Oral Sex with Ulcer increase the risk of HIV? Worried Sick! Help Needed!

[Ong Jiing Yih]

Hi Bros

I have this issue that has been severely bothering me for the past few days, it's really killing me, and some of you would even find it funny.. but here goes..

Basically last Monday (26th Sep), I went to a FL's place at her private estate, it was all okay, except for one part whereby I performed oral sex aka Cunnilingus on her, as all bros knows normally HIV has an extremely low chance or almost zero of contracting thru oral, I'm thinking in a worst case scenario that what if she had HIV, and I did oral sex with her, and to my shock, realize I actually had a tiny ulcer at the bottom of my lips, this is seriously what that killed me, although I would say that ulcer is already at it's final stage of healing, there may still be a slight chance of the Vaginal secretions may somehow seep thru my ulcer and into my blood stream as ulcer is somewhat consider as a wound?

The redeeming part is when had intercourse was of course with condom.

Normally most FLs are not subjected to mandatory health checks and this only fuels to my anxiety, and to make matter worst, since yesterday, I have been sort of feverish, or should I say my body is very heaty, and I also had a sore throat and some back pain, and also feeling rather lethargic, it all somewhat fits the HIV symptoms requirements, I do know that HIV symptoms may only show up after 3 to 4 weeks after exposure but I cant help to be worried sick, I have read some online articles that HIV does not transmit by oral, but there have also been some articles that pointed other wise so I really dont know which is which, as there have been several different opinions... I even consulted a doc @ kensington family clinic yesterday, and the doc access my situation whereby oral sex with ulcer although it does increase the risk but the chances of getting it is still relatively low = to zero, he then recommend me to come back for the test after 28 days after exposure, if I really want to have my heart at ease... but 28 is a long long time...

As fellow cheongster, I need your important advises bros.... Im worried sick as I dont want to lose everything....

[sammyboyfor]

You're more likely to be run over by a bus.

Forget HIV and start worrying about the other far more likely infections eg Gonorrhea, Chlamydia and Herpes.

Why you would go down on an FL is beyond me. You're paying her to pleasure you not the other way round.

If she wants cunnilingus ask her to pay you instead.

[ToMakeLuv]

Its been repeated countless times here.
If u need reassuring advice, then i will say nothing to worry about.
If u want peace of mind, go for oral rapid quick test.

[Ong Jiing Yih]

thanks all bros for the reassuring words, really appreciate it, fl i did visited before, but to do painting with ulcer was the first time, thats why so scared, now i feeling much better... thanks again!!

[maxsee]

Pointless for u to get so worried ... Though based on your description it do sounds like u have contracted HIV (Based on the symptons I read online) ...

But the only way to know is to book an appointment and get yourself tested, for all you know it is all in ur mind ....Anyway if u did get HIV...just hold ur head high and wipe away the tears....Not forgetting to take ur cocktail of drugs daily to prolong ur life span...

But do share with the chiongsters here who spread the disease to u....

End of the day, if u want to look for FL...u must be prepared to get all sort of STDs including HIV .... No point crying over spilled milk ... Future might or might not be bleak but u got to accept that for every action there is consequences ...

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by maxsee

Pointless for u to get so worried ... Though based on your description it do sounds like u have contracted HIV (Based on the symptons I read online) ...

His symptoms aren't real. They're all a figment of his wild imagination.

[IAmAwesome]

From the way you describe TS, its very highly unlikely you contracted it

[DoctorTan]

@Ong Jiing Yih

You sent me a PM basically repeating your initial post. I would rather answer you here.

Basically I agree with all the replies you have received so far.

That is all I have to say about this.

[takumikumi86]

Hi bro, did you go for check up? How your result?

[elitez]

nah, you are fine lah bro