to accept her other weakness...problem is how much one is willing to sacrifice...for you to ponder.

if u think u reali enjoy the sex with ur fling, then maybe u may want to consider to start off a relationship with her, unless of course she agreed to accept this committment.

juz my 2 cents worth words,

CZ

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by SBFguy

i dun wanna be a 2 timer. i m really tired, mentally breakdown soon. i really wan the sex life dat my fling is giving me but i really dunno how long dis will last. another problem is i dun wanna end my relationship wif my gf, i mean i hope dat we can still be close friends.

btw i m in my mid 20s

conclusion - no problem. enjoy as long as possible.

[dom01]

Well.. sounds like my current sit too..

i tried to go steady with my new prey, tio rejected. Then i realised how much my current loves me. it is not bad afterall..

choose one that can accompany you all the way.

[dom01]

There is one saying, no fish, prawn also can.

So stick with the current for the moment. then source a few more flings.

[chickenzip]

Originally Posted by dom01

There is one saying, no fish, prawn also can.

So stick with the current for the moment. then source a few more flings.

bro dom, u lidat where got no fish, prawn also can.

think more like one hand got fish, the other hand pan frying the prawn lei..

keke...

[juzjoin]

gf/wife is juz like rice to asian guys like us, you must ve it everyday. but flings is juz like dishes, you will change everyday. morale of the story, stick to ur gf/wife and changes or varies ur fling...........

Originally Posted by SBFguy

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been together wif my gal for more dan 5 yrs.

i dun wanna be a 2 timer. i m really tired, mentally breakdown soon. i really wan the sex life dat my fling is giving me but i really dunno how long dis will last. another problem is i dun wanna end my relationship wif my gf, i mean i hope dat we can still be close friends.

darling...make the wrong decision...u lost everything.

[cb_leaf]

You must go for the first one! I was in a similar situation as you. I was with a girl for 5 years. We were very happy and contented but there was no sexual attraction. Another girl came into my life. Our sexual chemistry was amazing. I thought long and hard but eventually gave up the first one. There is not a day that passes that I don't think about how foolish I was.

Having the right partner is a lifetime thing. Do the right thing bro.

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by SBFguy

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gf - long relationship, we really understand each other, can see light for our future but sex life was not wat i wan

sex, u happy for 15 min. u choose ur gf u unhappy for 15 min.wat do u wan? happy for 15 min or unhappy for 15 min?

[tan_yjc]

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

sex, u happy for 15 min. u choose ur gf u unhappy for 15 min.wat do u wan? happy for 15 min or unhappy for 15 min?

don't be a loser and teach ppl bad things as u dun have a gf

[tan_yjc]

it feel the same when u cum... Put urself into ur stead shoe and feel the pain she feel when she know u does this to her.

[Manofwar]

0h well i do believe that might wana consider yr gf lo.Thou having sex with fling is good but yr gf might be e one going to be with u always de. Sex & stunts can slowly brought into e action de.

Originally Posted by cb_leaf

You must go for the first one! I was in a similar situation as you. I was with a girl for 5 years. We were very happy and contented but there was no sexual attraction. Another girl came into my life. Our sexual chemistry was amazing. I thought long and hard but eventually gave up the first one. There is not a day that passes that I don't think about how foolish I was.

Having the right partner is a lifetime thing. Do the right thing bro.

btw, Russell Peters is coming to town..haha..

from a bdsm point of view, it's more fun when your 5yr relation turn vanilla....then you can train her to enjoy wat you like....hheheheheheh...

i think the issue here is morality (the big head thinking) vs lust (the small head thinking).... i think most people downplay how much sex is important to guys, esp in a relationship.. right bros?

wat i afraid most now is i choose my gf but other fling will come n go
i hate dis type of relationship, i dun wanna betray her
but on the other hand, she izzit giving me the sex i wan
we tried so many yrs n the only pos she allow is missionary
no doggy no gal on top no nothing

in fact is this fling who teaches me all the stunt n truely allow me the enjoyment of sex rather dan just ejaculating.....

love is so contridicting