How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Bro WB, you still didn't mention your context of what's reasonable damage for a high quality girl. Those that you quoted were in the 2010s.
Anyway, the top notch quality girls, even pre Covid, already not coming to Singapore. They either work in other provinces, cities or go to the likes of Middle East, Indonesia or Japan whether the money were a lot more. Those that came Singapore were the B, C or beyond grades.

Bro, tks for your post.

Pls explain what you mean by "you still didn't mention your context of what's reasonable damage for a high quality girl. Those that you quoted were in the 2010s."

Do you mean the damage for a high-quality girl in 2023? Most of these "high-quality girls" now are not my type. But the price for ST for them is 1.5-5K! Booking is $500-1K at high-end joints. To be honest, these girls are not as sexually attractive, at least to me, as some streetwalkers in GL in 2007-2009.

I have been to P8, Dynasty, and other PC joints quite a few times in the last 12 months. There is nothing to write home about. Mostly plastic aunties. I didn't book anyone. Many kakis have mentioned K Palace as THE joint where the prettiest PRC girls go. But their pics are not encouraging. They are also almost all plastic. The singers at K palace get a total of 1 million flowers on most nights. People have gone crazy.

Yes, you're right about top-notch PRC girls not coming to work in SG. But I'm also having a hard time finding girls of my type in China, where I know many agents and friends who are scouting for me. I'm in many chat grps on 外围 girls and others looking for ST and BY in China, and I rarely see one I like. I want a girl who is 100% natural. Many PRC men like girls who are tall and plastic!

I recently contacted a TW friend about keeping TW SYTs. The search continues...

How much would I pay for "high-quality girls" now in SG? Zero for almost all of them.

As I have alluded to before, since 2015, I have found only THREE gorgeous 18 yo SYTs of my type in SG. Of the three, L is still with me.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[Kruzer0102]

Actually i m kinda conflicted these days between choosing an attractive looking girl or an average looking girl that is genuine to you and is willing to fk u everyday..

Usually attractive looking girls are more high maintenance and would be more expensive to take care over the long run. But deep down every guys wants an attractive looking lady.. But sometimes compatibility plays a role too. I have yet to meet a attractive looking girl thats compatible with me.

[junior_cannibal]

There's no foolproof formula in finding the so called right girl. As they come in different packages, tall, short, fat, thin, demure, hot temper.... If we enter into a new relationship with an assumption that we know it all, many a times we may be wrong.
You can say you love the girl so deeply that you are prepared even to die for her. However, loving a person versus loving the person the way she wants it are not the same. Communication and observation are key.
What does she want? A marriage, good sex, money or what? When a girl says she wants nothing but just you, one day, she might also leave you without a reason. If you are married but your favourite girl tells you she doesn't mind, she's either lying or you are just selfish. When she passes her prime year and you drop her, what will become her?
It's either she really got no clue what she really wants, or she's just lying.
While I like to look at very pretty, sexy girls, I tend to be more attracted to those I can connect, can be just average looking, a bit fleshy, not too thin, even better, someone who makes me smile by the mere thought of her, and some stir on the little bro by thinking of her cheekiness in privacy.

[warbird]

Actually i m kinda conflicted these days between choosing an attractive looking girl or an average looking girl that is genuine to you and is willing to fk u everyday..

Usually attractive looking girls are more high maintenance and would be more expensive to take care over the long run. But deep down every guys wants an attractive looking lady.. But sometimes compatibility plays a role too. I have yet to meet a attractive looking girl thats compatible with me.

Bro,

Tks for your post. Keep searching. You will find an attractive girl of your type who is also compatible with you.
Make sure she is not a gold digger.

Cheers!
Bro WB

There's no foolproof formula in finding the so called right girl. As they come in different packages, tall, short, fat, thin, demure, hot temper.... If we enter into a new relationship with an assumption that we know it all, many a times we may be wrong.
You can say you love the girl so deeply that you are prepared even to die for her. However, loving a person versus loving the person the way she wants it are not the same. Communication and observation are key.
What does she want? A marriage, good sex, money or what? When a girl says she wants nothing but just you, one day, she might also leave you without a reason. If you are married but your favourite girl tells you she doesn't mind, she's either lying or you are just selfish. When she passes her prime year and you drop her, what will become her?
It's either she really got no clue what she really wants, or she's just lying.
While I like to look at very pretty, sexy girls, I tend to be more attracted to those I can connect, can be just average looking, a bit fleshy, not too thin, even better, someone who makes me smile by the mere thought of her, and some stir on the little bro by thinking of her cheekiness in privacy.

Bro,

Tks for sharing your thoughts and insights.
One man's meat is another man's poison.

Cheers!
Bro WB

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Good evening to all samsters,

I just received a newsletter from guru Tony on romance (love) addiction.
Here is the summary:

To make a woman addicted to you, give her what no other man can give her.
Ruin her for every man that comes after you.
Be the best lover, the wisest, intelligent, fun, exciting, mysterious, intoxicating man she’s ever, and ever will be with, and she will be yours for life.
Just be wary of the consequences.
A junkie without her fix can be dangerous, both to themselves and those around them.
Take care of her needs, and she will be yours for as long as you desire.

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You have done well if the woman is your dream girl who previously rejected you.
Be careful when you want to end the relationship, though.

Conversely, if a man is romantically addicted to a girl, his life will be miserable. She will dump him eventually. And if she is a gold digger, he will be taken to the cleaners or worse.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening,

I find the following news amusing.

"Man in China wins auction with S$72,300 bid for 6.91kg durian."
https://mothership.sg/2023/07/hainan-durian-auction/

Similar stories about expensive fruit auctions have happened in Japan before. Here is a recent one.

"Japan’s luxury melons fetch $25,000 (USD).
https://www.thaipbsworld.com/japans-luxury-melons-fetch-25000/#:~:text=A%20pair%20of%20premium%20melons,a%20popu lar%20gift%20in%20Japan.

How about our local 'flower wars' during which some men have spent as much as 500k SGD? Not for a gorgeous 18 yo Xi Shi lookalike but for a plastic woman.

Fact is stranger than fiction.

Your comments?

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening,

I am sharing an email from Sebastian Harris five years ago. It's informative. I never bought anything from him, and he deleted my free account!

I have done minimal editing.

Hi Warbird,

Here’s something you may be shocked to read…

If you take a good-looking guy with the exact same game as an average-looking guy, women will choose the average-looking guy every. Single. Time.

Why?

Well, it’s a lot like birds with long tails.

Science has proven female birds are attracted to a male bird with a long tail because it hinders his ability to survive.

He has to drag that thing around ... predators can snatch him by it ... and it generally makes his life more difficult.

BUT HE SURVIVES.

So it shows females he’s strong & successful.

(And if she has his babies, they’ll be strong & successful too).

The concept applies to humans as well.

When you have game despite having average looks — or despite having some kind of “defect” — girls will be 10 times more attracted to you.

This is EXACTLY why you’ll see super hot girls with ugly guys.

It’s not because he has money…

It’s not because she’s a gold digger or an escort...

It’s because he has game despite being average.

He thinks:

“Screw it. I don’t have to be perfect to be a champion. In fact, when I accept my imperfections, then I’m even more of a champion.”

Women pick up on this mindset unconsciously.

They can read right through guys who have this mentality. And they’re drawn to them like catnip.

Once I got this strategy down, it was like I suddenly became 50 times more attractive to women.

And I’m about to teach you this strategy right now...

Average guys the world over have no idea of the power they possess.

Guys are constantly trying to change themselves into something they’re not...

Denying their true selves to be another pick up artist clone ... and hiding faults because society says those faults are “unattractive.”

NOT TRUE!

The single most attractive thing a guy can do is let his true self shine. And never, EVER be ashamed of it.

Take my story for example…

When I first started “gaming” I was terrified to take my shirt off.

I have a giant scar running all the way down my chest and belly, and I thought it would make women puke.

After enduring years of suicidal thoughts and anxiety attacks, I finally got the courage to take my shirt off with a girl.

As we laid in bed she ran her finger down my scar.

I was so nervous I was shaking.

My self-esteem was pegged squarely under her foot. And all she had to do was stomp!

“God, this scar is so sexy,” she said.

My eyes popped.

“What?” I said. “Why do you think that?”

“Because it shows you’re a survivor,” she said.

Getting your dream girl is embarrassingly easy. All you need is the mental frame and emotional mastery, at the SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, that you're the GRAND PRIZE to her.

It's easy, even if she is the cutest and smartest girl you have ever SEEN, and everyone thinks you will be repulsive to her. Because you're too ugly, or too poor, or too under-educated, or too old, or too short, or too dark, or too shy, or too thin, or too...or have a big scar.

Your dream girl will be very fearful of losing you. I'm speaking from personal experience.

BTW, Mr Harris had congenital heart disease.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[BroTrustMyWords]

Good evening,

I am sharing an email from Sebastian Harris five years ago. It's informative. I never bought anything from him, and he deleted my free account!

I have done minimal editing.

Hi Warbird,

Here’s something you may be shocked to read…

If you take a good-looking guy with the exact same game as an average-looking guy, women will choose the average-looking guy every. Single. Time.

Why?

Well, it’s a lot like birds with long tails.

Science has proven female birds are attracted to a male bird with a long tail because it hinders his ability to survive.

He has to drag that thing around ... predators can snatch him by it ... and it generally makes his life more difficult.

BUT HE SURVIVES.

So it shows females he’s strong & successful.

(And if she has his babies, they’ll be strong & successful too).

The concept applies to humans as well.

When you have game despite having average looks — or despite having some kind of “defect” — girls will be 10 times more attracted to you.

This is EXACTLY why you’ll see super hot girls with ugly guys.

It’s not because he has money…

It’s not because she’s a gold digger or an escort...

It’s because he has game despite being average.

He thinks:

“Screw it. I don’t have to be perfect to be a champion. In fact, when I accept my imperfections, then I’m even more of a champion.”

Women pick up on this mindset unconsciously.

They can read right through guys who have this mentality. And they’re drawn to them like catnip.

Once I got this strategy down, it was like I suddenly became 50 times more attractive to women.

And I’m about to teach you this strategy right now...

Average guys the world over have no idea of the power they possess.

Guys are constantly trying to change themselves into something they’re not...

Denying their true selves to be another pick up artist clone ... and hiding faults because society says those faults are “unattractive.”

NOT TRUE!

The single most attractive thing a guy can do is let his true self shine. And never, EVER be ashamed of it.

Take my story for example…

When I first started “gaming” I was terrified to take my shirt off.

I have a giant scar running all the way down my chest and belly, and I thought it would make women puke.

After enduring years of suicidal thoughts and anxiety attacks, I finally got the courage to take my shirt off with a girl.

As we laid in bed she ran her finger down my scar.

I was so nervous I was shaking.

My self-esteem was pegged squarely under her foot. And all she had to do was stomp!

“God, this scar is so sexy,” she said.

My eyes popped.

“What?” I said. “Why do you think that?”

“Because it shows you’re a survivor,” she said.

Getting your dream girl is embarrassingly easy. All you need is the mental frame and emotional mastery, at the SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, that you're the GRAND PRIZE to her.

It's easy, even if she is the cutest and smartest girl you have ever SEEN, and everyone thinks you will be repulsive to her. Because you're too ugly, or too poor, or too under-educated, or too old, or too short, or too dark, or too shy, or too thin, or too...or have a big scar.

Your dream girl will be very fearful of losing you. I'm speaking from personal experience.

BTW, Mr Harris had congenital heart disease.

Cheers!
Bro WB


Thumbs up !👍

[warbird]

Thumbs up !👍

Bro, you have made my day!:D

[kirk18]

Great thread bro warbird. Thanks! :)

[warbird]

Great thread bro warbird. Thanks! :)

Bro, tks for your encouragement.

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Good evening,

I have been searching for and keeping young women and SYTs as my LPs since 2009.

I like to share Dating Younger Women by Chris Canwell.

Women who date older men are often more feminine than
women who date men of a similar age. In fact, the greater the
age difference the more feminine a woman is likely to be.
Feminine women often seek out older men as partners because
this relationship dynamic feels more natural to their feminine
soul.

If you want to keep a younger woman attracted to you,
you must exude masculine traits like leadership, confidence,
and decisiveness. Where younger men are known for their
indecisiveness, uncertainty, and false confidence, an older man
must stand out with his years of experience, strength, and
confidence.

If a woman senses uncertainty and weakness, then she’ll
pull away from you and look for a man who’s stronger and
more confident. The same applies if you try to seek
reassurance from a woman about whether or not she loves you
and is attracted to you.

It’s not uncommon for confident,
attractive men to become weak and insecure the moment they
start dating a young woman. These same men worry that they
look too old, they worry that their girlfriend will leave them
for a younger (more handsome) man, and they worry that their
relationship is too good to be true and it’s only a matter of time
before their partner realizes she’s dating an “old man.”

The moment you start doubting yourself is the moment you
open up Pandora’s Box and bring unnecessary problems into
your relationship. Remember, thoughts are energy and they
hold real-world consequences.

Age isn’t a problem unless you
make it a problem. Men who successfully date younger
women never focus on age. Instead, they keep the relationship
light, fun, and relaxed, and they never try to lock a woman into
commitment before she’s ready.

If you want to date younger
women, you mustn’t let a small thing like age difference get in
the way.

Chris is right.

A man's mental frame is the secret. He is the prize, and he is more than good enough for a very pretty and cute SYT. The minute he thinks he is not good enough is the kiss of death for the relationship.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[starbucks]

Bro WB thanks for all these enlightening sharings. I guess a man has to be confident in life across all areas to be confident in attracting his dream girl. As a typical mommy boy still finding my confidence at the ripe age of 43, my low self confidence in my professional endeavour has led me to missed opportunities... I wonder if you can also share something about workplace self confidence here, if it make sense, for professional wussy like me. Thanks.

[warbird]

Bro WB thanks for all these enlightening sharings. I guess a man has to be confident in life across all areas to be confident in attracting his dream girl. As a typical mommy boy still finding my confidence at the ripe age of 43, my low self confidence in my professional endeavour has led me to missed opportunities... I wonder if you can also share something about workplace self confidence here, if it make sense, for professional wussy like me. Thanks.

Hi bro,

Thanks so much for your post.

Workplace confidence? If you're very good at what you do, you should have lots of confidence. Aim to be THE best in your field.

Unfortunately, you will also need good EQ, AQ, and connections to get ahead in your career and profession.

Getting the prettiest girl of your type is easier.

Cheers!
Bro WB

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Good afternoon, what an auspicious day!

Recently, I received the following emails from guru Derek Rake.


My brother Shogun,

Today’s email is about cheating.

Unfaithfulness.

Infidelity.

Adultery.

Cuckoldry. (Yes, that’s a word.)

No point prancing around the bush. Is your woman seeing another man behind your back?

Find out. Take this quiz.


Heck, I recommend this even if you are not attached yet… so you know what to watch out for when you are.

Remember–there’s nothing worse for a man than getting cucked…

…but here’s the good news. You can bulletproof yourself against cuckoldry with the heavy artillery of female emotional enslavement–Shogun Method.

Derek Rake
Enslavement, Not Seduction


Find out. Take this quiz.


12 Signs Quiz

Score yourself one point for each yes answer.

One. She’s going out more often than before.

Two. She looks at her phone and giggles.

Three. She’s extra active on social media, especially on Instagram.

Four. She posts thirst traps on social media.

Five. When you go out with other women, she doesn’t care.

Six. She talks about how exciting life outside the marriage is.

Seven. Her social circle seems to have gotten bigger quickly.

Eight. She gets defensive when you ask her about her new friends.

Nine. There is some improvement in her life, for example, if she has gotten a promotion, or lost weight, or had a makeover.

Ten. Her passive aggressiveness has shot through the roof recently.

Eleven. She sings praises of other men, especially the boyfriends or husbands of her friends.

Twelve. When you ask her what she thinks about cheating, she’s indifferent or avoids the question.

Calculate your scores.

0 to 3: Low risk of infidelity.

3 to 6: Moderate risk. She’s probably thinking about cheating on you. There’s still time to stop her. Continue watching to find out how.

Above 6: High risk. It’s likely she’s already seeing another guy.

So, what do you do?

Remember, a woman cheats when she doesn’t get 'emotional satiation' from her man. The easiest way to satisfy a woman’s emotional needs, as any Shogun will tell you, is Fractionation. It’s all about putting your woman through an emotional roller coaster.

The definitive guide to Fractionation is protected inside the Shogun Method. You can’t find it anywhere else in the world.


I have received Mr. Rake's newsletters for over a decade. I have not paid anything for his ideas and methods. A lot of what he has written can be found online foc.

I don't agree with him that you have to enslave a girl to make her addicted to you emotionally and physically. I treat all my LPs/GFs/FBs as equals. And I always leave them better than when I first met them.

It's good karma.

Have a great weekend!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Hi Warbird,

Thanks for your sharing throughout the years. Gives great pleasure to hear someone articulate their thoughts and share opinions pieces which they identify with.

I’ve read your posts since I was a testosterone charged teen. Today I am the same, but older, wiser and with a little more resources.

I hope to meet you one day, when circumstances allow, and when I’m also able to consider having a “very attractive LP”.

Bro, tks for your post

You have made my day!

Most people think I'm all BS because they have been brainwashed by social and cultural conditioning and have preconceived biases. I feel very sorry for them.

They urgently need to reprogram the subconscious mind. It's a gradual and arduous process. Otherwise, they will never capture the heart of their dream girl. They could get her body, as in the case of King Fuchai and Xi Shi. It is a certainty that the relationship will fail, eventually.

I like to meet you too, hopefully very soon. Bring your 'very attractive LP.' I'll bring mine.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening,

Derek Rake just emailed me on How To Train Your Woman. I'm sharing it because he uses the term 'Masculine Worthiness.' It's new to me, but it's similar to a man's masculine value or 'prizability.'

How to train your woman? Do you even need to train her? And if so, how?

Well, I've got so many of those questions that I'm writing an email to you today to answer them.

Let me know if I've answered yours below. If not, reply to this email.

Why do I need to train my girlfriend or wife?

The way a man loves a woman differs from how a woman loves a man.

A man loves a woman for who she is.

A woman loves a man when she respects him.

In fact, she can’t love a man she has little or no respect for. In the female mind, love is rooted in respect and reverence.

What leads to respect and reverence?

Training is key.

Of course, it sounds somewhat offensive to “train” a woman to love a man. After all, falling in love should come naturally, right?

But, here’s the thing. If you think you can train a child or a puppy into obedience, why do you think you can’t do the same for your partner?

The answer is that you can indeed train your girlfriend to be both loving and obedient. And you should.

Keep this in mind. You are only “training” your woman to show you’re a man worthy of respect. If you want a loving, enduring relationship, training is essential.

How do you teach your woman to love you?

Love originates from respect. And respect is born when she senses your masculine worthiness.

What’s masculine worthiness?

Simply put, it’s your value as a man. And it’s measured relative to her value as a woman, in eight ways.

One. You must be smarter than her.

Two. You must know more than her.

Three. You must understand life better than her.

Four. You must solve all her problems.

Five. You must be able to take care of her. (And her children.)

Six. You must lead her and provide her with guidance.

Seven. You must be the rock that she relies on to calm her emotional turmoil. And,

Eight. You must give her the opportunity to support your own mission.

Everything in girlfriend training revolves around these eight traits. Your words and actions must consistently showcase your masculine worthiness. That’s how you secure the respect and love of a woman for a lifetime.



Your comments?

Do you have those 8 traits?

Cheers and good night!
Bro WB

[kitsura]

Good evening,

Derek Rake just emailed me on How To Train Your Woman. I'm sharing it because he uses the term 'Masculine Worthiness.' It's new to me, but it's similar to a man's masculine value or 'prizability.'

How to train your woman? Do you even need to train her? And if so, how?

Well, I've got so many of those questions that I'm writing an email to you today to answer them.

Let me know if I've answered yours below. If not, reply to this email.

Why do I need to train my girlfriend or wife?

The way a man loves a woman differs from how a woman loves a man.

A man loves a woman for who she is.

A woman loves a man when she respects him.

In fact, she can’t love a man she has little or no respect for. In the female mind, love is rooted in respect and reverence.

What leads to respect and reverence?

Training is key.

Of course, it sounds somewhat offensive to “train” a woman to love a man. After all, falling in love should come naturally, right?

But, here’s the thing. If you think you can train a child or a puppy into obedience, why do you think you can’t do the same for your partner?

The answer is that you can indeed train your girlfriend to be both loving and obedient. And you should.

Keep this in mind. You are only “training” your woman to show you’re a man worthy of respect. If you want a loving, enduring relationship, training is essential.

How do you teach your woman to love you?

Love originates from respect. And respect is born when she senses your masculine worthiness.

What’s masculine worthiness?

Simply put, it’s your value as a man. And it’s measured relative to her value as a woman, in eight ways.

One. You must be smarter than her.

Two. You must know more than her.

Three. You must understand life better than her.

Four. You must solve all her problems.

Five. You must be able to take care of her. (And her children.)

Six. You must lead her and provide her with guidance.

Seven. You must be the rock that she relies on to calm her emotional turmoil. And,

Eight. You must give her the opportunity to support your own mission.

Everything in girlfriend training revolves around these eight traits. Your words and actions must consistently showcase your masculine worthiness. That’s how you secure the respect and love of a woman for a lifetime.



Your comments?

Do you have those 8 traits?

Cheers and good night!
Bro WB
I don't fully agree. Depends on the kind of women you are targeting. The high value, rich ones don't need your financial support nor do they need help solving problems. In fact sometimes they just want a listening ear, they can solve their own problems. Something hard for them to come by? A high value male she can trust.

[Northern]

I remember seeing this thread many years ago.
I have been mia for 10 years from sbf and this thread is still active.
Kudos to your commitment.

Good evening,

Derek Rake just emailed me on How To Train Your Woman.

I would rephrase the term "train" to accustomed.
So she knows to come to you and count on you when in need, or in want.
So she knows how you do not want to be and avoid that situation, eg waiting needlessly.
How to accustom would depend on how you react to situation you do not want, tell her once, if it happens again, remind her.
The third time, softly remind her its the 3rd time, say nothing else and walk away, to each his/her own.

You have asserted yourself, its up to her to decide the next step.

[warbird]

I don't fully agree. Depends on the kind of women you are targeting. The high value, rich ones don't need your financial support nor do they need help solving problems. In fact sometimes they just want a listening ear, they can solve their own problems. Something hard for them to come by? A high value male she can trust.

Bro, tks for your post.

I don't always agree with Mr. Rake.

His eight traits of 'masculine worthiness' are the basic minimum a man must have.

Do you believe a beautiful and intelligent woman can respect a man who is not as smart as she is? Of course, a gold digger won't mind a dumbass as long as he is loaded and can give her lots of money. The relationship will fail.

How do you define a 'high-value' woman?

Yes, active listening and trustworthiness are important if a man already has the eight traits. There are many other attributes I have posted here before.

Cheers!
Bro WB

I remember seeing this thread many years ago.
I have been mia for 10 years from sbf and this thread is still active.
Kudos to your commitment.

Originally Posted by warbird View Post
Good evening,

Derek Rake just emailed me on How To Train Your Woman.

I would rephrase the term "train" to accustomed.
So she knows to come to you and count on you when in need, or in want.
So she knows how you do not want to be and avoid that situation, eg waiting needlessly.
How to accustom would depend on how you react to situation you do not want, tell her once, if it happens again, remind her.
The third time, softly remind her its the 3rd time, say nothing else and walk away, to each his/her own.

You have asserted yourself, its up to her to decide the next step.

Bro, thanks.

Yes, I started this thread over 14 yrs ago. I have persevered because sharing is caring, and I have learned so much from everyone here, especially the naysayers.

I agree that 'train' is not the most appropriate word to use.

A man is always the prize, and his dream girl is submissive to him. She will also respect his boundaries.

IMHO, the most attractive man who is ranked highest in the sexual marketplace is a badass gentleman (quite similar to a prestigious man). I have many posts on this topic here. It starts with his 'Meta Frame.'

Cheers!
Bro WB

[kitsura]

Bro, tks for your post.

I don't always agree with Mr. Rake.

His eight traits of 'masculine worthiness' are the basic minimum a man must have.

Do you believe a beautiful and intelligent woman can respect a man who is not as smart as she is? Of course, a gold digger won't mind a dumbass as long as he is loaded and can give her lots of money. The relationship will fail.

How do you define a 'high-value' woman?

Yes, active listening and trustworthiness are important if a man already has the eight traits. There are many other attributes I have posted here before.

Cheers!
Bro WB


Thanks for your reply, bro!

A high-value women is someone who has high EQ, is financially independant yet still respects a man enough to put him first. So none of those crazy modern feminists who expect a man to pay for everything yet demand "equal rights". A good and recent example is S*bil L*u. She is rich and successful yet still quite traditional in many aspects. Local women like these are almost extinct!

As for your comment about active listening and trustworthiness, unfortunately i do not have the bandwidth now to go thru all 500+ pages of your thread. No doubt you, and many others before you, have posted about these attributes before. They are not unique or particularly hard to find. These men are those who have very beautiful women always attached to their arms.

[warbird]

Thanks for your reply, bro!

A high-value women is someone who has high EQ, is financially independant yet still respects a man enough to put him first. So none of those crazy modern feminists who expect a man to pay for everything yet demand "equal rights". A good and recent example is S*bil L*u. She is rich and successful yet still quite traditional in many aspects. Local women like these are almost extinct!

As for your comment about active listening and trustworthiness, unfortunately i do not have the bandwidth now to go thru all 500+ pages of your thread. No doubt you, and many others before you, have posted about these attributes before. They are not unique or particularly hard to find. These men are those who have very beautiful women always attached to their arms.

Thank you, bro.

A beautiful, smart, and rich girl with high EQ and AQ is hard to find anywhere. 可遇而不可求.

Unfortunately, it will take more than active listening and trustworthiness to attract a bevy of very beautiful women. Of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Cheers!
Bro WB
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Recently, I read this fascinating article on Live Sciences.

These female frogs fake their own deaths to get out of sex

https://www.livescience.com/animals/frogs/these-female-frogs-fake-their-own-deaths-to-get-out-of-sex?utm_term=88FF7564-2EEE-4FF9-A000-3B39DCE9195F&lrh=056a0b93a228ada96bee0b6eb94b1ade14c27a13177d1f e6bcf84f277c20182b&utm_campaign=368B3745-DDE0-4A69-A2E8-62503D85375D&utm_medium=email&utm_content=C6399CB0-2331-4DAC-819B-61BC52701275&utm_source=SmartBrief

These female frogs fake their own deaths to get out of sex
Female European common frogs will play dead to avoid mating during their "explosive" breeding, where several males attempt to mount one female at the same time.

Female frogs have developed a number of ways to get out of sex, including rolling, grunting and even faking their own deaths, scientists have discovered.

European common frogs (Rana temporaria) are known as "explosive" breeders that gather in their dozens to mate in ponds. Usually, males outnumber females, which means six or more males may compete to mount a female at one time in what is known as a mating ball.

"In some cases, the female might be killed inside these mating balls," Carolin Dittrich, a researcher at the Natural History Museum in Berlin, told Live Science.

But the females have developed several techniques to avoid mating. "Rather than being passive and helpless, we find that females can use three key strategies for avoiding males they don’t want to mate with — either because they aren't ready to breed or do not want to mate with a certain male," Dittrich said.

Isn't that interesting? Comments?

Some human females behave the same way, especially when they don't want to be fxxked by a certain male.

A very cute and youthful young woman/SYT will be approached or propositioned dozens of times by all kinds of men every day. She has learned to avoid eye contact with or to reply to strangers.

Her behavior is often misconstrued as antisocial and aloof. It's just a defensive mechanism for personal safety.

Please be patient and gentle with such a rare gem. This is one girl you have to go slow. Display your social/sexual values and masculine character traits. Gain her trust and build rapport. You will be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams.

Have a nice weekend to all Samsters,
Cheers!
Bro WB

[Machiavelian]

Great thread by bro warbird. Look forward to more tips! :)

[celavie]

This is such an amazing thread. How I wish I had chanced upon this earlier. The mindset and ethos would have been really helpful.

Abit of history, I had BY'ed a singer for a couple of months. We have since broken up as I could not stand the incesstant request for money and finally saw that this was all a transaction. Unfortunately I was KC big time and still cannot suppress this feeling towards her. It has been 4 months already and still cannot get over her. There is not much resentment since I appreciate that I did gain Her over the course of the relationship. Move on but it seems it is easier said than done. Onwards to my next BY is the only way to forget her.

Anyhow I will be a student of bro Warbird and Austin and other esteemed bros and the years of wisdom here. I still can't believe this wisdom had been here all this time since 2009 and I have only just discovered it.

I spent between 10-15k pm for a small joint PRC singer, met and fucked twice a week on average. Suppose to be exclusive but who would truly know. My BY kept hinting me that people around her get 20+k pm but I always resist all these mental tricks of hers where I can.

I hope other bros will share their 2023 CURRENT BY going rates for singers / ktv gals.

I hear business at many joints now not so good. Raid at orchard ktv few weeks ago, joints with poor patronage nowadays. Any view of the current state of the economy and if now is a better chance to hit success at BY at ktv/hfj?

Last but not least pls help up my humble points.

[celavie]

double post

[celavie]

With regards the rate I paid, singer was not syt but under 30yo, 1.7m tall just under 50kg, Looked chio to me but beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Furthermore with good makeup skills anyone can look younger than they are. Definitely one of the more chio ones at the joint.

By the way, what is the highest amount bros have spent on investment to get a lady's attention but failed? Trying to work out what amount to burn or at least what these girls see as puny amounts.

[celavie]

double post

[junior_cannibal]

Call me cheapo. I don't believe in the concept of BY. Unless if I am single, divorced or widowed and the lady stays with me 24/7, stop working as a singer hostess or FL, maybe even a OL.
Even if the lady stops her work, she can still be seeing others during the day though she will come home to sleep.
If the singer, hostess or whatever has pride and really likes you, most of all, see a future with you, she will not outright measure you by how much money can you give her daily, monthly or yearly. If she's capable of making money herself, by merely mentioning that you want to give her money, would cause her to roll eye, feel insulted and walked away.
If you are attached or married, then the more you should not consider BY any of them. 9/10 of them are only interested in your money, not your look, love or cock.

[warbird]

This is such an amazing thread. How I wish I had chanced upon this earlier. The mindset and ethos would have been really helpful.

Abit of history, I had BY'ed a singer for a couple of months. We have since broken up as I could not stand the incesstant request for money and finally saw that this was all a transaction. Unfortunately I was KC big time and still cannot suppress this feeling towards her. It has been 4 months already and still cannot get over her. There is not much resentment since I appreciate that I did gain Her over the course of the relationship. Move on but it seems it is easier said than done. Onwards to my next BY is the only way to forget her.

Anyhow I will be a student of bro Warbird and Austin and other esteemed bros and the years of wisdom here. I still can't believe this wisdom had been here all this time since 2009 and I have only just discovered it.

I spent between 10-15k pm for a small joint PRC singer, met and fucked twice a week on average. Suppose to be exclusive but who would truly know. My BY kept hinting me that people around her get 20+k pm but I always resist all these mental tricks of hers where I can.

I hope other bros will share their 2023 CURRENT BY going rates for singers / ktv gals.

I hear business at many joints now not so good. Raid at orchard ktv few weeks ago, joints with poor patronage nowadays. Any view of the current state of the economy and if now is a better chance to hit success at BY at ktv/hfj?

Last but not least pls help up my humble points.

Bro, thanks for your post and encouragement.

If a girl keeps asking for money, dump her asap. Never forget that you're the PRIZE.

Here is the best way to forget a girl immediately. I hate to sound like a broken record. But you should behave as if 100 girls of your type, both WLs and non-WLs, are calling you every day. Would you care if you lose a few girls?

The current BY rates are about 50- 100% higher than before the pandemic. There is a supply-demand imbalance.

Bro Austin immigrated to Australia 7 yrs ago. I have not heard from him.

With regards the rate I paid, singer was not syt but under 30yo, 1.7m tall just under 50kg, Looked chio to me but beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Furthermore with good makeup skills anyone can look younger than they are. Definitely one of the more chio ones at the joint.

By the way, what is the highest amount bros have spent on investment to get a lady's attention but failed? Trying to work out what amount to burn or at least what these girls see as puny amounts.

I heard there were men who had spent over 100 -200k on a singer and still never knew the color of her panties.

Cheers!
Bro WB

Call me cheapo. I don't believe in the concept of BY. Unless if I am single, divorced or widowed and the lady stays with me 24/7, stop working as a singer hostess or FL, maybe even a OL.
Even if the lady stops her work, she can still be seeing others during the day though she will come home to sleep.
If the singer, hostess or whatever has pride and really likes you, most of all, see a future with you, she will not outright measure you by how much money can you give her daily, monthly or yearly. If she's capable of making money herself, by merely mentioning that you want to give her money, would cause her to roll eye, feel insulted and walked away.
If you are attached or married, then the more you should not consider BY any of them. 9/10 of them are only interested in your money, not your look, love or cock.

Bro, thanks so much for your opinion.

Something for all men to ponder. About 40-50% of married women cheat.

How could a man prevent his women from cheating? There are many posts here on this topic.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[junior_cannibal]

Bro WB, you are welcome.
About the question you asked us to ponder, how about reverse it, how do women prevent their men from cheating?
It's stake for men to cheap is lower as its usually sexually or hormone driven, while I do not deny some women might be the same, the likelihood is more due to other reason.
By the Maslow's theory, let me tweet it a little. At the very bottom, men want money for survival, once got money will look for women, power, and concurrently, most of the time.
Women are normally attracted to men of status, power, money. It's the animal instinct. Even a female beast will not want to mate a weak male counterpart.
If the men have given enough TLC to their women, the latter are less likely to cheat.
The big disclaimer is, while the men think they have given all the TLC they can provide, have they ever asked their women how the latter like to be loved? The way, the method.

[warbird]

Bro WB, you are welcome.
About the question you asked us to ponder, how about reverse it, how do women prevent their men from cheating?
It's stake for men to cheap is lower as its usually sexually or hormone driven, while I do not deny some women might be the same, the likelihood is more due to other reason.
By the Maslow's theory, let me tweet it a little. At the very bottom, men want money for survival, once got money will look for women, power, and concurrently, most of the time.
Women are normally attracted to men of status, power, money. It's the animal instinct. Even a female beast will not want to mate a weak male counterpart.
If the men have given enough TLC to their women, the latter are less likely to cheat.
The big disclaimer is, while the men think they have given all the TLC they can provide, have they ever asked their women how the latter like to be loved? The way, the method.

Bro, tks for your thoughtful post.

I have a soul mate/lover, yet I still like to make love to other girls. There is nothing that my lover can do to prevent me from seeing others. I personally know a number of men who are just like me.

It's in the genes. A man can't be sure a child is his until the recent advent of DNA analysis. He needs to fxxk as many women as possible to ensure the replication of his genes. Whereas, a woman usually knows if a child is her own.

You're right about women often cheat for other reasons. However, some girls enjoy fxxking so much that they will cheat if their men are not always available.

Cheers!

[celavie]

Bro WB,

When you say BY prices are 50-100% higher than pre pandemic, what sort of prices do you mean?

Unfortunately I have not had the depth of experience nor the breath of places visited. You frequent these joints far more frequently than me so your sources and recent successes at concluding the arrangements should be good indicative prices for me to work with. Kindly PM me if not for public.

Other esteemed bros, kindly share your constructive thoughts if any.




Bro junior_cannibal,

You are indeed right in your opinion. Genuinely I hope you continue along this way. This route is like pandora's box. I would say that only open at one's peril. I am regretful about having succumbed but another side of me cannot help it. Us men are too good at compartmentalising our thoughts and beliefs.


Rgds,

[junior_cannibal]

Of course, bro WB. If the woman cannot be adequately satisfied mentally and sexually, when she gets a chance to be tempted, will find other men. It's a two way traffic.
About the women usually know who's the dad, again, there are minority that allow CIP with different men until they also may be confused who's the daddy.
Lastly, about you want more than one lover, this is nothing unusual, as long as you are fine when your lover, flings or whatsoever are also seeing someone else other than you. Even if all your FB are OL, MILF, married women or SYT, they all can be having others, since you are very picky in the looks compartment.

[warbird]

Bro WB,

When you say BY prices are 50-100% higher than pre pandemic, what sort of prices do you mean?

Unfortunately I have not had the depth of experience nor the breath of places visited. You frequent these joints far more frequently than me so your sources and recent successes at concluding the arrangements should be good indicative prices for me to work with. Kindly PM me if not for public.

Other esteemed bros, kindly share your constructive thoughts if any.



Bro,

I have numerous posts on BY prices in this thread.

From a post 7 to 8 years ago: "It varies, from 6K to 15K a month if the girl doesn't work at the night scene n doesn't see any other men. She must be at my beck and call. She is a full-time mistress.

The damage doesn't include the rental of master bedroom/studio, visa fees, school tuition, meals and gifts (optional).

The lower range is generally for girls whom I import directly from China. They hv much lower expectations and often dare not come unless they come in pairs. Of course, more experienced and professional ones may ask for more. But everything is subject to negotiation.

If a girl continues to work in the night scene, a part-time mistress, you should offer only half the full-time rates. This doesn't work for me as it's very difficult to monitor her activities. And don't ever buy such a part-time mistress any gifts. For me, it's all or nothing. A girl is either exclusively mine or she is not mine. Doing ST is better than having a part-time mistress."

I have not seen a girl worth more than 15K a month. I'm paying about the same as I did 10-12 years ago.


Of course, bro WB. If the woman cannot be adequately satisfied mentally and sexually, when she gets a chance to be tempted, will find other men. It's a two way traffic.
About the women usually know who's the dad, again, there are minority that allow CIP with different men until they also may be confused who's the daddy.
Lastly, about you want more than one lover, this is nothing unusual, as long as you are fine when your lover, flings or whatsoever are also seeing someone else other than you. Even if all your FB are OL, MILF, married women or SYT, they all can be having others, since you are very picky in the looks compartment.

Bro, tks for your post.

Unattractive women more likely to cheat on their partners, new study shows. https://www.news24.com/you/wellness/unattractive-women-more-likely-to-cheat-on-their-partners-new-study-shows-20180216

Coventional wisdom is often wrong.

I'm highly selective. Looks, proportionate figure and voice is just the first step. I need to evaluate the girl and know her character and intelligence, etc.

People do change. Trust but verify. IMHO, 40 - 50% married women cheat.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening,

Here is an article by relationship guru Mike.

Control the frame, control the game

Have you ever felt anxious, scared or powerless talking to women?

It’s probably because you didn’t have control over the “frame” of the conversation.

What is the “frame” exactly?

The frame is the meaning behind the conversation, and it can be whatever you want it to be.

The frame could be anything from “we hate each other”... to “we are just friends”... to “we like each other as more than friends.”

Most importantly, only one person controls the frame. Either she controls the “frame” or you do.

When she controls the frame, she’s the one calling the shots.

She’s the one expecting you to chase her, to buy her drinks, to game her, to demonstrate your value to her, to impress her, etc...

When that happens, you don’t have any control over the outcome, you’re just hoping to “get lucky.”

But what if YOU were always in control of the frame?

How do you think women would react to you differently?

Well, I’ll tell you how.

Most of the time, she’ll think, “Wow. Who IS this guy?”

She’ll think, “Why is he such a challenge?”

And deep down, she will start seeking your approval.

Her behaviors will change. Subtly at first.

She’ll start talking to you more. She’ll care more about what you think of her. And she’ll want you to like her.

Now, you are the one calling the shots, and she is the one responding, reacting and chasing.

Which is perfect - that’s exactly what you want.

When you own the frame, you have the power to control what women think of you.

Control the frame, control the game



Any comments?

Wishing all of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening to all samsters,

Time flies. The year is almost over.

Here are two interesting articles.

1) If you have testes, should you ejaculate more often to stay healthier? Yes, you certainly should.

https://boingboing.net/2023/12/18/if-you-have-testes-should-you-ejaculate-more-often-yes-yes-you-should.html

2) Study: Men Who Date Younger Women Live Longer

https://menshealth.com.au/men-who-date-younger-women-live-longer/#:~:text=By%20Mens%20Health%20Staff%20%7C%20May%20 1%2C%202021&text=Their%20findings%3A%20the%20younger%20a,longe r%20he's%20likely%20to%20live.&text=The%20report%20quoted%20a%20University,dating %20within%20their%20age%20bracket.

It's a matter of life and death for men.

I like my girls to be cute 18 yo SYTs when I meet them. My taste has not changed since I was 20.

It has been good for my mental and physical health.  

I'm medically and scientifically correct, although not politically correct.

Happy New Year to all!
Cheers,
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good morning! Happy New Year!

Here is a key insight on women and love from guru Derek Rake.

Women can only love out of respect.

Let’s be real here. I mean, we all like to deal with smart and strong people that we can respect.

I mean, imagine having a stupid boss who knows jack shit about what you do. It’s hard to take him seriously, right?

Well, guess what? It’s the same with women.

I mean, it makes total sense if you think about it. If she doesn’t respect you, she can’t love you. In fact, that’s the number one reason guys get dumped–when they lose the respect of their women.

So, here’s the key insight–

Never seek a woman’s love. Seek her respect instead.

Because once she respects you, it’s easy to make her fall in love with you.

Take it from us Shoguns. If a woman doesn’t respect you, she can’t love you, plain and simple.
 

Do your wives/lovers/GFs/LPs/mistresses RESPECT you?

WORSHIP you?

It is good news if your cute and smart SYT lover says that I worship you. However, it must come from her heart, or rather, from her subconscious mind.

If she happens to be a Mainland Chinese, she will say 你很优秀, 我很崇拜你. And, her actions and behavior must be congruent with her words.

Isn't life beautiful?

Have a fantastic day!

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Here is another key insight on women and love from guru Derek Rake.

Women desire to control men, but they desire uncontrollable men more.

In Shogun Method, I teach a theory I call the Paradox of Female Desire.

What’s this paradox? Well, it’s how every woman desires to control her man… but when she gets to control, she loses her desire for him.

Women differ from men from what they want out of a relationship. And here’s the difference: men want sex, but women want commitment.

Just as some men want to bang multiple women without commitment, some women want multiple men to commit without giving them sex.

So, here’s the thing to understand. Your woman will try to tie you down and secure your commitment. But guess what? The more committed a man is to a woman, the less sexual desire she feels for him.

And that’s how relationships go stale over time - because the woman no longer feels the danger of losing him…

… but interestingly, it’s this feeling of danger that gives a woman sexual arousal. In fact, a woman is most aroused when her man is about to dump her. It’s weird, but true!

OK, so how do you put this insight into practical use? It’s easy... be uncontrollable.

You must keep her on her toes all the time, always wondering what’s around the corner. In Shogun Method, we call this effect Fractionation.

Any comments?

Cheers!
Bro WB

[matchalatte]

Amazing that this thread is still alive!

Keep it up

[deathnitez]

Nice WB is still sharing wisdom after so long. Learn a lot from you many many years ago wahaha. still helpful till today. keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

[SirLance]

Support TS and his conquest.

[Pixio]

Men Who Date Younger Women Live Longer


Fully agreed with this statement ! :D

[warbird]

Amazing that this thread is still alive!

Keep it up

Bro, thanks, I'll try.

Nice WB is still sharing wisdom after so long. Learn a lot from you many many years ago wahaha. still helpful till today. keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

Bro, tks for your encouragement.

Support TS and his conquest.

Bro, thank you!

Fully agreed with this statement ! :D

Bro, tks. It's a scientific fact.
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Good afternoon,

Happy Lunar New Year to all samsters!

This thread was started in June 2009, almost 15 years ago, when I was a newbie. I have learned a lot from everyone here, including the naysayers and those who made very negative comments. My sincere thanks to all of you.

I like to share something I posted in June 2012 because most men are still clueless. I have my lapses too.

A mentor once told me: If a gal really likes what u say and the way u say it, she is yours. Try to deepen your voice and speak slowly...

Let me share a brief e-mail from an American mentor on Looks and Words.

Hey Bro Warbird,

Imagine a very beautiful woman, not just physically, one who has a
great smile, a great energy, and a great outlook on life, one who
knows how to make you feel the way you want to feel as a man.

Now, imagine how you would feel if she was standing right in front
of you, looking you right in the eye.

Pretty exciting feeling, huh? Well, the way she can make you feel
through your eyes is the way you can make her feel through her ears
using your words.

It's been said that men fall in love through their eyes, and women
fall in love through their ears, a statement that is mostly
accurate.

Most guys, however, make the assumption that women experience
attraction like they do, visually. So, they try to attract women
that way, going so far as to post pictures of themselves with their
shirts off, showing off whatever abs they have.

But women do not experience attraction this way. Sure they like a
nice looking man, but that is an addition, not the way they
experience initial attraction. The best looking man in the world
can kill any initial interest dead just by opening his mouth and
saying a few words.

When it comes to women, words are where it's at, along with how you
say them. A man skilled in the use and delivery of words can make
a woman feel attraction just as strongly as the example I gave you
in the beginning.

So master the use of words with women, get skilled at painting word
pictures that activate their minds and get them thinking about you.

Pick up a few goofy romance novels and study their use of words and
imagery...many women use them as substitutes to evoke feelings when
no man is present who can evoke them.

Very ugly men have become some of the best seducers in history
because of their mastery of words with women.

There is no reason you cannot do the same...while we cannot always
control our looks, we can certainly learn to control our words, and
those are what will attract the most beautiful women to you.

On with the fun,

Mr. J.A.



I know that most men don't believe Mr. J.A. The confusing part is that many women themselves don't know it consciously. It's due to cultural and social conditioning. But their primitive mind (mostly subconscious) is more powerful.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[SirLance]

Thank you so much WB and happy CNY.

[warbird]

Thank you so much WB and happy CNY.

Bro, welcome!

Happy CNY!

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Good evening,

Here is a tip on getting women. It's very basic yet many men do exactly the opposite.

Why Ignoring Her Makes Her Want You

by CCdeville


When I was 19 my mother used to baby-sit this cute little 5 year old girl we nicknamed Muffin.

Now of course everyone loves little girls and everyone is always telling them how cute they are, pinching their cheeks, and showering all kinds of attention on them. It was no different for little Muffin.

Myself, not being so impressed with young children, I used to come home, interact with my family, eat dinner, and eventually go to my room hardly acknowledging Muffin's presence.

And when I did speak to Muffin, I spoke to her as if she were an adult...

Not making little baby sounds and pinching her cheeks like everyone else did.


My New Shadow

Amazingly, she would follow me all over the house just to see what I was doing.

She would ask me all kinds of questions in her own childish way and wanted to spend time with me, even though everyone else was paying her the attention.

One day, after being annoyed at Muffin constantly trying to be my shadow, I asked my mother why this little girl wouldn't leave me alone.

And mom answered...

"It's because everyone else showers her with attention and you ignore her."


Women Don't Change Much

The point is that women don't change much.

By the time a girl grows up, she's already accustomed to being the center of attention. She expects it, especially from men.

And as with anything, when you expect it, you usually take it for granted.

As a Don Juan you have to break the pattern that she expects.

When you talk to her, talk as if you would to anyone else, almost as if to say, "I get along with everyone." Don't call her every day and shower attention upon her right away.

Force her to come to you by not doing what every other poor sap has already done.

You will stand out. You will be different.

And she will be intrigued.


Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good evening,

Here is a research article on the importance of penile-vaginal intercourse on life's satisfaction. All other forms of sexual behavior are less satisfactory.

Satisfaction (Sexual, Life, Relationship, and Mental Health) Is Associated Directly with Penile–Vaginal Intercourse, but Inversely with Other Sexual Behavior Frequencies

Results
For both sexes, multivariate analyses revealed that PVI frequency was directly associated with all satisfaction measures (part correlation = 0.50 with sexual satisfaction), masturbation frequency was independently inversely associated with almost all satisfaction measures, and noncoital sex frequencies independently inversely associated with some satisfaction measures (and uncorrelated with the rest). Age did not confound the results.

Conclusions
The results are consistent with evidence that specifically PVI frequency, rather than other sexual activities, is associated with sexual satisfaction, health, and well-being. Inverse associations between satisfaction and masturbation are not due simply to insufficient PVI. Brody S, and Costa RM. Satisfaction (sexual, life, relationship, and mental health) is associated directly with penile-vaginal intercourse, but inversely with other sexual behavior frequencies. J Sex Med 2009;6:1947–1954.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515325972

Your comments and insights will be appreciated.

I'm not apologetic for getting and keeping the most attractive girls of my type. My well-being and happiness are dependent on it.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good afternoon,

Two months ago, I received a newsletter from sex guru Jim Wolfe on how to improve relationships with wome. I didn't share it then because it's a bit long-winded.


ONLY Choose a Woman Who Does THIS...

I'm going to share one simple tip that can greatly improve your relationship with a woman and everyone else in your life:

Imagine for a second that you just got a promotion at work...

And then you come home to your girlfriend or wife excited to tell her about it:

"Honey, I just got the promotion I've been wanting for so long!! I'm so happy!"

Her response:

"That's great...but I mean...don't you hate working there anyway? Sorry if I don't get too excited for you..."

DEFLATED.

That's how you might feel.

And this short little story illustrates the opposite of the concept I'm going to cover today...


A simple way to improve ALL of your relationships...


It's called "capitalization" and it's one of the keys to having a healthy, satisfying relationship with a woman and good relationships with everyone else.

Here's how you apply capitalization:

1. Any time the woman you're dating (or anyone else) tells you something positive about their life, you AMPLIFY it instead of minimizing it.

2. You want to choose a woman who does the same for you.

It's that simple (yet not necessarily easy).

So, to flip this around, when your girlfriend comes home and says, "Hey, guess what?! I finally got that promotion I've been wanting today!!!"

You say, "Wow, that's awesome, honey! I'm so proud of you! Let's celebrate..."

Even if you know she doesn't like the company she works for.

What you want to do in that case is capitalize on the good feelings she's sharing, amplify them by the way you respond (this adds lots of good feelings into your relationship)...

...AND THEN, a day or two later, you can bring up the fact that while it's great that she got a promotion maybe she should consider still looking for other opportunities because she doesn't like the company.

And make sure you choose to be with a woman who handles your good news the same way.

Because over the course of months and years, if a woman deflates you every time you share something you're happy about with her, you'll end up feeling resentful toward her and you won't want to share your happiness with her.

And if you minimize her good feelings when she shares them with you, she'll feel bad around you and will start only sharing neutral and negative things with you.

So, when she shares something positive with you, don't put her or the situation down, don't minimize what she's saying, and don't resist those good emotions.

Expand them instead.

And, if you have feedback to offer that might deflate those good feelings, wait and share it with her later.

If both of you do this, you will be MUCH happier to be together.

And if you do this with people in general, they will want to be around you a lot more.

This might seem like a small thing but it's extremely important...

Especially because there will be so many instances where this comes up for both people in a relationship.

Remember: Her happiness is your happiness and your happiness is her happiness. Same with success.

Now, a woman can't make you happy...

However, she can EXPAND your happiness and you can do the same for her.

And now you know a simple way you can.

On the other hand, if neither of you practice capitalization, you can definitely make each other miserable.

So, from now on, expand on any incoming positives and you'll have a much happier girlfriend or wife. And make sure you're with someone who does this too.

Now, when you're on your first or second date with a woman and she tells you she got a promotion, you don't have to go crazy and throw her a party or anything like that...

However, you should still capitalize on the good news:

"Wow, congratulations! Let me grab you a drink to celebrate..."

Etc.

It's okay to get her one drink if it's to celebrate her good news. Just don't go overboard if she's not your girlfriend yet.

Once she's your girlfriend or your wife, you can expand her good feelings as much as you want:

"Wow! I'm so proud of you...let's get a bottle of champagne..."

You can even throw her a party and invite all of your friends so they can share those good feelings too depending on what the situation happens to be.

Etc.

The important thing here is just that you don't minimize her good feelings and expand them instead, even just with your words and body language.

You don't have to do anything more than that; I'm just saying that you can if you want.

And, from now on, I highly encourage you to celebrate the success of others in general...

Because when someone gets or achieves something that you want and you celebrate it, your mind starts associating that thing with positive feelings and that makes it much more likely that YOU will get it as well.

And, of course, it also improves all of your relationships and makes you much more fun to be around.

And, on the other hand, the opposite is true if you minimize the good feelings of others.

So when you see a guy with a beautiful, kind, smart, amazing wife or girlfriend, CELEBRATE his happiness and success...

Because that makes you open to experiencing that success as well.

And when a woman tells you something positive from her life, encourage, support, expand, and amplify vs. minimizing, resisting, or destroying.

Because if you do, you'll be handsomely rewarded.

Remember: We have to actively CREATE good feelings in our relationships together...

And capitalization is a simple way to do it.

Ok, last thing for the day:

When you're talking to a woman (and as a general rule), do your best not to create negatives as well.

That means don't whine and complain or put people down in your conversations...

And don't make negatives worse either:

If she shares something negative with you, support her and show her you're on her team but don't amplify the negative feelings. Just accept them.

So, to re-cap, we want to actively create good feelings by sharing positive things with a woman, AMPLIFY her good feelings when she shares them with us, and refrain from creating negatives as much as we can.

Find a woman who does this too and you just might beat the odds and find yourself still happy after several decades with her.

And if you do this as a general rule, ALL of your relationships will improve.

Try it and watch what happens.

I'll be back with you soon.

Cheers!

Jim


Your comments?

I have found a girl who has amplified my happiness and contentment. She respects, encourages, supports, and admires me. She has complete trust in me and is submissive. That is why she is my soul mate.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[MillerV]

bravo Bro Warbird! love this post!
Thanks for sharing!

[SadLoser]

This is such an amazing thread. How I wish I had chanced upon this earlier. The mindset and ethos would have been really helpful.

Abit of history, I had BY'ed a singer for a couple of months. We have since broken up as I could not stand the incesstant request for money and finally saw that this was all a transaction. Unfortunately I was KC big time and still cannot suppress this feeling towards her. It has been 4 months already and still cannot get over her. There is not much resentment since I appreciate that I did gain Her over the course of the relationship. Move on but it seems it is easier said than done. Onwards to my next BY is the only way to forget her.

Anyhow I will be a student of bro Warbird and Austin and other esteemed bros and the years of wisdom here. I still can't believe this wisdom had been here all this time since 2009 and I have only just discovered it.

I spent between 10-15k pm for a small joint PRC singer, met and fucked twice a week on average. .

10-15K per mth?? :eek: This amount can allow me to fark countless syt FLs & GL angpais. You can even try Jap, Korean, Russia fls every week

No offence, but can never understand why do people waste this kind of money on BY a ktv hostess

This kind of transaction her ROI is like 500% and your ROI is like 3% nia :(

Anyway I will never have this kind of problem cos I can't afford to BY any one with my meagre salary. The most I can afford is weekly visit to GL or book a FL for 1 hr per week.

Sometimes I really wonder how some ppl so rich yet so silly... life so unfair :(

[I Love Boobs]

10-15K per mth?? :eek: This amount can allow me to fark countless syt FLs & GL angpais. You can even try Jap, Korean, Russia fls every week

No offence, but can never understand why do people waste this kind of money on BY a ktv hostess

This kind of transaction her ROI is like 500% and your ROI is like 3% nia :(

Anyway I will never have this kind of problem cos I can't afford to BY any one with my meagre salary. The most I can afford is weekly visit to GL or book a FL for 1 hr per week.

Sometimes I really wonder how some ppl so rich yet so silly... life so unfair :(

Most of the time it’s because the money is not hard earned.
Either inheritance or from running some crony company…

[SadLoser]

Most of the time it’s because the money is not hard earned.
Either inheritance or from running some crony company…

You are most likely right bro... office workers where can afford or bear to splurge this kind of money :(

[warbird]

bravo Bro Warbird! love this post!
Thanks for sharing!

Bro,

Tks for your encouragement. I'm not entirely altruistic as I have learned a lot by sharing.

I know you have a happy family now. If you ever want to visit KTVs again, let me know.

Cheers,
Bro WB

10-15K per mth?? :eek: This amount can allow me to fark countless syt FLs & GL angpais. You can even try Jap, Korean, Russia fls every week

No offence, but can never understand why do people waste this kind of money on BY a ktv hostess

This kind of transaction her ROI is like 500% and your ROI is like 3% nia :(

Anyway I will never have this kind of problem cos I can't afford to BY any one with my meagre salary. The most I can afford is weekly visit to GL or book a FL for 1 hr per week.

Sometimes I really wonder how some ppl so rich yet so silly... life so unfair :(

Bro,

Yes, life has always been unfair. Some men are tall and some are short. Some die at birth and some live to 100 plus.

If life deals me a terrible hand, I'll accept and do my best to improve it. As they say, it's not where you start but where you finish that counts. I encourage every samster to do the best. Improve yourself every day, in every way. Be positive, optimistic and persistent.

I joined SBF in June 2007 when I started spending more time in SG. My earliest posts from 2007- early 2009 were all on GL streetwalkers and local FLs. Some GL girls then were pretty, sexy, natural, and affordable, from $80-120 per shot. The local girls from $250-450. Read my FRs.

Sadly, the prettier girls in GL were largely gone by mid-2009. Only ugly girls and aunties remained. Since I never settled, I began visiting KTVs to look for my type of girl. In late 2008, I was introduced to KTVs by a fellow lao chee ko pek. As a newbie, I was not very successful in the beginning. To save money, I tried picking up girls outside KTVs, schools, near taxi stands, and in shopping malls. Read the early posts in this thread.

I have chronicled my evolution and rationale in detail. There are pros and cons in BY-ing. I used to keep a different girl every month, sometimes 2 girls simultaneously. Then my relationship with these girls became longer and longer, partly because my type of girl was becoming scarce.

Another advantage of keeping LT lao pos is that I can make love to them raw. I make sure they get regular medical tests. Last but not least, their companionship is most enjoyable and greatly beneficial to my healthy longevity.

Yes, some rich men are carrot heads, especially those who hang flowers at HFJs. I have several posts on their folly.

Cheers!
Bro WB

Most of the time it’s because the money is not hard earned.
Either inheritance or from running some crony company…

Yes, many patrons of KTVs and HFJs in SG engage in shady businesses, and some in illegal all-cash rackets. Why aren't they all get arrested? My soul mate and I can tell by observing their body language, behavior, and 气质.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[kabul]

Bro, welcome!

Happy CNY!

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Good evening,

Here is a tip on getting women. It's very basic yet many men do exactly the opposite.

Why Ignoring Her Makes Her Want You

by CCdeville


When I was 19 my mother used to baby-sit this cute little 5 year old girl we nicknamed Muffin.

Now of course everyone loves little girls and everyone is always telling them how cute they are, pinching their cheeks, and showering all kinds of attention on them. It was no different for little Muffin.

Myself, not being so impressed with young children, I used to come home, interact with my family, eat dinner, and eventually go to my room hardly acknowledging Muffin's presence.

And when I did speak to Muffin, I spoke to her as if she were an adult...

Not making little baby sounds and pinching her cheeks like everyone else did.


My New Shadow

Amazingly, she would follow me all over the house just to see what I was doing.

She would ask me all kinds of questions in her own childish way and wanted to spend time with me, even though everyone else was paying her the attention.

One day, after being annoyed at Muffin constantly trying to be my shadow, I asked my mother why this little girl wouldn't leave me alone.

And mom answered...

"It's because everyone else showers her with attention and you ignore her."


Women Don't Change Much

The point is that women don't change much.

By the time a girl grows up, she's already accustomed to being the center of attention. She expects it, especially from men.

And as with anything, when you expect it, you usually take it for granted.

As a Don Juan you have to break the pattern that she expects.

When you talk to her, talk as if you would to anyone else, almost as if to say, "I get along with everyone." Don't call her every day and shower attention upon her right away.

Force her to come to you by not doing what every other poor sap has already done.

You will stand out. You will be different.

And she will be intrigued.


Cheers!
Bro WB

Fuck you lah. Talk nonsense only. Lala land

[Bloggercurs]

hahah..bro,diff ppl diff point of views la

[oxeso]

Most of the time it’s because the money is not hard earned.
Either inheritance or from running some crony company…

Ups u again.. :D shun bian spread reps.. :D

[manuelala]

Great share bro warbird, got a lot to learn from you!

[stardewvalley]

Wow too much tips. I have to take my time to read it :D

[ssd3469]

For bros who have gf before, is it kiss/hold hands/have sex first then become a couple or become a couple first then kiss/hold hands/have sex? Thank you. Cause our society more conservative so I think it is the latter but without sexual attraction how to become a couple in the first place lol?

[warbird]

hahah..bro,diff ppl diff point of views la

Yes, very true.

Ups u again.. :D shun bian spread reps.. :D

Bro, have a nice day!

Great share bro warbird, got a lot to learn from you!

Bro, thanks.

For bros who have gf before, is it kiss/hold hands/have sex first then become a couple or become a couple first then kiss/hold hands/have sex? Thank you. Cause our society more conservative so I think it is the latter but without sexual attraction how to become a couple in the first place lol?

Bro, every couple is different.

For me, it's holding hands first, then kissing, followed by love making.

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Good afternoon to all samsters,
Bro WB

[ssd3469]

Yes, very true.



Bro, have a nice day!



Bro, thanks.



Bro, every couple is different.

For me, it's holding hands first, then kissing, followed by love making.

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Good afternoon to all samsters,
Bro WB

Did you get my question correctly? It seems like you focused on the wrong part of my question. I mean you did all 3 first before you became a couple?

[warbird]

Did you get my question correctly? It seems like you focused on the wrong part of my question. I mean you did all 3 first before you became a couple?

Please explain, how could a man and a woman become a couple first without even holding hands?

What is your definition of a couple?

There have been girls who want to have a 'couple' relationship with me after hand holding and kissing. And rarely, some girls just want to fxxk without any meaningful relationship. They are not 'nighlife' girls.

[ssd3469]

Please explain, how could a man and a woman become a couple first without even holding hands?

What is your definition of a couple?

There have been girls who want to have a 'couple' relationship with me after hand holding and kissing. And rarely, some girls just want to fxxk without any meaningful relationship. They are not 'nighlife' girls.

Means eg. You confess then she accept so you all are officially a couple before proceeding to hold hands and kiss etc.

[warbird]

Means eg. You confess then she accept so you all are officially a couple before proceeding to hold hands and kiss etc.

Yes, for some KTV girls who do short time (ST). But some of them don't do ST.

If I like a KTV girl very much, and she doesn't 'go out' 出街, I'll establish rapport, tell a joke, and hold her hands. Next is kissing her neck and if she doesn't resist, I have a good chance of making love to her. French kissing her would seal the deal. I have detailed this process earlier in this thread.

I have not met a non-KTV girl who agreed to be my GF without first holding hands or kissing. Not even fuck buddy type of girl.

For GL women and FLs, I could argue that once the man has picked a woman, they are considered a couple for the next hour.

[ssd3469]

Yes, for some KTV girls who do short time (ST). But some of them don't do ST.

If I like a KTV girl very much, and she doesn't 'go out' 出街, I'll establish rapport, tell a joke, and hold her hands. Next is kissing her neck and if she doesn't resist, I have a good chance of making love to her. French kissing her would seal the deal. I have detailed this process earlier in this thread.

I have not met a non-KTV girl who agreed to be my GF without first holding hands or kissing. Not even fuck buddy type of girl.

For GL women and FLs, I could argue that once the man has picked a woman, they are considered a couple for the next hour.

I am referring to normal women, not ML, KTV nor FL.

[ssd3469]

Yes, for some KTV girls who do short time (ST). But some of them don't do ST.

If I like a KTV girl very much, and she doesn't 'go out' 出街, I'll establish rapport, tell a joke, and hold her hands. Next is kissing her neck and if she doesn't resist, I have a good chance of making love to her. French kissing her would seal the deal. I have detailed this process earlier in this thread.

I have not met a non-KTV girl who agreed to be my GF without first holding hands or kissing. Not even fuck buddy type of girl.

For GL women and FLs, I could argue that once the man has picked a woman, they are considered a couple for the next hour.

Short time means what?

[Harryhoubo]

Every person have different point of views

[warbird]

I am referring to normal women, not ML, KTV nor FL.

"I have not met a non-KTV girl who agreed to be my GF without first holding hands or kissing. Not even fuck buddy type of girl."

Short time or ST means fxxking a FL for a short time, usually 1–2 hrs. Not overnight.

[warbird]

Every person have different point of views

Bro, you're right.

In prearranged marriages in ancient times, a girl and a boy agreed to be a married couple before holding hands, kissing and love making.

In modern prearranged marriages, the families usually allow the girl and boy to meet to see if they are compatible. There will often be hand holdings and even kissing before official marriage.

[ssd3469]

Bro, you're right.

In prearranged marriages in ancient times, a girl and a boy agreed to be a married couple before holding hands, kissing and love making.


In modern prearranged marriages, the families usually allow the girl and boy to meet to see if they are compatible. There will often be hand holdings and even kissing before official marriage.


I am talking about becoming bf and gf, not official marriage. Do they need to confirm relationship first before hold hands, kiss etc.?

[manuelala]

I am talking about becoming bf and gf, not official marriage. Do they need to confirm relationship first before hold hands, kiss etc.?

Is your name Edwin Tong? :confused:

[ssd3469]

Is your name Edwin Tong? :confused:

What has it got to do with him? I didn't see the message above his that's why I asked what seemed like a question which had been answered before.

[ssd3469]

Tks, bro



Tks for your post, bro

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Good evening,

In Magic Tactics, Mark Raymond mentions the basics of attraction.

Now, let me show you what attraction really is for women. Women get
attracted to…

1- Someone they can't have.
2- Someone somebody else has.
3- A guy who is wanted by other girls.
4- A man who does not do what he is expected to do, which
means BEING UNPREDICTABLE.
5- Someone who has high value.

Who is a man with high value? He is the PRIZE.

You will be considered attractive in the female mind as long as you
are perceived as a male of high value.
A girl will label you a high value male when she considers you to be
more important than her. As long as you maintain the upper hand, you
will always be considered as a high value male.
Therefore, the key here is to make yourself seem more important than
the girl.
Here are certain guidelines to being a high value male-

- A high value male never tries to impress her.
- A high value male never seeks female attention or approval.
- A high value male never puts a girl on a pedestal only because she
is good looking.
- A high value male never settles for anything but the best.
- A high value male never keeps women on top of his priority list.
- A high value male is always willing to walk away when his principles
are violated.
- A high value male always makes the woman work for his attention.
- A high value male has more than enough options to choose from.
- A high value male makes the girl adapt to his reality instead of
adapting to hers.
- A high value male never chases females.

As long as you demonstrate all these traits, you will always be
considered as a high value male, and women won’t be able to help
but feel attraction towards you.

It's a state or frame. Be such a MAN.

Hi I think your sharing are all very good and I appreciate it, I am curious why you share such stuff for us to learn about attraction when most people pay for sex in this forum?

[ssd3469]

Bro, you're right.

In prearranged marriages in ancient times, a girl and a boy agreed to be a married couple before holding hands, kissing and love making.



In modern prearranged marriages, the families usually allow the girl and boy to meet to see if they are compatible. There will often be hand holdings and even kissing before official marriage.


I tried visiting a prostitute before but could not really have sex with her because it's like doing it with a stranger(whom I don't know) with no emotional connection. Anyone else has such experience before?

[warbird]

Hi I think your sharing are all very good and I appreciate it, I am curious why you share such stuff for us to learn about attraction when most people pay for sex in this forum?

I tried visiting a prostitute before but could not really have sex with her because it's like doing it with a stranger(whom I don't know) with no emotional connection. Anyone else has such experience before?

Bro, thanks for your encouragement. I'm still learning, practicing and improving.

SBF is mostly about, although not limited to, commercial sex.

When I first joined SBF, I was only interested in commercial sex with GL girls and FLs. I wasn't satisfied after 2-3 years.

As you have just opined, sex without emotional bonding is much less fulfilling. I'm sure many bros share the same sentiment and experience..

I quickly expanded the scope of this thread. My reasons? They are found in my previous posts. Here are two of them.

Post #5161 (https://thesbf.shop/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=5161) (April 2017).

"Thanks again for bros here for sharing their FRs, opinions and insights.

I also greatly appreciate those bros who hv mentioned my previous posts n my citations of gurus. Reading them remind me that I hv lots of room for improvement.

Many questions have been raised. Most of the answers may be found in my previous posts. I'll try to clarify some of them from time to time.

In the last 8 years, I hv greatly expanded the scope of this thread to include connecting w/ any female whom you may meet anywhere. Whether your intent is short term or long term sexual RS."

Post #8799 (https://thesbf.shop/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=8799) (April 2024).

"I joined SBF in June 2007 when I started spending more time in SG. My earliest posts from 2007- early 2009 were all on GL streetwalkers and local FLs. Some GL girls then were pretty, sexy, natural, and affordable, from $80-120 per shot. The local girls from $250-450. Read my FRs.

Sadly, the prettier girls in GL were largely gone by mid-2009. Only ugly girls and aunties remained. Since I never settled, I began visiting KTVs to look for my type of girl. In late 2008, I was introduced to KTVs by a fellow lao chee ko pek. As a newbie, I was not very successful in the beginning. To save money, I tried picking up girls outside KTVs, schools, near taxi stands, and in shopping malls. Read the early posts in this thread.

I have chronicled my evolution and rationale in detail. There are pros and cons in BY-ing. I used to keep a different girl every month, sometimes 2 girls simultaneously. Then my relationship with these girls became longer and longer, partly because my type of girl was becoming scarce.

Another advantage of keeping LT lao pos is that I can make love to them raw. I make sure they get regular medical tests. Last but not least, their companionship is most enjoyable and greatly beneficial to my healthy longevity."

.................................................. .

Largely as a result of what I have learned and practiced since 2007, I have been able to get and keep girls of my type. Of the four cutest 18 yo SYTs I have met in the last 9 yrs, all have agreed to be my LPs. The youngest is a student, a non-WL. She scored 1530 on her SAT two yrs ago.

Cheers!

[ssd3469]

Bro, thanks for your encouragement. I'm still learning, practicing and improving.

SBF is mostly about, although not limited to, commercial sex.

When I first joined SBF, I was only interested in commercial sex with GL girls and FLs. I wasn't satisfied after 2-3 years.

As you have just opined, sex without emotional bonding is much less fulfilling. I'm sure many bros share the same sentiment and experience..

I quickly expanded the scope of this thread. My reasons? They are found in my previous posts. Here are two of them.

Post #5161 (https://thesbf.shop/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=5161) (April 2017).

"Thanks again for bros here for sharing their FRs, opinions and insights.

I also greatly appreciate those bros who hv mentioned my previous posts n my citations of gurus. Reading them remind me that I hv lots of room for improvement.

Many questions have been raised. Most of the answers may be found in my previous posts. I'll try to clarify some of them from time to time.

In the last 8 years, I hv greatly expanded the scope of this thread to include connecting w/ any female whom you may meet anywhere. Whether your intent is short term or long term sexual RS."

Post #8799 (https://thesbf.shop/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=8799) (April 2024).

"I joined SBF in June 2007 when I started spending more time in SG. My earliest posts from 2007- early 2009 were all on GL streetwalkers and local FLs. Some GL girls then were pretty, sexy, natural, and affordable, from $80-120 per shot. The local girls from $250-450. Read my FRs.

Sadly, the prettier girls in GL were largely gone by mid-2009. Only ugly girls and aunties remained. Since I never settled, I began visiting KTVs to look for my type of girl. In late 2008, I was introduced to KTVs by a fellow lao chee ko pek. As a newbie, I was not very successful in the beginning. To save money, I tried picking up girls outside KTVs, schools, near taxi stands, and in shopping malls. Read the early posts in this thread.

I have chronicled my evolution and rationale in detail. There are pros and cons in BY-ing. I used to keep a different girl every month, sometimes 2 girls simultaneously. Then my relationship with these girls became longer and longer, partly because my type of girl was becoming scarce.

Another advantage of keeping LT lao pos is that I can make love to them raw. I make sure they get regular medical tests. Last but not least, their companionship is most enjoyable and greatly beneficial to my healthy longevity."

.................................................. .

Largely as a result of what I have learned and practiced since 2007, I have been able to get and keep girls of my type. Of the four cutest 18 yo SYTs I have met in the last 9 yrs, all have agreed to be my LPs. The youngest is a student, a non-WL. She scored 1530 on her SAT two yrs ago.

Cheers!

Here is something interesting to share. Men want sex and women want commitment or attention. But forcefully taking sex is a crime while forcefully taking attention or commitment is not a crime lol.

[warbird]

Here is something interesting to share. Men want sex and women want commitment or attention. But forcefully taking sex is a crime while forcefully taking attention or commitment is not a crime lol.

Yes, quite interesting.

Forcing someone to commit to a relationship? Marriage? Both men and women may do that. It's a criminal offense.

Don't be intimidated.

[Dr4ke]

Another advantage of keeping LT lao pos is that I can make love to them raw. I make sure they get regular medical tests. Last but not least, their companionship is most enjoyable and greatly beneficial to my healthy longevity."

.................................................. .

Largely as a result of what I have learned and practiced since 2007, I have been able to get and keep girls of my type.

Cheers!

Thanks for the insight, bro. Heard horror stories from other friends of how their girl demanded monetary benefits during the courtship/RS, in the end found out the girl has 4 'supporters' doing the same thing. So whats your trick to filter out these and keep them as LT laopo or you just play along with them?

[warbird]

Thanks for the insight, bro. Heard horror stories from other friends of how their girl demanded monetary benefits during the courtship/RS, in the end found out the girl has 4 'supporters' doing the same thing. So whats your trick to filter out these and keep them as LT laopo or you just play along with them?

Bro, you're welcome.

I have heard many horror stories too.

Good question. No tricks.

You must choose your girls wisely. Avoid a gold digger, even if she were prettier than Xi Shi. Read my earlier posts.

All plastic girls are gold diggers, but not all gold diggers are plastic.

I have reiterated the importance of qualifying a girl to be a lao po. If she is a night scene girl, she must quit working completely. Otherwise, how could you monitor her activities? BTW, it's difficult and expensive for HFJ singers to quit.

If a girl is very young and attractive, focus on her character, trustworthiness, personality, temperament, educational level, and intelligence. How much does she like you? Why?

A man must believe he is the PRIZE at his subconscious level. If he tries to fake it, his body language, facial expressions, behavior, and voice tonality will betray him. He should have a strong mental frame, always take the lead, and make her live in his reality, not hers. Otherwise, the relationship will fail.

Lastly, trust but verify. If a girl violates your boundaries, just walk away asap.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[Dr4ke]

Bro, you're welcome.


Lastly, trust but verify. If a girl violates your boundaries, just walk away asap.

Cheers!
Bro WB

This sign off really swag, haha
Still figuring out the way, cannot cross the beauty hurdle

[warbird]

This sign off really swag, haha
Still figuring out the way, cannot cross the beauty hurdle

I'm still learning.

May I know what you mean by 'can't cross the beauty hurdle'?

Don't have the confidence or believe that you're the prize when courting a very attractive girl of your type?

You need to reprogram your subconscious mind to become the PRIZE. It will take time.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[tamperman]

ealthy longevity."

[bikerjkizz]

healthy longevity."

[soleisrough]

Excellent thread. Have a lot to learn from bro warbird! :)

[dropbox]

Bro, you're welcome.

I have heard many horror stories too.

Good question. No tricks.

You must choose your girls wisely. Avoid a gold digger, even if she were prettier than Xi Shi. Read my earlier posts.

All plastic girls are gold diggers, but not all gold diggers are plastic.

I have reiterated the importance of qualifying a girl to be a lao po. If she is a night scene girl, she must quit working completely. Otherwise, how could you monitor her activities? BTW, it's difficult and expensive for HFJ singers to quit.

If a girl is very young and attractive, focus on her character, trustworthiness, personality, temperament, educational level, and intelligence. How much does she like you? Why?

A man must believe he is the PRIZE at his subconscious level. If he tries to fake it, his body language, facial expressions, behavior, and voice tonality will betray him. He should have a strong mental frame, always take the lead, and make her live in his reality, not hers. Otherwise, the relationship will fail.

Lastly, trust but verify. If a girl violates your boundaries, just walk away asap.

Cheers!
Bro WB

this is absolutely true. If she violates even a little, don't tolerate it. because that's who she really is

[warbird]

Excellent thread. Have a lot to learn from bro warbird! :)

Bro, thank you!

this is absolutely true. If she violates even a little, don't tolerate it. because that's who she really is

Bro, you're right. Just walk away.

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Good evening,

I like to share a few short paragraphs on THE most vital masculine trait which naturally attracts women. It's written by guru Mark Raymond.

See Yourself As A Man Women Naturally Desire....

Success with women is a state of mind and nothing else, because
what is in your mind will reflect in your actions. Which is why, when a
great majority of men don’t even feel they deserve the company of an
attractive woman, they don’t get any.

The Most important statement you must remember is- “She feels
what you feel.”

Women will never judge you based on your looks, words or even how
much money you have. They will always judge you based on what
sort of feelings is circulating inside of you.

What you feel will reflect on your personality, and this is the reason
why when you are nervous you have a very high chance of being
rejected, because the girl senses that you aren’t confident enough
around her.

But, at the same time, if you were to make your approach seeming
very confident, calm, and relaxed she will respond to you more
positively.


Your comments?

Cheers,
Bro WB

[SirLance]

Thanks bro WB for sharing.

[warbird]

Thanks bro WB for sharing.

Bro, my pleasure.

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Good evening to all samsters,

I lIke to share an interesting 'law' by Tim Denning.

The Jeff Bezos Bikini Babe Law

Making hard decisions is exhausting.

You can do all the pros and cons lists you like, but often you’re no closer to a decision. Jeff Bezos founded Amazon, then left his wife for some random bikini babes (hence the rather serious name of his law for life).

His law says this: “If unsure what action to pick, let your 90-year-old self on a deathbed choose it.”

This lens through which to view life makes decisions easier to make. If you don’t give a f*ck about the outcome of a decision when you’re 90, what’s the point of caring right now?

How to apply it:

Choose a big decision. Teleport to your deathbed at 90.

What decision do you make at that late stage of life? Now make that decision today while you’re comparatively young. Life decisions are simpler at 90.

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Your comments?

What top regrets might you have on your deathbed? Hopefully, you should be 100 by then.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[ghostcow]

Thx bro for words of wisdom

[warbird]

Thx bro for words of wisdom

Bro, thanks for your kind words.

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Good afternoon,

I have another brief article to share.

Women With Baggage

by Marlimus

Be extremely careful when dealing with a woman who grew up in a family where the father walked out at a tender age.

At an early age, the father, the dominant male figure in the house, is symbolic of his gender. Abandonment creates issues of guilt in the child, and does a number on the girl's ability to trust men and her unconscious opinion of men on the whole.

If the mother shields the girl from the full impact of the blow by not being bitter and by being careful not to tarnish the father image, or if the girl simply gets over it, then so be it.

However, if the mother became bitter, then that bitterness tends to pass on to the daughter.

The daughter, in turn, later goes on to test men rigorously, trying to make them jump through burning hoops before she lets down her guard, because at a young age, her trust in men was shaken.

However, she is not necessarily attracted to the men who put up with her bullshit and stick to her even though she blows hot one minute, and cold air the next.

Women who have this problem have serious baggage, and you have to decide if she is worth it.

If you decide that she is, you have to walk a tightrope. Your behavior should subtly convey that you will not hurt her, but do not jump through her hoops.

Never be more than 5 minutes late for a date. But if she is late do not wait for her, and when she is acting coldly, do not tolerate her mood swings.

In other words, you have to still be a challenge, but be trustworthy.

It is a delicate balance, and few can master it.

Gentlemen, this is from personal experience with such women.

When you are talking to a girl and she tells you that her father walked out when she was little, proceed with extreme caution.



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Any comments?

Anyone here has had a successful relationship with a "woman with baggage" ?

It depnds more on the MAN. If he is good, he can overcome any difficulties.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[warbird]

Good afternoon,

There is an interesting article written by Illimitable Man on choosing a good woman.

Will She Be A Good Mother?

A responsible man is always asking himself if a woman would make a good mother, and if the answer is no, then he doesn’t take her seriously no matter how much he may enjoy her company (or body), for she is quite literally ill-suited to the singular most important nonsexual thing a woman is valued for.

The tragedy of course is when a bad woman dupes a man into believing she’s a good woman, for in successfully fooling him a child is born that shouldn’t have been and wouldn’t have been were he acting in full knowledge, and that child is then forevermore deprived, disadvantaged and handicapped in that it will never know the purity of a good mother's love, but must live the rest of its life in this world with a terrible woman for a mother, all because said child's father was not discerning enough to learn her true nature through the smokescreen of her charms and thereby deprive her of the baby and subsequent motherhood she does not deserve and is not fit for.

You see when an insufferably cruel woman defrauds a man into reproducing with her, if he is willing to engage in extreme enough behaviour he can ultimately escape her, and wash his hands of the problem. But a child cannot escape its mother no matter how terrible or unfit she is, for it is fully reliant upon and needs that woman because it has nobody else to look after it - especially not its father, if the father left precisely because he regretted impregnating a woman who managed to fool him just long enough into believing she was pure of heart only to later discover the contrary.

And this is the side of single motherhood they never tell you about. You see, they always say that men are abandoning their children, but in truth most of the time they’re not abandoning their child, but the mother of their child - their mistake was having a child with the wrong woman, and their sin is making their child pay the price for that mistake, whilst the mother’s sin is going out of her way to defraud a man into enabling her to bring life into this world without any consideration for the child’s needs, because having a child is a superficial want of her own - an accessory for her ego rather than a sacrifice born from her purest love.

Your unborn children are relying on you to be a good judge of character, and ensure you don’t create life with a categorically terrible woman. If you fail in this objective, untold and irreparable metaphysical damage will be wrought, and yet another innocent soul will be brought into this world deprived of a good mother’s love. This is why be you man or woman, bitching out the opposite sex parent of your child reflects poorly on you, because whilst you may have come to resent them due to whatever shortcomings of theirs it is you see and are annoyed by, you chose them, and you not only chose them, but created life with them. You are, quite literally, their creators. It’s an important role, possibly one of the most important you will ever have, and so you can’t afford to mess it up. So be shrewd, become discerning, and learn how to vet well - or one day some poor child will lead a terrible life because you were insufficiently analytical.


Your comments?

The author is verbose. Sorry for his long sentences.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[dragonheart]

I had tried before,but nope successful...i guess they are more pratical,unless u are customer else they dont bother you.

i agree with u bro

[warbird]

QUOTE=dragonheart;23435611]i agree with u bro[/QUOTE]

Bro,

Airwolf's msg is 15 years old. He responded to my first post on picking up KTV girls outside KTVs. He was 'not successful.' I hope he has improved and is now a girl whisperer.

Not a customer? Tell her you are waiting for a friend, or you will book her another time.

I was a newbie then. My initial results? It was hit-and-miss. I have come a long way since.

As they say, it's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts. Never be discouraged because anyone can improve.

I have chronicled my enjoyable journey since 2009 in this thread. I have learned so much from everyone and from SBF.

Thank you!
Bro WB

[JoesephGoh]

Bro,

Airwolf's msg is 15 years old. He responded to my first post on picking up KTV girls outside KTVs. He was 'not successful.' I hope he has improved and is now a girl whisperer.

Not a customer? Tell her you are waiting for a friend, or you will book her another time.

I was a newbie then. My initial results? It was hit-and-miss. I have come a long way since.

As they say, it's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts. Never be discouraged because anyone can improve.

I have chronicled my enjoyable journey since 2009 in this thread. I have learned so much from everyone and from SBF.

Thank you!
Bro WB

Recall my first time in ktv, was so gan jiong when the girl unzipped my jeans .... but that was good memories! :D

[warbird]

Recall my first time in ktv, was so gan jiong when the girl unzipped my jeans .... but that was good memories! :D

Bro,

You must have improved a lot since then. Pls share your exploits with us.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[SirLance]

Still going strong here.

[TonyChiong]

Thanks for the nice teachings.

[MrRickyLau]

Bro,

You must have improved a lot since then. Pls share your exploits with us.

Cheers!
Bro WB

Thanks for sharing.

[MyNameAdam]

Recall my first time in ktv, was so gan jiong when the girl unzipped my jeans .... but that was good memories! :D

Thanks for sharin.

[vikingjoe]

Recall my first time in ktv, was so gan jiong when the girl unzipped my jeans .... but that was good memories! :D

Thanks for sharing.

[warbird]

Good afternoon,

I want to thank everyone who has contributed to this thread since its inception in June 2009, even to the naysayers and those who ridiculed my writings and hypotheses.

The negative posts have helped me immensely. They kept me on my feet, and I had introspection and soul-searching about my methods and 'success.'

The legendary Fan Li is my role model. Remember the story of King Fuchai, the beautiful Xi Shi, and slave Fan Li? How did the slave get the beautiful girl? Ponder on this for a while.

Your support and encouragement are the rocket fuel that enables me to improve and extend the life of this thread.

Cheers!
Bro WB

[cmelater]

QUOTE=dragonheart;23435611]i agree with u bro

Bro,

Airwolf's msg is 15 years old. He responded to my first post on picking up KTV girls outside KTVs. He was 'not successful.' I hope he has improved and is now a girl whisperer.

Not a customer? Tell her you are waiting for a friend, or you will book her another time.

I was a newbie then. My initial results? It was hit-and-miss. I have come a long way since.

As they say, it's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts. Never be discouraged because anyone can improve.

I have chronicled my enjoyable journey since 2009 in this thread. I have learned so much from everyone and from SBF.

Thank you!
Bro WB[/QUOTE]

We all are newbies. Constantly learning. Hahahhaha

[warbird]

We all are newbies. Constantly learning. Hahahhaha

Bro,

We are all learning and improving every day.

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Good evening,

A bro in my chat grp shared the following earlier today.

经过个人两年的社会研究得到大楷两性情感关系。

多金男喜欢夜场女。
夜场女喜欢普通男。
普通男喜欢普通女。
普通女喜欢多金男。

多金男：年收入200万以上。时间自由。
夜场女：泛指靠颜值身材赚钱女性，如ktv陪酒女，女主播，酒吧舞女等。
普通男：有相对固定工作，但是年收入10到30万。
普通女：普通并且自信的女性"

My reply: "Thanks, generally true, but some 'regular girls' are gold diggers."

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Yes, it's unwise to spend excessively for the 'night scene' women. The relationship will fail. For these women, it's fxxk and forget. Even 'regular' aunties are much better.

However, 'regular' virgins could also be gold diggers. Be discerning.

BTW, certain type of man will attract ALL heterosexual females. Usually a man with formidable emotional control and strong masculine character traits. He is the grand prize, just like the famous slave Fan Li. Women don't understand why they are attracted to him. They can't help themselves. 因为他很冷静很笃定，有气质风度？

It's interesting that he mentioned 普通女 or regular girls.

Two days ago, I met a "regular girl," a cute SYT in a small mall, who was selling bedding and pillows. Tall, about 170-171 cm, fair, with curvaceous and proportionate figure. Natural D cup? Also, an ample and perky bottom with a narrow waist. Quite pretty with big eyes and zero makeup.

She was very friendly and kept smiling. A student in a local public school, originally from China. I thought her parents were here. She said no, she had to pass exams to come here. I would rate her figure an 8.5 and her face a 7. She's one of the best girls I have seen in several years, unfortunately, she is only 17 years old.

Cheers！
Bro WB

[KopiOTitLo]

Very interesting share bro warbird :)

[Whore4U]

Why bro WB account become red?

[TimKaine]

Why bro WB account become red?

Oh yes! What happened?

[BlueTailTuna]

Oh yes! What happened?

Curious to know too