really nid a very big help from all the brothers

[longwinter]

l will like to ask the brothers here abt sumtinz..

actually l hab been frequenting geylang and massage salons a few yrs back le..

juz that everytime l go such places, l only ask for handjob, licking of nipples, fondling and boobjob, that is all

l dun even dare to ask for blowjob or farkjob...altot l really desired it very badly...sumtime when l am on the bed wif these gals, really feel like play until song song...l noe use condom, but hear sum ppl say condom is not 100% safe...there mite be sum possibilites u will get it.

reason is simple, cos l scare l kanna nasty stds or hiv....really scare, cos l still hab a family..and l am the only son, l do wish to support my parents in future who really spent their efforts and love to bring me up.. ..std is still okie..but what if l get hiv? l dun dare to tink of it..

l hab a frenz who chiong together wif me ...he was actually the same as me, but he much more better than me as he dare to finger and ask for blowjob..recently my this frenz try his 1st time, farkjob, l was shocked....then he say aiya wan play, jiu play....dun scare...wear condom shld be okie..

to all respectable brothers here, can u all giv me sum advice?

is it really okie, if l wear a condom during my play, cos l really feel like trying out bonking

[sleaguepunter]

If u r worry, then u better dont continue commerical sex at all.

The best thing is dont have any sexual activities at all. The next best thing is to pcc yourself.

[acidstorm]

Originally Posted by sleaguepunter

If u r worry, then u better dont continue commerical sex at all.

The best thing is dont have any sexual activities at all. The next best thing is to pcc yourself.

Totally agree.

The threadstarter seems to have more worries that having the urge to go for commerical sex.

SEX and No SEX, you have to choose one of them. You can't have the best of everything. If you going for commercial sex, play safe, cut down the risk and pray nothing happen to you.

Play with no regrets!

Otherwise, just to stick to your old rules.

Have you ever tot of getting a gf or wife? Making love with one is better than 10,20,30. Is much more safer. Unless, you tell me you get sick and tired on one gal.

I got nothing to say.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by acidstorm

Totally agree.

The threadstarter seems to have more worries that having the urge to go for commerical sex.

SEX and No SEX, you have to choose one of them. You can't have the best of everything. If you going for commercial sex, play safe, cut down the risk and pray nothing happen to you.

Play with no regrets!

Otherwise, just to stick to your old rules.

Have you ever tot of getting a gf or wife? Making love with one is better than 10,20,30. Is much more safer. Unless, you tell me you get sick and tired on one gal.

I got nothing to say.

to the respectable brothers above, thanks for the valuable advice u 2 giv me

well, which guys dun wan to play ne? which normal guy dun wan to shiok ne? of cos, l do hope to play and be happy abt it, if not y these few yrs. l start goin out to chiong and play around, juz that l dun dare to fark cos l admit l am humji la..

but thanks to the 2 brother above, l tink this time l go...l will juz do it be brave like my frenz..

[asdfghjkl]

this type of thing, discuss with your family members is the best.. do some planning first..

[Kuroi]

Condom is surely not 100percent safe. Thats for sure.

Wanna play, choose girls carefully ba

[Hirakawa]

Longwinter... You situation is totally same as me...

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by longwinter

is it really okie, if l wear a condom during my play, cos l really feel like trying out bonking

Condoms can break or slip off. Even if they don't, they provide very little protection from viral STDs which are spread by skin to skin contact. eg Herpes and Genital Warts.

This is because transmission can take place at the base of the penile shaft which is not covered by a condom or via the scrotum.

If you're worried about catching STDs, you should NOT indulge in commercial sex or casual sex. You will not enjoy it at all.

[Big Sexy]

Fantastic - your posting style is more irritating than my neighbour's pet.. had a hard time reading and understanding what you were trying to say..

If used properly, condoms will help to reduce the risk of transmission of HIV infection and many other sexually transmitted diseases.

here;s how to use it properly

BEFORE SEX
Use a NEW condoms every time you have sex - BEFORE FOREPLAY, BEFORE PENIS GETS ANYWHERE NEAR ANY BODY OPENING ( To avoid exposure to any body fluid that can carry infection). Handle condom gently.

Put condom on as soon as penis is hard,. Be sure rolled-up ring is on the outside. And leave space at tip to hold semen when you come.

Squeeze tip gently so no air is trapped inside. Hold tip while you unroll condom...all the way down to the pubic hair. If condom doesn't unroll, it's on wrong. Throw it away and start over with a new condom.


AFTER SEX

Pull out slowly right after you come, while penis is still hard. Hold condom in place on penis to avoid spilling semen. Turn and move away before you let go of condom. Dispose of Condom properly, not in the toilet. And no more sex without a new condom. If condom breaks and semen spills or leaks, don't panic. But quickly wash semen away with soap and water

OTHER TIPS

Never let a latex condom come in contact with Oil, Baby Oil, Lotions, Hand Cream, Vaseline, mineral oil, vegetable oil, petroleum jelly or any other oil based product. These products will Damage latex condoms and may cause them to break, rip or tear. Only use Waterbased Lubes such as AstroGlide, ID Glide, Slippery Stuff, or Waterbased Wet lubricant.

• If using condoms while your partner is using Vaginal products for medical treatment, the condoms may become weakened and their effectiveness may be reduced.

• Wash hands, Penis and Vagina before and after sex. This will help cut the possible spread of infection.

• Keep unused condoms in a cool dry place away from direct heat and sunlight

Originally Posted by longwinter

l will like to ask the brothers here abt sumtinz..
is it really okie, if l wear a condom during my play, cos l really feel like trying out bonking

[Majestic Angel]

Bro, from your post, I can see that you value family more than sex. My suggestion is you keep away from commercial sex cause if you got so much worries... chances are you are not going to enjoy it at all.. Your small bro will go soft intermittently cos you cannot concentrate on the thing...

Just my 2 cents..

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Majestic Angel

Your small bro will go soft intermittently cos you cannot concentrate on the thing...

Just my 2 cents..

Going soft will be the least of his problems. He'll be worried shitless after the fact and will end up with sleepless nights for a month of Sundays.