Need advice on sex life

[marzsomeone]

Both my wife and I are very green to sex. We both did not really enjoy it, maybe due to inexperience or didn't do it correctly.

My main issue is unable to reach climax before my little brother softens. Always feel like reaching the tip but not there. The feeling of so near yet so far. I wish to get some advices before it become something serious in our love life.

Thanks in advance

[sundial]

Watch more porn.
But do u enjoy her?? If not try thinking of other women.
I think of my PA 😬. I have a personal rule not to fuck in the place where I eat and not my biz associates. Turns me on but becareful not to yell out the name. else will need to contibute to jialat stories.

[marzsomeone]

Originally Posted by sundial

Watch more porn.

You mean watch with her? Usually I watch it alone and DIY. But worry it will make my little brother insensitive to the real thing

[marzsomeone]

Originally Posted by sundial

Watch more porn.
But do u enjoy her?? If not try thinking of other women.
I think of my PA 😬. I have a personal rule not to fuck in the place where I eat and not my biz associates. Turns me on but becareful not to yell out the name. else will need to contibute to jialat stories.

Haha I do enjoy her. Just my little brother like gives up easily when he couldn't hit climax after a few moments of within reach

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by marzsomeone

Both my wife and I are very green to sex. We both did not really enjoy it, maybe due to inexperience or didn't do it correctly.

My main issue is unable to reach climax before my little brother softens. Always feel like reaching the tip but not there. The feeling of so near yet so far. I wish to get some advices before it become something serious in our love life.

Thanks in advance

Try booking a prostitute so that a comparison can be made.

If you have no problems cumming with a prostitute then you need to examine your sexual relationship with the wife to analyse where things are going wrong.

[heavenmothz]

TS bro,

Why dont you try spicing up ur sex life with your wife? Try new stuff like changing diets/exercise routines, different positions of roleplay, etc. Whenever me and my ex got bored of a certain sexual activity, I faced similar issues, but we quickly resolved it doing different things, like in public (sometimes, lol) or i got her to cosplay. On my end, I adjusted my exercise regime, just to add some excitement in my life. Travelling kinda helps too, cos it helped us open our eyes to new things.

I hope my blabber helps. Good luck bro!

[marzsomeone]

Originally Posted by heavenmothz

TS bro,

Why dont you try spicing up ur sex life with your wife? Try new stuff like changing diets/exercise routines, different positions of roleplay, etc. Whenever me and my ex got bored of a certain sexual activity, I faced similar issues, but we quickly resolved it doing different things, like in public (sometimes, lol) or i got her to cosplay. On my end, I adjusted my exercise regime, just to add some excitement in my life. Travelling kinda helps too, cos it helped us open our eyes to new things.

I hope my blabber helps. Good luck bro!

Thanks @heavenmothz, tried during honeymoon and another short trip but I still face the same issue. Haha guess will find new places or routine. You mean exercise helps as well?

[heavenmothz]

Originally Posted by marzsomeone

Thanks @heavenmothz, tried during honeymoon and another short trip but I still face the same issue. Haha guess will find new places or routine. You mean exercise helps as well?

Yes bro. Exercise helps. Ur tool is part of ur body. Healthy body, healthy performance!

And I don't mean only sexual experiences. I brought my ex to concerts, to Parks, to whatever place I could think of either of us hasn't gone. The aim is to spice up both your lives, thereby refreshing the relationship. The results, for me, included us understanding each other more, and made us closer. Naturally sex became better cos of that closeness.

[marzsomeone]

Originally Posted by heavenmothz

Yes bro. Exercise helps. Ur tool is part of ur body. Healthy body, healthy performance!

And I don't mean only sexual experiences. I brought my ex to concerts, to Parks, to whatever place I could think of either of us hasn't gone. The aim is to spice up both your lives, thereby refreshing the relationship. The results, for me, included us understanding each other more, and made us closer. Naturally sex became better cos of that closeness.

@heavenmothz, I guess I will start with exercise. Then find some activities to do together, needless to say we both have been too tensed up with work.

[MetalWater]

throwing in some ideas.

do some exercises and get healthy and fit. both long cardio, short but high intensity cardio, and lift some heavy weights.

everytime i finish a gym session i feel my weapon fully reloaded. haha.

[MetalWater]

and also take that inexperienced and not doing right mentality off.

you will feel pressurised and just make things worse. like how the more you try to sleep, the more you cant sleep. just be natural.

[duoc]

So many good advice.

If nothing works consult a doctor or sex therapist.

[heavenmothz]

Originally Posted by marzsomeone

@heavenmothz, I guess I will start with exercise. Then find some activities to do together, needless to say we both have been too tensed up with work.

Good luck bro! Hahaha. Yea cut back on work stress and don't stress yourself out too. You can exercise together too, jogging, etc...

[pekio]

TS, how old are you and wife?

[nigripes]

Originally Posted by heavenmothz

Good luck bro! Hahaha. Yea cut back on work stress and don't stress yourself out too. You can exercise together too, jogging, etc...

Stress is bad for health.

Before TS listen to more advice, he should find out if a girl experienced in sex can make the difference. If yes, then it is the sex partner interest.

If no, then he needs medical help and see doctor.